Kana iri tsika yekubatanidza ushamwari hwevanhu nechimwe chinhu chakanaka, chakavimbika uye chakasimba, ushamwari hwevakadzi sehuyu hahuwanzogamuchirwi nevakawanda. Uyezve, vamwe varume uye kunyange vakadzi havatendi mune zvingangoita.
Kunyange zvakadaro, ichiripo, kunyange izvi zvisiri kureva chirevo chatinoziva kuti tinoreva ushamwari. Chero munhu angati shamwari isiri yakafanana neshamwari, uye ichave yakarurama. Pashure pezvose, somuenzaniso, mazwi okuti "kuita shamwari" uye "kuita shamwari" anewo zvarinoreva zvakasiyana: yekutanga ndeyechinguva, uye wechipiri ndeyekusingaperi. Saka shamwari - kazhinji kwenguva yakati, uye shamwari-yehupenyu.
Asi uyo anoziva kuti musikana, mukadzi haagoni kunge ari shamwari, akanganisawo. Zvichida kunyange chaizvo zvechokwadi. Kunyange zvazvo, chokwadi, kwete munhu wose, nyika inotitenderera yakasimba kwazvo uye yakaoma, kune mimwe miedzo yakawanda, yakasimbiswa uye yevakadzi nature. Izvo hazvina kumukanganisa, chii chisingachinje mafungiro, mafungiro! Asi kunyanya kukoshesa kwakasimba kwezvinhu zvese uye munhu wose kunopiwa nemari. Nyika yose inofarirwa nekutsvaga kwekutsvaga kwehupfumi hwehupfumi, mamiriro akakodzera emari. Uye ichi ndicho chirevo chakasimba kwazvo, chinogona kukunda vashoma chete. Kushuva kusadzivirirwa kwezvinhu zvakasara kwakarambana kwete mhuri imwe chiuru, kwakaparadzwa kwete ukama humwe huri gumi. Ndezvipi zvakasununguka ushamwari hwevakadzi nehupfumi?
Ndezvipi zvingaita mukadzi akazvimirira angave? Chaizvoizvo, chaizvoizvo kubva pane chimwe chinhu uye kubva kune munhu akazvimiririra? Kune rumwe rutivi, hongu, anogona, kana ane basa rakabhadhara mari, motokari yake, imba yake kana imba. Asi izvi ndezvimwe zvinhu zvisingatauri, hazvizogadziri, hazvizobatsiri. Uye hupenyu hahufanozivikanwe uye dzimwe nguva hunova netsitsi, kushandura tsoka uye kukanda kushamisika, kunoisa chisarudzo chisina kukodzera. Uye zvino zvakakosha kuti pane mumwe munhu ari pedyo avo vaizoteerera uye vanzwisise, vanzwirana tsitsi uye vanokurudzira, rubatsiro uye vanokurumidza! Murume? Haazogara achinzwisisa uye anonzwisisa zviitiko zvevakadzi , iye achiri murume. Amai? Iwe haugoni kumuudza zvose, iwe haungadi kumutsamwisa, uye anogona kurarama kure kwazvo kuti asvike kunze uye kuchema pafudzi rake. Pano panguva dzakadaro uye iwe unonzwisisa kuti shamwari dzevakadzi - izvo zvaunoda.
Iye ndiye akasimba, zvichida, apo musikana shamwari dzakura pamwe chete, dzakazivana mumwe kubva pauduku. Ushamwari hwakadaro, sekutonga, hapana chinotyisa-hapana kusiyana kwehupfumi, kana kuparadzanisa kure. Zvinoshamisa sei, kana hupenyu hwakakupa shamwari chaiye inokuziva iwe, saiye pachake! Shamwari inogona kutaurwa, isingatyi, kusatora mazwi, kuchema, kugoverana, kuziva kuti vachakuteerera, kunyatsonzwisisa, kupa mazano nekusigirwa. Zvinosuruvarisa kuti havasi vose vanove neropafadzo ...
Mushure mezvose, zvakanyanya sei zvinonyadzisa uye zvisingakoshi: mufaro unoparadza hukama, zvinhu zvepfuma zvinounza kumusoro, izvo zvisingagoni kuona shamwari isiri yabudirira yehuduku. Kana zvakashata - Shamwari yurozuro yakakanganwa pamusoro pako, mari, kufamba kwenguva refu, zvinhu zvinodhura zvakatsvaira musoro wake, zvakamutora uye zvakapfigwa muvhareji yendarama. Uye kunyange kana zviitiko zvinotyisa, havasi vose vanozokwanisa kukumbira rubatsiro rwemari kubva kune shamwari. Kungofanana nevasiri vose vakagadzirira kubatsira.
Mukuwedzera, kana chiitiko chekurambana vasikana muzvinhu zvakasiyana-siyana zvekubudirira, kwakamuka kuedza kwegodo uye kuderedza, zvakare, hakugoni kumira zvachose. Chimwe chizvikudza hachibvumi kuti chiyananise, kuti musikana anobudirira uye anogona kugona zvose, uye iye panguva ino haagoni kufananidzwa mune mubhadharo. Izvo, pane zvinopesana, inoda kuva shamwari uye inoshamba neshamwari nezvipo, uye zvakanaka kana shamwari idzi dzisingatauri godo.
Asi mufananidzo unonyanya kutarisa kazhinji unowanikwa newanano yakabudirira yemusikana mumwechete uye chimiro cheamai vasina mumwe mumwe. Kupa rupo zvakadini, rudo uye mutsa, kunzwira tsitsi kwechokwadi kunotarisirwa kuti mukadzi arege kushuva, kwete kuenzanisa maitiro ake uye kukanganisa kwesikana yekomborero! Sezvo hupenyu huri kuratidza, kwete mamiriro emari, asi kusiyana uku ndeimwe yenzira huru dzekudengenyeka kweukama hwehukama pakati pevakadzi. Zvose zvaunogona kukanganwira shamwari, nezvose zvinogamuchirwa, kunze kwemhuri yake inofara.
Saka pane izvo, shamwari yevakadzi, pane, hongu. Uyewo inoitika zvinyorova, zvinodziya, zvine mutsa, asi zvakadaro zviduku, zvakashata, zvinozvidzivirira.