Chii chinopera: ushamwari pakati pemurume nemukadzi hunokwanisika, kana ...
Icho chirevo che "ushamwari" chakasiyana nevarume nevakadzi. Unogona here kufungidzira kambani yevarume ichitaurirana mweya yevamwe, ichidururira misodzi pamapfudzi eshamwari nekuda kweimwe nhauri isina kumboitika, nokushingaira kutaura pamusoro pekambani yakatengwa kana kutaurirana neshamwari kweawa rinopfuura awa? Mufananidzo unonyadzisa, handizvo!
Iyi tsanangudzo yakanyatsonaka kune vakadzi. Ushamwari hwevanhu hunobva pane zviito. Munhu asingawanzo haatyi kuonekwa asina simba.
Basa guru rinotambidzwa nemaonero. Ushamwari huri pakati pevanhu vanoita zvepabonde imwechete hwakajeka uye hunonzwisisika. Ushamwari pakati pemurume nemudzimai hunomutsa mibvunzo yakawanda uye kusanzwisisana kunyange munharaunda yemazuva ano. Asi ushamwari hwakadaro hahudziviriki uye kune nzvimbo yekuve. Inofanira kushamiswa munyika yanhasi here?
Uyezve, vakadzi vakawanda vanotenda zvakavanzika zvavo kune shamwari yechikomana, uye murume anochengeta zvakavanzika zvake zvemukadzi asingaiti kuti ave mudzimai kana mudzimai.
Kukurukurirana kwakadaro kunogona kuve ushamwari chaihwo, hwakasimba. Zvisinei, hatifaniri kubvisa chokwadi chekuti mune ukama hwakadaro, zvisinei, pachivande, pane zvepabonde. Uhwu hukama hunofadza, asi kupinda muukama hwepedyo hunosanganisira ngozi yakawanda. Sezvo shoko iri richiti: "Ushamwari pakati pemurume nemukadzi hunokwanisika kana munhu asingafariri mukadzi sechinhu chepabonde".
Uye zvakadaro, ushamwari pakati pemurume nemukadzi hunogona, kana:
1. Vakabatana nebhizimisi kubatana. Vanhu vazhinji vanofunga kuti rudzi urwu hwehukama hune hunobudirira zvikuru. Kazhinji, vashandi vebhizimisi ndivo mukadzi uye murume. Sezvavanotaura, mune bhizinesi hapana maonero akasiyana panyaya dzepabonde.
2. Unyanzvi hwehutungamiri. Sezvo imwe shamwari yangu yakati: "Ndinogona kushamwaridzana nemusikana kana tine zvatinoda." Somuenzaniso, iwe unoda kutamba poker kana kupedza maawa uchikurukura nezvemitambo kana zvekushanyirwa.
3. Ihama. Mukurudzi urwu rweushamwari ndinotenda uye ndinokupa zano. Kunyange zvakadaro, ndiri kutaura nezvei! Ndinoyeuka sei, pandakanga ndava nemakore gumi nemana, ndakadanana nemukoma wangu wechipiri ....
4. Ndivo vaimbova vadiwa. Hongu, ndizvo. Kukwezva zvepabonde, havasati vaona, asi vanozivana sevasina kunaka.
5. Uye zvino sarudzo inosvika: kana ivo vadikani munguva yemberi! Hongu, hungu, iyi ndiyo muenzaniso wangu, uye vazhinji vehama dzangu. Zvose zvinotanga nehurukuro dzehurukuro "pamusoro pazvo, pamusoro peizvi", zvakanaka, inoguma, unoziva chii ....
6. Ushamwari muhupenyu hwakachena! Ushamwari hunobva mukuremekedza, zvinowanzodiwa. Zvokutaura zvako hazvisi zvese zvakabatana nerudo uye hukama, asi kakawanda zvinowanzobatanidza kuzvipira, zvido zvekuita, hupenyu huzhinji. Vavakidzani vako havana godo newe nokuti vanoona kuti hausi kupindira muhupenyu hwomumwe nomumwe. Hazviwanzoitiki, asi zvinoitika.
7. Chinhu chinonyanya kukosha nhasi. Ndivo shamwari dzakanaka nokuti dzine maitiro akasiyana. Vamwe vanodavira kuti hukama uhwu ndohwechokwadi uye hwakasimba. Pamwe iwe unoenda kutenga, uchitaura nezvezvitsva zvitsva, cosmetics, Vasya, Masha ...
Zvechokwadi, pane zvimwe zvingave nezvine zvakawanda zvingasarudzwa. Somuenzaniso, ndiye murume wemudiwa wako wepamusoro. Kana ari mudzimai weshamwari yako. Asi kana ndichitanga kufunga nezvehukama huri pakati pemurume nemukadzi, handigoni kubatsira kurangarira mutsara wekuti ushamwari huripo pakati pemurume nemukadzi hunooma nekutanga kweusiku.
Sezvavanotaura, funga iwe pachako, zvisarudze iwe pachako kana kuti usingava neshamwari yemurume.
Mushure mezvose, kusvika pakuziva izvi pedyo nekuswedera kune murume uyu akanaka, iwe haungambofari kuti iwe wakambopiwa kuti ugare uri shamwari dzepedyo.