Akarega kushandisa mitemo yakashata yemagadzirirwo aDoman uye akaiitazve, achigadzirisa kuyanana nezvayo zvaidiwa, achiwedzera kuti kwete kusava nehanya uye manzwiro. Mukadzi akatsanangura nzira dzekugadzirisa vana uye zvaakawana kuburikidza nemubatsiro mubhuku rake "Practical Guide" Tenda Muvana Vako ". Uyewo muFrance, akatanga nharaunda ine zita rimwe chete. Panguva ino, vanhu vakawanda pasi rose vanoshandisa nzira yako.
Pakutanga kwenguva yekuva amai, Cecil akanzwa nezvemhando yeGlenDoman uye aifarira zvikuru kwaari, akatoshanyira seminari yake yevhiki nevhiki muAmerica. Iyi nzira yakamufananidza uye, ane utachiwana hwekuda kwaDaman, Lupanstal anobata nemwanasikana wake, uyo panguva iyoyo aiva nemwedzi mitanhatu yekare, achishandisa makadhi makadhi ane pfungwa dzakatorwa pazviri. Zvisinei, pamugwagwa uyu akasangana nemamwe matambudziko, uye kunyange akabudirira mune imwe kubudirira, mwanasikana wake akanga asingafariri zvikuru izvi. Mushure menguva yakati, Cecile akabva kune nzira iyi, asi akachengetedza mazano aya akashanda:
Vadzidzisi vakanakisisa kumwana ndivo vabereki vake nguva dzose;
Kudzidzisa kunofanira kupiwa nenzira yemutambo uye kumira iyo mwana asati aneta nazvo;
Usatarisa mwana;
Kuti urambe uchida kuziva, unofanirwa kushandisa ruzivo nekukurumidza.
Achishandisa aya mazano mana, uyewo maitiro ayo Lupan akabvisa kubva mumabhuku akasiyana-siyana uye akarayirwa nemadzidzisiro ake emitambo, akazogadzira nzira yemitambo uye kudzidzira kwevana kubva pamakore mashoma, ayo akavakirwa pakuumbwa kwehupenyu hwavo uye kubudiswa kwezvingave zvavakagadzirirwa.
Mukadzi wacho akavimba naye uye akagumisa kuti mwana haasi mudziyo uyo mudzidzisi anofanira kuzadza, asi moto uyo mudzidzisi anofanira kuisa. Hazvina kufanira kudzidzisa mwana maererano nehurongwa hwakasimba, sezvakaitwa mumutemo waDoman, asi kuedza kukudziridza matarenda asina mwana, nekubata kubata, kupfuura panguva ino chaiyo mwana ari kufarira uye, pamusoro pekufarira uku, mufambiro wezvidzidzo zvichatsanangurwa kune iyi nyaya (iyo inokosha, ichiti , muMetessori nzira). Kusiyana nezvakataurwa naDaman, uropi hwomwana hahufaniri kutakurwa nemashoko, asi zvakakosha kumudzidzisa nzira yekushandura ruzivo urwu uye kuhuita. Izvi zvinoreva kuti iwe haufaniri kungoudza mwana kuti iroti, uye nenzira yekambani yekurova nyaya yekuti iyi yemiriwo yakakura sei, chii chinogona kutorwa nezvimwe zvakadaro.
Nheyo inokosha yeLupan nzira ndeyokuti kudzidzira kunofanirwa kunakidza, zvose kumwana uye kuvabereki vake. Vana vanofanira kudzidza nekufarira uye nyore.
Pfungwa huru ndeyokuti muzvokwadi mwana anoda kusatenda nenzira yekuchengetedza, uye kutarisa mumhando yekufarira. Kana iwe uri kunyunyisa kumwana, zvinomudzivisa kuti azviratidze, uye -wo-kubvumira rubatsiro kunogona kuonekwa sekuputsa kwemiganhu yenzvimbo yega. Lupine anotaura kuti munhu haafaniri kushandisa chero nzira ipi zvayo kuti awane zvakakwana zvekuita uye edza kushandisa mashure ose ega kuti awane ruzivo rwakanyanya kubva pairi. Mwana wacho anofanira kugara akasiyiwa oga, kuitira kuti azviitire oga zvaanofarira.
Uye zvechokwadi, kuedza kukudziridza huchenjeri hwemwana zvakakwana sezvinobvira, haufaniri kuita izvi, kukanganwa pamusoro pemanzwiro ake. Unofanirwa kumupa rudo rwako, kukumbatira uye kutsvoda. Kana mwana akanyatsogutsikana kuti vabereki vake vanomuda uye vane pfungwa yakanaka, ipapo kukura kwake kunoenda nekukurumidza kudarika vamwe vana, anofara kudzidza nyika, anotsvaka zvakanyanya uye anowana nyore mutauro unowanikwa kune vamwe, achinyatsogadzirisa chero humwe hukama hwevanhu .
Uyezve, Cecil anoti mubhuku rake, hatifaniri kukanganwa kuti dzidzo yemwana inorema zuva rega rega, uye kuti kune rimwechete rechipiri basa rakaoma.
Kuberekwa kwomwana wechipiri kwakaratidza Lupan kuti vana vangave vasingaoneke kuti vakasiyana kubva kune mumwe, uye mune dzidzo yavo inofanira kuva yakajeka uye yakangwara seicho chikuru pakudzidzisa mwana mumwe chete inogona kusagamuchirwa zvachose pakudzidzisa mumwe. Nokuda kwechikonzero ichi, Cecil anonyevera vabereki kuti hazvidi kuti titevere maSoviet ose nekuita zvose zvidzidzo zvakagadzirwa naye.