Unogona here kuti kwete kana iwe uchida? Kutya kukuvadza ukama, kubasa kana kumba, tinowanzobvumirana nechinhu kana tisingadi kuzviita zvachose. Sei ungava? Ramba uchipindura "hongu" kana, zvakare, usamboti hongu, apo ini ndinoda kuti kwete ...
Mafungiro ehukama hwevanhu ndechimwe chinhu chakaoma, chinoda ruzivo rwakadzika uye rwusingaperi mundima iyi. Kunyange zvakadaro, ndinowanzoona chokwadi chokuti vamwe vanhu vanowedzera nyore nyore uye zvakasikwa nevanhu vasina ruzivo rwakakwana uye ruzivo mune zvepfungwa dzehukama. Mumwe munhu anokwanisa kukuramba iwe zvekuti iwe hauzombozvioni.
Zvisinei, zviri nyore kana zvakaoma kuti tibatane nevanhu, ndinofunga kuti zvakakosha kuti nguva dzose ichengetedze humwe hutano hunokosha hwehukama hwevanhu: "Usamboti hongu, paunoda kuti kwete."
Sei zvakadaro? Kana ukangobvumirana nechimwe chinhu chinopesana nechishuvo chako, iwe unopa chimwe chikonzero kwauri kuti utarisire, funga kuti zvinhu zvose zvinokusungira iwe, uye dzimwe nguva kubvumirwa nyore nyore kweumwe munhu "kuchiva" kunogona kudhura munguva yemberi. Saka sei uchifanira kuzviisa pasi pemuganhu uye pangozi, apo izvi zvingave nyore kudzivirirwa ?! Chinhu chikuru mune izvi zvose ndechokugona kutaura zvakanaka "kwete."
Izvi zvinoitika kuti zviri nyore kwazvo kune vanhu vako vepedyo kutaura kuti "kwete" pane kutaura kune mushandi kana shamwari neshamwari. Kubvumirana zvakare nechimwe chinhu chisingadikanwi kana chisingadiwi, uno "kuba" nguva yako pachako uye, zvichida, nguva yevanhu vakafukidzana uye vanodikanwa kwauri. Saka, unoda kudzidza kutaura "kwete."
Mamiriro ezvinhu anoda mhinduro "hongu" kana "kwete" anogona kuva akawanda. Semuenzaniso, hazvisi nyore nguva dzose kuramba kukoka kwemazuva ose kubasa remuchato, chikumbiro chekubatsira nebasa, zvakaoma kuramba kuuya kwevasingatarisiri, nevamwe. Mune mamiriro ose ezvinhu, haisi nguva dzose kugona kuramba zvakananga, nokuti zvinogoneka kukanganisa munhu kana kuparadza ukama. Zvakakosha kuti uuye nechikonzero chakanaka, chechokwadi uye usakanganwa, kuitira kuti usave munyengeri mumaziso evamwe.
Ndinofunga, mune mamwe mamiriro ezvinhu zvakakodzera kutaura chokwadi chechokwadi, pane kutanga chimwe chikonzero. Ndakagara pamba mumurairo nemwana muduku, kazhinji ndaifanira kuramba kuuya kwevakashanyira nguva dzose vakanga vasina kushivirira kutishanyira nemwanasikana wangu. Mumamiriro ezvinhu aya, ndangotaura chokwadi: "Ndine urombo, ndinofara kukuona iwe, asi neLisa yangu isina zororo, nekuda kwekusavapo kwehurumende yezuva racho, handigone kukupa (iwe) kutarisirwa kwakakwana. Tichakura - uye zvino, tapota! "
Chimwe chinhu ndechokuti iwe unoramba zviremera kwegore. Udza mutariri "kwete" -zvizvidzivirire ropafadzo dzinokwanisa uye nemubairo (kana kuramba kwako kunoshushikana nekushanda). Sei uchida izvi? Pane mamiriro ezvinhu apo zviremera zvinokumanikidza kuenda kumisangano yakawanda yemakambani uye mazororo, kukaramba kwaunoita kunokudzivirira iwe "leniency kubva kumusoro." Nzira yekuve sei mumamiriro ezvinhu aya? Zvichida, iwe unongoda kushanyira kamwechete kana "kuungana" kwakadaro, nokuti nguva dzose iwe haugoni kuenda kune imwe nzvimbo kana kugara uchishanda. Muchiitiko ichi, zvakakosha kutevera mutemo we "golide kureva" - zvose zvako uye zvedu.
Imwe shanduro yeukama hwakadaro: "Taura kutanga" hongu ", uye uti" kwete. " Iwe pachako, handingakukurudziri mamiriro akafanana, kunze kwekuti kana chigumisiro chekuramba chakanga chisina kusimba majeure. Kana wagamuchira kubvuma kwako kune chimwe chinhu, munhu anovaka zvirongwa zvake zvakasimba. Sei vachifanira kuparadza uye kurasikirwa nechivimbo cheshamwari, mushandi, bhizinesi shamwari kana kuziva?
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Muhupenyu zvakakosha kuti tive nekukwanisa kuvaka nekugadzirisa ukama hwakanaka nevamwe vanhu. Ukana hwekugadzirisa "hutano" hunoita kuti iwe kubudirire muzvinhu zvose: bhizinesi uye ushamwari, ushamwari, mhuri, hwepedyo. Zvakakosha kuti usakanganwa nezvako, zvimwe zvevanhu hazvifaniri kukunda pane zvako kana zvisingaenderani. Chido chako chinofanira kunge chiri parutivi rwako. Uye iwe unogona kugara uchiti "kwete" kana iwe usingadi kuti uiti "hungu," uye zvishuvo zvako uye zvaunofarira zvichauya pakutanga, pasina kufungira zvido nezvido zvevamwe.