Iye zvino pane mazana makumi maviri ezana emhuri - iyi ichato pakati pevanhu vemarudzi akasiyana. Kana iri yekusika kwemhuri ine vanhu veRussia, vanenge 85% yemhuri yakadaro imhuri umo murume ari Dagestan uye mudzimai wake ndiRussia. Vakadzi veDagestan vanoroora varume vokuRussia kakawanda kazhinji: michato yakadaro inoumba 15% chete yemhuri dzose neRussia.
Kana iwe uchida hukama pakati pemukadzi weRussia uye murume weDagestan, kana iwe uri kuronga kuyananidza hupenyu hwako neDagestan, uchawana mamwe mazano edu kune zvakakosha kugadzirira uye izvo zvakakosha kufunga.
Chokutanga, Dagestan inyika ine marudzi akawanda. Vanorarama Avars, Kumyks, Russia, Tabasarans, Chechens, Nogais, vaJudha, Dargins, Lezgins, Laks, Azeris nevamwe vanhu. Saka, kubvira pakutanga, zvakakosha kuti uzive kuti rudzi rwevanhu rwakasanangurwa rwako nderwe, uye kudzidza tsika dzevanhu ava.
Chechipiri, zvakakosha kugadzirira chokwadi chokuti hama dzemuwani dzingave dzisingagadziri kurambana nemudzimai. MuDagestan, michato pakati pezera inoonekwa seyo yakasimba. Rudzi, tsika, hukama hwevanhu, hupfumi, kutenda kunofanira kunge kwakafanana. Uyezve, vamwe Dagestanis vanove nechokwadi kuti zvakakosha kugadzira mhuri ine nhengo yemhuri yakabatana kana mumwe mugari wemunharaunda. Vatorwa vanofanira kurwisana kwenguva yakareba kuti vagamuchirwe nehama dzehuchauya murume kana mudzimai kubva kuDagestan.
MuDagestan, michato yakawanda ichiri kurongwa nevabereki. Saka kuroorana pakati pemudzimai weRussia neDagestan kunogona kuparadza zvirongwa zvavo. Uye kunyange mumakore achangobva kupfuura, tsika dzakasununguka, zvinokosha kufunga nezvechiitiko ichi uye kusava nekutya kana vabereki vachatanga kuedza kuronga kuroorana kwemwanakomana nemwenga wavanoda ivo pachavo. Kana vakaona kuti izvi hazvibviri, zvichida, havazovhiringidzi nesarudzo yemwanakomana.
Dzimwe tsika dzekusimudzira mhuri muDagestan dzinopera zvishoma nezvishoma munguva yakapfuura, asi dzimwe dzinowoneka, zvisingatarisirwi kune vose. Semuenzaniso, kuba kwemwenga ikozvino kushoma. Vakaroorana vanoba chete mumisha iri kure nemaguta, uye kunyanya kakawanda nemvumo yake. Asi mumakore apfuura, tsika yekubhadhara mwenga mari yakatanga kukura.
Kana iwe Dagestan wako akasarudzwa ndiye mwanakomana mudiki pane vose mumhuri, zvinokwanisika kuti iwe unofanira kumirira kwenguva refu yechato. Ukama huri pakati pemhuri dzemhuri muDagestan hunovakirwa pakunamata kwevakuru. Uye kana hama dzakakura dzomukomana wako dzisina kuroorwa, mhuri yake inogona kukumbira kumirira kusvikira vakaronga hupenyu hwavo. Izvi hazvirevi kuti mhuri iyi inoona chimwe chinhu chinopandukira muhukama pakati pemudzimai weRussia uye murume weDagestani. Izvi zvinongova tsika inogamuchirwa muDagestan.
Kana iwe uchida kubatanidza fate nemurume weDagestan, iwe kazhinji unoda kugadzirira kupindira nguva nenguva mukuita mitambo yakasiyana uye kuchengeta tsika.
Somuenzaniso, muDagestan, sekuEurope, zvinowanzoita kuti uone manzwiro. Pamberi pemuchato, itsika yekugumisa chibvumirano, icho chinogona kupedza makore akawanda. Uye chete kana vechidiki vasingashanduri pfungwa dzavo pamusoro pemakore aya, muchato uchatamba uye uchitamba.
Kuroorana kwakawanda muDagestan ikozvino hakusiyana nemitambo yemuRussia yakafanana. Iyi irwendo kuenda kune registry office, mutambo, nziyo nemitambo. Asi tsika dzepamberi dzomuchato wemukadzi weRussia dzinogona kushamisika.
Somuenzaniso, mune mamwe misha yeDagestan panguva yekutaurirana, hama dzegori dzinogona kuronga "chirwere chevakadzi". Vanouya kumba kuimba kumwenga nemasukisi ese ezvipo. Chaizvoizvo, ndiro mabhandi uye mapfekero, kuitira kuti munhu wose afare, apo mwenga neshamwari dzake vane mukana wekuedza pane zvakasiyana zvakasiyana pasina kutenga.
Mushure memuchato, mudzimai weDagestan anofanira kuratidza zvinhu zviviri zvinokosha: kuzvininipisa uye kuremekedza vakuru. Mazuva ano vakadzi veDagestan mumaguta makuru vanogona kupfeka zvipfeko zvakaisvonaka uye zvishongo, asi mumisha nemataundi madiki zvichiri tsika dzekufamba mune jira refu kana jasi.
Mudzimai anofanira kuremekedza nekuteerera murume wake, asi kuchenjera kwevakadzi kunotarisirwawo kwaari. Kusiyana nedzimwe tsika dzekuMadokero, umo kushandiswa kwemudzimai kunoonekwa sechinhu chisina kunaka, Dagestanians haingogamuchirwi chete, asi inofadza. Usaparadzanisa, kwete vanyengeri uye usingaregi mirayiridzo inofanira kutsvaga mudzimai wake Dagestan. Kuti agone kunyengetedza murume wake nezvechisarudzo chaanoda, anofanira kuratidza unyanzvi, ruzivo uye pfungwa isingawanzoitiki.
VaDaghestani, kusiyana nevarume vakawanda veRussia, vanopa nguva yakawanda yekurera vana. Vakadzi vechiRussia vangawana izvi zvisina kujairika. Zvisinei, mushure mokuberekwa kwemwana mumhuri umo baba vari Daghestanian uye amai variRussia, mukadzi anogona kutarisira zvishamiso. Izwi rokuti baba kune mwana mumhuri yeDagestani zvinoreva zvakawanda, uye mukadzi angatarisana nechokwadi chokuti nekufamba kwenguva vana vake vachanzwa baba vavo zvakanyanya kupfuura ivo pachavo.
Izvi zvine zvinyorwa zvayo uye minuses. Zvimwe ndezvokuti dzidzo yevarume inoumba rudzi rwakasiyana rwekugadziriswa kunyika munyika mumwana - kukwanisa kugadzirisa nyika pachavo, zvido zvavo. Mukana - kana basa reamai pakurera vana rakaderedzwa, saka vana vanogona kukura zvakanyanya kudzvinyirira uye zvechisimba. Iro tsika yeDagestanis kuti mukadzi pachake anogona kukwanisa kodzero dzake kuti atore chikamu mumhinduro yemibvunzo inokosha pamusoro pevana. Zvinogona kuonekwa zvisina kujairika kuti mukadzi weRussia ave asina kujaira kune izvi: mumhuri dzeRussia, mudzimai ane kodzero iyi nekusingaperi, uye dzimwe nguva kunyange mamiriro ezvinhu epanguva inowanzoitika apo baba vasati vabatanidzwa mukurerwa kwevana kusvika pakuyaruka.
Kana iwe uchitaura chirevo che "mwana asingabhadhari", kureva kuti, haadi kuve nevana, zvichida iwe haugone kuroora neDagestan. Nokuti mumitsika yavo, nheyo dzewanano ndiko kuberekwa nekurerwa kwevana. Mukadzi asingadi kuita izvi acharamba achionekwa seashoma, uye nokukurumidza anowira mumushure.