Vanenge vose vakadzi vanoda kuva amai. Kazhinji anosarudza basa remhuri. Kuti tishandise nemwana muduku, mutarisire iye, kudzidzisa uye kudzidzisa - zvose izvi nokukurumidza kana kuti gare gare zvinoda vakadzi vakawanda. Asi ndoga kuti kurera mwana kwakaoma, uye vanachipangamazano vepfungwa vanogara pamwe chete pamusoro pokuti baba vanokosha kwazvo kuti mwana ave akadzidziswa zvakanaka. Asi mubvunzo ndewokuti: Vana vanoda maonero evanhu here? Vanhu vanofunga nezvei?
Vana vaduku vanhu vaduku. Izvo isu, vanhu vakuru, chete munguva yedu yapfuura. Vana vedu tiri kuramba kwedu panyika. Munhu wose anoda here kuenderera mberi? Kune vamwe, vana "maruva ehupenyu," uye kune vamwe, "zvisikwa zvisingaongi." Muzvimwe zviitiko, vana, kubva pakuona kwevanhu, vanoda mubvunzo usingatsvaki mhinduro isinganzwisisiki.
Uye panguva ino, nhamba yevanhu vanozvidzivirira vachizviziva nezvekufara kwevana uye kuberekwa vari kukura pasi rose-ava ndivo vanonzi vanafree (vasina vana). MuRussia, zvakare, pane mamiriro akadaro. Kazhinji, chisarudzo ichi chinoitwa nevanhu vakadzidziswa vane mari yakasimba, iyo inogona kuonekwa, inotanga kutanga nekudzidzisa vatsigiri vebhizimisi ravo. Varume nevakadzi vanoona kana vachida vana, kubva pamagariro emutemo kusvika pano hapana ngozi. Asi, somuenzaniso, muBelarus vatove vachifunga nezvemutemo unobvumira varume-vanafree kubhadhara mitero "pakushaya vana".
Chii chakaita kuti utano hwakanaka mumuviri uye mutsika, hupfumi hwakasimba huri kuda vana? Ko vanhu ava havana vabereki here? Iwe haungadi sei kuva nevana? Kune vakawanda zvinogona kunge zvisingazwisisike. Asi, kana iwe uchifunga nezvazvo, munhu wose ane kodzero yekurarama sezvaanoda, kwete kuteerera mitemo inogamuchirwa.
Maererano nevanodzidza nezvepfungwa, izvi zvinogona kurondedzerwa nekutambudzika kwepfungwa muhuduku. Vanhu ava havana kunzwa vakagamuchirwa uye vachida muhuduku hwavo, kana zvakatoipisisa, vakanzwa kutuka nguva dzose kubva kuvabereki vavo kuti nekuda kwavo vabereki vavo vakanga vasina hupenyu hwavo, basa, chimwe chinhu.
Chimwe chikamu ndechevanhu vanoda kuchengetedza hupenyu hwavo. ndivo vanhu ava vanoshamisika kana vachida vana, nokuti kubvira pakuonekwa kwevarume nevakadzi, vanobatwa munzira dzakawanda, vana vari kutyisidzira kumira kwavo. Zviri pachena kuti havadi kutora mutoro kune umwe munhu. Zviri nyore kuraramira iwe pachako pane kugara uchichengetedza vana vako. Uye hakuna munhu ane kodzero yekutonga munhu nokuda kwesarudzo yake.
Kune rumwe rutivi, kutarisa vamwe nevabereki vavo, vasingabatsiri kufunga, nei vanhu ava vachida vana vose, kana vasingadi? Sei ndakasarudza kuti havadi vana vavo? Nokuti ndinofunga kana iwe uchida mwana, iwe haungasimudze inzwi rako mumugwagwa, mukutakura, haugoni kunyadzisa mwana nevasingazivi. Uye maitiro ekurapa mwana uyu pamba, unogona kungofungidzira.
Chisimba mumhuri chave chiitiro, zvisingaiti. Vana vanorangwa nokuda kwezvikanganiso zviduku, zvekushaya zvidzidzo zvekudzidzira, nekusateerera, chero chinhu ... Uye kana vana vachikura, zvinosvika kuti hazvirevi zviratidzo zvevabereki vavo, maitiro uye simba rakapiwa mazviri, nezvimwe zvakadaro. Zviri nani kusava nevana, pane kuva nevana, uyezve kuvashora kwehupenyu hwavo hwose nekuda kwezvavari ...
Tiri isu here kana kuti upenyu huno utsinye? Hapana anotaura, kurera vana ibasa rakaoma, zvose mutsika uye pfuma. Zvakanaka, kana iwe, vanhu vakuru, mune mwana, sei uchibvumira kushorwa? Murume muduku akajaira mafungire aya, haazive zvinoitika zvakasiyana, anoda vabereki vake, zvisinei kuti vanomubata sei. Uye, kupfuura zvose, vanoita maitiro avo emafambiro - vanozobatawo vana vavo nenzira imwecheteyo.
Zviri musimba redu uye mune zvatinoda kuti tive neukama hwakanaka nevana kubva paucheche. Mwana ndiye nhengo yakakosha yemhuri uye inofanirwa kurapwa zvakakodzera. Hazvikwanisi kufungidzirwa kuti ndiye ari pasi pega nokuti ndiye mwanakomana wako kana mwanasikana wako. Zvinosuruvarisa, kusava nerudo uye nokunzwisisa mumhuri kwava nzvimbo yakawanda ...
Ko vanhu vakarasa rudo here? Uye zvinorevei kuda? Kuda ndekubata nekuremekedza munhu, kuinzwisisa uye kugamuchira iko nekukanganisa kwayo kose.
- Utano hwemadzimai humwe humwe hwemasimba ekusimba. Amai vakagadzirira kupa upenyu hwake nokuda kwemwana wavo, rega kusiya nguva, kushanda, zvinoreva.
- Unyanzvi hwababa huri zvishomanana hwakasimba, asi kune varume vazhinji vanopfuura makore makumi mana nemakumi maviri nemana makumi maviri nemakore anomwe "anomuka," uye vanoona zvinonakidza, kusvikira zvino zvisingazivikanwi nezvevana vavo kana vana vaduku.
Sei zvakakonzerwa mune vamwe vakadzi nevarume, uye vamwe havana chavanoziva kuti chii? Kana iwe usingadi vana vako, saka vana vachakubata iwe pachavo pavanokura. Zvakakosha kuve nekukwanisa kuvaka nhaurirano nevana venyu, kuti vabudirire kunzwisisa. Vanhu vakuru vane humwe hupenyu hwehupenyu vanogona kukura shamwari kubva kuvana vavo. Ndiani watinofanira kuverenga naye, sei kwete pavana vedu? Ndiani achatibatsira kana uchida? Uye vana vachauya kuzokubatsira kana iwe usina ukama here?
Ita vana kubva pakuona kwevanhu - mubvunzo wakaoma. Asi iye anenge akangofanana nemukadzi ari kushamwaridzana, akabudirira, anowana basa rake uye anoita basa. Zvisinei, chero munhu, kunyange munhu anobudirira zvikuru - haasi akakosha zvikuru, murume kana mukadzi, pane dzimwe nguva zvakakwana kukuyeuchidza vana semumwe wepurojekiti yose ... Uye usavhiringidzika nemhando ye "mechanization" kana chimwe chinhu chakadai. Mushure mezvose, Mweya unotevera kana Mazano achiitungamirira, kunyanya kana zvinouya kune kufunga nekufungidzira munhu.
Icho chinowanzoitika kuti kazhinji kacho kubva pakuona kwevanhu vana vanodiwa, asi anoyeuka pamusoro peizvi kana bedzi muhumbera hunyoro whiskey, uye ikozvino mangwanani pane chimwe chinhu chiri kuputika kune rumwe rutivi, uye manheru masaya mwoyo ... Batsira murume wako aone kuti hapasi chete mufaro wehuamai, asiwo hukama, uye achasarudza kana achida vana.