Mubvunzo uyu wakabvunzwa zvakawanda nezana remakore rapfuura uye haisi pangozi. Pamberi pacho, mibvunzo yakadaro haina kubuda, zvose zvakagadzirirwa uye zvakasarudzwa. Upenyu munyika yanhasi nderimwe nyaya iyo munhu wese anoda kupa rusununguko, anoda kumira kunze kwevanhu vazhinji, kuratidzira iye oga. Hazviiti kuti urege kurasikirwa munyika ino. Ngatimboongororai mamwe mazano.
Musati maroorana, zvinodiwa kuti tigadzirise matambudziko ezuva nezuva. Maererano nehutano hwemagariro evanhu, hupenyu hwemhuri hunopa kupera pamusoro pezvinetso zvezuva nezuva. Saka, zvakanyatsonaka kusarudza kuti ndiani ane mhosva yezviri mumhuri. Somuenzaniso, unogona kubvumirana kuti kutanga kwakarurama kuchave kana mukadzi achiita mabasa eimba, zviduku zvezuva nezuva zvichenesa muimba, kubika. Kune murume, zvakanyatsonaka kutora kunatswa, kushamba kwemasokisi ako, kugeza (dzimwe nguva dzimwe nguva) ndiro, kushanda paimba. Kana munhu achiziva zvaanoita uye zvaanofanira kuita, anorangwa. Vakadzi vakawanda vakaroora vanonyunyuta pamusoro pevarume vavo kuti haaiti chero chinhu kumba, uye kuti nei achizozviita kana iwe usina kumubvunza kubva kwemakore makumi matatu.Asi usapfuurira mberi nemitemo uye kunyatsoshandiswa kwemitemo yese nekugadzirisa. Nguva yacho haisi yekuti izvi zvose zvinogona kuvhiringidza uye murume kana mudzimai anoramba kuchinja.
Kana kutanga kwehupenyu hwemhuri kunouya chete kubva pamanzwiro e rudo, saka kazhinji mhuri yako ngarava ichaparara munguva yemberi iri pedo, sezvo rudo harushamisi, runogona kuuya nekuenda uye kunyange kudzoka. Kana iwe ukatanga machato, kana uchinge uine manzwiro matsva uye uchidziputsa, pakarepo paanenge apera, zvino zvishoma nezvishoma iwe uchange uine egoist chete. Kuda manzwiro mumangwanani mubairo wekubatsira munhau manheru.
Nhaurirano yakasiyana inofanira kugunzwa pamubatiro wekubatana kwemazororo uye misangano neshamwari. Hazvisi nyore kuti vanhu varambe vachigadzirisa uye vasiye upenyu hwavo hwekare: kunwa neshamwari pamusoro nekunze, kunyangarika mugaraji pamagumo evhiki, vasingadi kushandisa nguva yekushanyira mabhizi saizvozvo. Zvishoma nezvishoma, chido uye kukwanisa kupedza nguva sezvandinoda, zvichava pasina. Nokufamba kwemazuva, vanhu, sezvavanotaura, "kutaurirana mumwe nomumwe", saka kusawirirana pamusoro pekunze kwekufambisa kwemhuri kuchapera.
Kutanga kwakarurama hazvirevi "kuona" kwemurume kana mukadzi, asi chii chaanotarisira iye kana pamusoro pake? "Wakaona" - tinonzwisisa sokudzokorora kwakafanana nechinangwa icho munhu achaita chiito chatinoda. Asi haisi nguva dzose inotungamirira kune chikonzero chaunoda. Kazhinji kakawanda inoshandura zvisina kufanira mumwe wako maererano newe. Chiitiko chezvizvarwa chinoratidza kuti varume nemadzimai avo vakakwanisa kuchinja imwe hafu yavo munguva yeupenyu hwavo vakatsvaka nzira dzakasiyana-siyana dzekuvakurudzira kuti vakurudzire avo vakaroorana kuita, kazhinji munyaya iyi mubairo unoshanda zvakanyanya kupfuura kurangwa. Ichokwadi ichi chinogona kudzokorora kazhinji, asi kwete vose vakaroorana vakagadzirira kuziva zviri kuitika mumhuri yavo. Nguva yakawanda inofanira kupiwa yekukurukura dambudziko racho. Usapindirana nechinetso chematambudziko evanhu vatatu, kunyange hama dzepedyo dzakafanana: amai, baba, mbuya, amai vamwene, nezvimwewo. Kusangana nevanhu ava kunogona kungokuvadza mafungiro ako.
Ungatanga sei hupenyu hwemhuri? Uyu mubvunzo uchabvunzwa vakawanda vakawanda, uye zvichida vachakwanisa kupindura mushure mekunge kwenguva yakareba, uye kwete yese, asi chete avo vanogona kutungamirira chikepe chemhuri mumvura inotambudzika yemhuri yemhuri.