Ko rati rinorota nezvei: kurarama uye kufa?
Iko kushandurwa kukuru kwemashoko akadaro kunoratidza kuti mumwe munhu anobva munzvimbo yako yega yega anoda kutyisidzira. Asi rhete chena inopikira iwe kutsigira kubva kune mumwe munhu ane simba. Ndiye uyo achabatsira kuzadzisa chinangwa chaidiwa.
Uyewo, makonzo anokwanisa kufananidza pfungwa dzako shoma uye kushamwaridzana kune vanhu vakavapoteredza. Edza kuchengeta manzwiro ako pasi pesimba uye usakanganiswa nehama, vashandi pamwe neshamwari, zvisinei iwe unogona kuita vavengi.
Kuona nyota yakafa muhope zvinoreva kuti inguva yekuti munhu agadzire kukanganisa kwekare uye abvuma mhosva yake pamusoro peimwe mhirizhonga.
Kana musikana muduku kana mukomana akaona mhuka yakafa muchirota, saka vanofanira kubhadhara zvakanyanya kune waanenge aine ukama hune rudo hwakasimbiswa. Zvichida munhu uyu haatauri nemanzwiro echokwadi uye akadzika sezvaanoita kune anorota. Mukuwedzera, chikwata chakafa chinokonzera kutengeswa kwomunhu anodikanwa, saka iwe unofanirwa kuchenjerera nezvehafu yako yechipiri.
Nyeve yakafa iri mumugwagwa, inopikira zvipingamupinyi zverota mumugwagwa unoenda kubudiriro, iyo yakaonekwa nekuda kwemaitiro evasingadi. Mukuwedzera, zvinokurudzirwa kuti kuderedze mari yavo, sezvo dare rinopfa rinorevawo matambudziko emari. Edza kusapedza mari yakawanda, nokuti munguva ino zvinenge zvichida kupinda mune chikwereti.
Bvisa mhuka yakafa kubva mumugwagwa nemaoko ako kana kana ikanyangarika, sekunge kana nemashiripiti - chiratidzo chakanaka. Zvinetso zvako zvose zvinogona nyore nyore uye nokukurumidza kukunda munguva shoma.
Mune mabhuku eroto zvinonzi kuti kuona nhamba huru yemakungu anomhanya pamusoro pebhizimisi ravo anoti uyo anorota ari kumirira mari yakanaka. Zvimwe, kana ukaona mhuka zhinji dzakafa dzakakupoteredza, iwe uri mune dambudziko guru rezvemari uye kurasikirwa kwemari.
Sei uchida kurova puroti muchiroto?
- Kuuraya komuranda ndiyo chiratidzo chakanaka kune anorota. Zvinoreva kuti munhu anogona kuburitsa muvengi wake akaipisisa. Vanhu vakakupoteredza vachakanda masikisi uye iwe pakupedzisira uchakwanisa kuziva kuti ndiani wako shamwari yezvokwadi, uye ndiani anongomufananidzira kuti ave iye. Imwe mashoko akanaka: unogona kuzarura muvengi asati aine nguva yekugadzirisa iwe.
- Mukududzirwa kwakasiyana, kuuraya rakati zvinoreva kuti iwe unogona kugadzirisa dambudziko remukati rakakutambudza kwenguva yakati.
- Kuuraya komuranda, pasi pawakawana ruzivo uye mufaro, zvinoratidza kuti munhu achakwanisa kugadzirisa nyaya inokosha inokosha yepasi rose kwehupenyu hwake hwose. Chinhu chikuru hachisi kurega nzira yakasarudzwa, sekugadzirisa matambudziko iwe uchange uine rombo.
- Kana iwe ukauraya rambo rakanaka, saka iwe unofanira kutarisisa zvakanyanya madzimai munharaunda yako. Zvingangodaro uyo ari mumiriri wekushushikana kwepabonde asina simba uye iwe unovaka kukurwisa.
Sezvo hove yakafa muhope isingafambi zvakanaka, vanhu vazhinji vanongotya uye vanotya matambudziko ari kuuya. Asi kurota uye kurota-mabhuku anodiwa kuziva pamusoro pezviitiko zvemuzouya munguva uye kukwanisa kudzivirira matambudziko munguva.