Sei murume asingadi kuroora?

Sei murume asingadi kuroora? Uyu mubvunzo unobvunzwa zviuru zvevasikana zuva rimwe nerimwe. Mushure mezvose, kubvira paucheche vanaamai vedu vakatimutsa isu tichifunga kuti chinangwa chehupenyu hwedu ndechokuroorana nekubudirira, kubereka vana.

Vasikana vanopedza nguva yakawanda, simba nemari kuti vaone sevhesi yemagazini. Dzidza maforamu, nzvimbo uye magazini yemafashoni kuti uzive nzira yekuzvidzidzisa iwe uye izvo varume ava vanoda kubva kune mukadzi. Pane pfungwa imwe chete mumusoro mangu: Ndinoda kuroorwa!

Asi, varume vakakurira nemamwe mafungiro. Murume anofanira kukwanisa kudyisa mhuri yake uye kupa mudzimai wake nevana zvose zvakanakisisa.

Munguva yedu, kana iwe ukabvunza chero mukomana mubvunzo: sei usingadi kuroorwa? Mhinduro yake ichava chinhu chakadai: unoda kuwana dzidzo, kuwana basa rakabhadharwa zvakanaka, kutenga motokari uye imba. Muchidimbu, varume vose vanofunga kurota kwekutanga kugadzira nheyo yakasimba, uye chete ipapo funga nezvewanano nevana.

Uye, ini ndinogona kutaura kuti mafungiro aya evechidiki vechidiki kune hupenyu hunopfuura kurumbidzwa. Mushure mezvose, mutsara wokuti "nerudo paradhiso uye muimba" haisi chinhu chakakwana munguva yedu. Munguva dzeSoviet, mhuri dzechidiki dzakabatsirwa nehurumende-dzakabudiswa dzimba, zvipo. Munguva yedu, democracy ndiyo inobudirira. Nokudaro, tine basa redu remangwana redu. Kana mhuri isina mari yakakwana, saka, chido, iwe ucharamba uchikakavara, kupika. Uye mhuri yako ichiri duku chaizvo inoparadzwa nekuda kwezvinetso zvepanyama, kunyange pasina kumbove nenguva yekuravira zvese zvekunakira pamwe chete.

Munhu wese kune, kana murume kana mukadzi, kurota kwechinhu chimwechete - mufaro. Vasikana chete vanoda zvinhu kamwe chete, uye varume vanoita maererano nehurongwa hwakagadziriswa - kutanga unogadzira nheyo, uye kungoita kuti varoore.

Kazhinji kacho, jaya nemusikana, vasangana kwenguva yakareba, vanongoratidzira nokuti haana kugadzirira kuroora, uye musikana wacho ari kutotanga kufambisa kuroora. Mumamiriro ezvinhu aya, musikana anofunga nezvechido chake chete, haatombofungi kuti murume anenge asingadi kuroorana anongokonzerwa chete nekuti anotya hupenyu uye matambudziko epfuma kuti aparadze zvose zvakanaka pakati pavo.

Pamusana pokuti murume haadi kuroora musikana wake, anosarudza: kana kumirira kusvikira pfuma yemurume uyu kuvandudza, kana kuti anoda kugovana.

Kana, zvakadaro, akaparadzanisa hukama, saka tinogona kutaura zvakasimba kuti murume uyu aine lucky. Mushure mezvose, haugone kutaura kuti musikana aida mukomana wake. Ndingadai ndakada, ndingadai ndakanga ndiine uye ndakamubatsira, asi handina kumborova nzvimbo inorwadza zvikuru.

Murume, kana achida hukama hwakakomba, haasiwo akagadzirira kumutungamirira kumu korona. Anofanirwa kusvika pakuziva shamwari yake yehupenyu zviri nani, kuitira kuti asazove mune ramangwana nguva yakadai sokutiza kubva mairi, maziso ake ari kutarisa.

Vasikana, kana murume iye zvino asina kuronga muchato, nyatsonzwisisa kuti nekufamba kwenguva haazokudziri chibharo chekuti hapana munhu angamuroora.

Isu isu vasikana tinonyanya kufunga nezvekuroorana. Vasikana vakanaka, kunzwisisa chinhu chimwe chete kana mukomana wako achikuda chaizvo uye iwe unonzwa; kana iye akakomba; Kana pane zvirongwa zvake zvemangwana iwe uripo nguva dzose. Ipapo, usaisa kumanikidzwa kwaari uye kumuroora asati asarudza.

Funga pamusoro pezvauchazoita nemafambiro akadaro? Kurasikirwa nomunhu waunoda uye munhu wekuzvarwa nekuda kwekuti iwe une pfungwa yekudyire kana nekuda kwemafungiro evanhu anokukurudzira zvakanyanya?

Ingorarama uye unakidzwe nemufaro, nokuti chisimbiso mupasipoti yako hachizoita kuti ufare. Dzinga, zvose zvinokanganisa kubva pamusoro zvawaisa kune vanhu uye vabereki, ingorarama uye unakidzwe noupenyu!