Sei munhu asingaiti ukama hwepedyo

Iwe wakaratidzika kuva pamwe kwenguva yakareba. Iwe nguva dzose waifunga kuti anokuda nemwoyo wake wose uye unodawo kugadzira mhuri, saiye. Asi, nokuda kwechimwe chikonzero, haasi kukurumidza kushandura ukama hwako kune imwe nzvimbo.

Sei munhu asingaiti ukama hwepedyo? Ngatiedzei kuzvinzwisisa.

Kushamwaridzana naye kwakakanganiswa nekamera muimba IF. Anokoshesa rusununguko rwake zvikuru uye haasi akagadzirira kuenda kumatanho akaipisisa kana pane mukana wokurasikirwa nayo. Ichokwadi chokuti iwe wakaenda kune zvakawanda zvakakanganisa: wakamira kuenda kumakwikwi neshamwari, kazhinji usasangana neshamwari - izvi ndezvaiye asina basa. Nditendei, chokwadi chokuti tinochera rusununguko rwavo kune avo havatomborumbidzwi navo. Asi, apa ari, anotya kuti iyewo achasungwa maoko nemakumbo. Mumamiriro ezvinhu aya, zvakakosha kutsanangurira murume wako kuti hurongwa hwako hahuna kusanganisira kumuisa mumaketani kunze kwake. Mushure mezvose, zviri pane kuvimba kuti hukama hwakasimba hunochengeterwa.

Kunyange zvakadaro, chimwe chezvinhu zvinonyanya kukosha chinokanganisa varume ndechokuti shamwari dzake dzose dzakasununguka uye hadziremerwi nehukama. Kana apinda muukama hwepedyo uye hwakakomba nemwi, anokwanisa kuva gwai rakasviba kune shamwari. Kune munhu, hakuna chimwe chinotyisa kudarika kuonekwa nenzira yakasiyana kune shamwari dzake. Kana munhu wako akazvivimba zvikuru nemafungiro akapoteredza, iwe iwe unotofanira kutsungirira, kana kutsvaka shamwari itsva, uyo achave akazvimiririra pane zvisarudzo zvake.

Vanhu vose vanoda kuva nemusikana. Asi, vazhinji vavo vanonzwisisa kuti musikana uyu anowedzera mari. Kuremara kwepanyama kwemunhu kazhinji kunopesana pakati pekuda moyo. Muchiitiko ichi, iwe unoda kuti uite kuti vasanangurwa venyu vaone kuti mari haibatanidzi basa rinokosha kwauri. Asi, kana iwe uchiri kufunga kuti iwe unofanirwa kutongana kwakanaka uye zvipo zvinodhura, saka hazvifananidzi kuputsa mwoyo wejaya uye kuona zvirongwa zvako zvemagetsi kune dzimwe nzvimbo.

Haana nzvimbo yake yekugara, maanogona kukukoka iwe. Bvumirana kuti kurarama nevabereki hausi muedzo kune vane mwoyo yakapera simba, kunyange kana vabereki vari vatumwa.

Iwe unogara uchinzwisisa, uye hakuna munhu mumwe chete mupenyu anogona kurarama nezvikumbiro zvako. Zvechokwadi, iwe hausi kuona zvikanganiso izvi iwe pachako. Uye iwe unongotarisa kuti murume wako anokusimudzira iwe nemaoko ose netsoka. Zvinonzwisisika, kwauri mumamiriro ezvinhu aya pane imwe chete inokonzera - ndiye HE! Asi, zvakakosha kutarisa maitiro ako kana, kana zvakaoma, kumbira murume wako kuti akupe mazano. Kana ichikosha kwauri, saka zvakakodzera kuenda kunyika uye kuedza kuzvishandura iwe pachako. Nenzira iyi, iwe unounza mufaro kune ukama hwako.

Iwe uriwo unhu. Iwe unogara uchiti iwe unoda kuva nevana, mhuri. Uye, kazhinji, iwe unorota zvewanano uye nokukurumidza, zviri nani. Uchi, unoyeuka kuti inonyanya kukosha kune murume? Rusununguko. Usaisa zvaunofunga pamusoro pake. Nokufamba kwenguva, iye achada zvakafanana. Uye, tenda ini, kana akatora chisarudzo ichi ari oga, iye achakoshesa ukama hwako kunyanya.

Zvichida chikonzero icho murume wako anokudzosera izera rake? Iye achiri muduku zvikuru, zvichida iye achiri kuda kutora kufamba uye kufara, uye ukama nemusikana hausi imwe yezvirongwa zvake.

Varume vakambove vaine ruzivo rwehukama hwakakomba, tarisa kusuruvara, zvakanyanya kuoma kuenda kune hukama hwepedyo hwepedyo. Vanofanira kudzidza zvakare kuvimba, kuda. Vanoramba vachinzwa kuti hukama humwe humwe hunotevera huchakura maererano nehurongwa hwekare uye kuti vasikana vose vanogadzirwa kubva mumuedzo wakafanana. Hazvisiko kuti tifunge uye, zvakare zvakare, kuti tigopesana nomunhu akadaro. Pano ndiyo imwe nzira yakanakisisa - kutendeseka, shungu, rudo uye rudo. Uye, mazamu ako, pakupedzisira achadzungaira pamberi pako. Uye, kana izvi zvichiitika, paanokutenda iwe-iwe uchava iye muenzaniso, waachazotakura mumaoko ake.

Vadiwa vasikana, nechinetso chipi zvacho muhukama, zvakakosha kutarisa pamudzi! Usaedza kuchinja uye kuputsa varume - iyi haisi basa raionga uye risingabatsiri.