Kwavari, mutsara mubhuku remibvunzo yekuti "mamiriro emhuri - asina kuroorwa" chinhu chinokosha zvikuru, chiratidzo chekusiyanisa. Ivo havangarasikirwi neizvi kusiyana kwehupenyu - zvakaoma kutaura. Ivo pachavo havatsvaki kuzivisa nzira dzavo, uye hazvisi nyore kwazvo kuvhura chifukidziro chezvakavanzika zvavo. Zvichida ndicho chikonzero hupenyu hwevachelbert hwakakomberedzwa nemanzwiro akawanda uye nhoroondo. Izvo zvakanyanya kupfuurira uye zvinowanzotarisana nazvo tichaedza kuedza.
Nhema 1. Muchengeti ndiye munhu asina kuroorwa.
Nekukanganisa kukuru kwekutanga uye kukuru, mumwe haagoni kubvumirana zvachose. Kana munhu achiri (kana kuti atove) asina kuroora, izvi hazvirevi kuti iye mudzidzi. Kuti uwane chikamu munharaunda yekutendesa bachelors iwe unoda zvishoma kudarika chidhori chiripo chiri mupasipoti yako. "Asina maturo" mamiriro ekuroorana hausi wehupenyu hwevanhu, asi mararamiro. Denderedzwa yevanhu vakadaro pane zvishoma uye ivo vose vari kure nemhuri. Chinhu chinokosha chechikoro chechokwadi ndechekunyanya kunetseka kwekusava nehanya kwezvaanoda, tsika, maitiro uye zvigadziriswa. Uye vanofunga kuti kuroorana chinhu chinogona kutyisidzira hukama hwavo hunoenderana. Ndokusaka bachelors chaivo vari kurwadziwa vanoziva kunyange chidimbu chiduku chechato.
Zvinoshamisa kuti, asi izvi ndizvo zvinokwezva vateveri kwavari. Mudzidzisi anogara ari boka revanonyengedzera paruoko rwake nemwoyo. Izvi zvakafanana mukukwikwidzana - ndiani anogona "kukonzera" munhu asingagoni kusununguka-ane rudo?
Nhema 2. Muchengetedze nguva dzose inotsika dzevanhu.
Hungu, kune chokwadi chepakati ye "chimiro chemhuri" vanachiremba, vana vakadai sevana vamai, vasingakwanisi kuita zvinhu. Asi ivo vachiri vaduku, uye vazhinji vevarume vasina kuroora vanoita zvakanaka, vanozvigadzirira. Chaizvoizvo, ndiko kuzvigutsikana uku kwavanochengetedza naizvozvo nekushingaira, kunyatsodzivirirwa kwavo uye havadi kugovana.
Zvinorwadza kubvuma, asi apo paunopinda mumuchato uyo murume anowanzosiyiwa mukana wekuzadzisa kukwana kwake. Ihwo hupenyu hwemhuri hunodya zvose zvayo zvekutanga. Kuenzana kwevakaroorana chinhu chinonyangadza, asi muchokwadi nguva dzose munhu anenge achifanira kupa zviroto zvake, uye zvichida kunyange vaviri panguva imwe chete. Saka bhakorori - chisikwa hachisi zvachose chakakwana, uye, zvichida, nenzira yakawanda nenzira yakapoteredza. Anayo mikana yose yekuzvimirira, uye hapana chipingamupinyi kune izvi, asi, zvichida, uhu hwake hune usimbe.
Nhema 3. Bachelors vanovenga uye vanotya vakadzi.
Hapana mubvunzo kuti vakadzi ivo pachavo, avo vasina kubudirira mu "kuchema" bhizinesi yakavimbisa, vakauya neizvi. Iyi ndiyo nguva yavo pachavo - zvakanga zvisina kujeka kuratidzira chido chekurova dare registry. Vatsva vakadaro havakwanisi kuziva uye kuvadzivisa nenzira yegumi. Kutaura zvazviri, kazhinji havana matambudziko mukukurukura nevakomana vakasiyana. Mukuwedzera, ndeye mudzidzi uyo anokwanisa kunzwisisa mumukadzi, kwete chiyero chekufananidzwa kwewanano, asi unhu. Bachelor ishamwari dzakanaka, vashandi, vakadzi vanobatsira muupenyu. Panguva imwecheteyo, haaiti munhu wose mukicheni, usatauri pamashandi avo asina kushandiswa uye usaedza kuita basa raamai nokuda kwevana vavo mune ramangwana.
Pane, hongu, pakati pavo uye misogynists, asi kwete kupfuura vamwe vanhu. Izvi zvinotova chimiro cheunhu, uye kwete chiitiko chehupenyu hwevanhu.
Nhema 4. Mudzidzisi haagoni kuwana basa rakanaka.
Iyi nhema yakatova yakaisvonaka yakare, asi ichiri kurarama. Kunyangwe munguva yedu nguva iyo mazwi pamusoro pevachelor inogona kugoverwa chete nevashandi vakaoma vebazi revashandi kubva kumagariro ehurumende. Mafungiro munharaunda yanhasi kune vanhu vakachinja zvikuru. Vashandi avo vachangobva kutengesa ku "zhenatikov" nhasi vanosarudza kusarudza bhizimisi yekuda. Anogara ari akasununguka, akashambadzira, anogona kugara chero nguva nguva yepamusoro, asinganonoke kubva pamba rebhizimisi. Maererano nehuwandu, nzvimbo dzepamusoro dzave ikozvino dzinotorwa nevarume vasina kuroorwa.
Nhema 5. Bachelors vanovigwa mumatambudziko emhuri.
Ane nzara, asina kusungwa asina mbatya mune nguo dzakasviba uyo anoti "mamiriro ezvinhu emhuri haana kuroorwa" pahuma yake, zvino iwe unogona kuona chete mufirimu yekare yemamhanzi. Nzira chaiyo yemazuva ano yemazuva ano inochengetedza chimiro chakanaka-ichi chifananidzo chake. Zviri nyore kumba zvemidziyo zvinogona nyore kutarisana nenyaya dzezuva nezuva. Bhakatori wacho anofara kuti anogona kugadzirisa nyaya dzemhuri ari oga. Mumamiriro ezvinhu akaoma, kushanda kwehupenyu hwezuva nezuva kana mumwe wevabatsiri vanozvipira nguva dzose munowanikwa mazita ekukurumidzira nguva dzose zvichabatsira.
Nhema 6. Muchengeti haana hutano hwakakwana.
Iyi pfungwa inopenga, inowanzotaurwa nevarume vakaroorana. Ivo, kazhinji, vanongova negodo. Nharo yavo huru - "mubhadhari haagoni kuita rudo apo achangoda chete, uye mudzimai anogara ari pedyo." Kutaura zvazviri, zvinhu zvose zvinopesana zvakanyanya - murume uyu akaroora kazhinji anomirira kwenguva apo vana vanoenda kuna mbuya kana mudzimai wake apedzisa mazuva anokosha. Muchengeti wechiitiko chakadaro nguva dzose ane chekuchengetedza kusarudza (uye kwete imwe).
Uye pane chimwe chinhu zvakare. Murume akaroora anowanzomanikidzwa kuita rudo kana asingadi. Bhakatori haafaniri kumanikidzira kunze kwekutya kwekunyadziswa ne "asina simba" kana "bastard".
Nhema 7. Bachelor vanogara zvishomanana.
Iko kuverengeka kusina kururama. Ichokwadi ndechokuti, vechidiki vanhu vasati vambova nenguva yekuroorwa vanowanzoonekwa sevanachiremba, iyo iyo pachayo inoderedza kuenzana kwezera remakore. Uye vamwe vanotsvakurudza vanotaurira vanachikoro uye vakarambana. Izvi zvinonyanya kushandura nhamba.
Zvinoratidzika kuti hapana chimwe chinonyatsopikisa chinopesana nekubatana kwe "hukama hwevanhu - husina kuroorwa". Asi zvakadaro, kanenge kazhinji pagore, apo shamwari dzose dzekuroorana dzinofara nemazororo emhuri mushure mebhaini yeOrivier, muchengeti anoshungurudzika. Ndiyo apo iye anofungidzira pachivande pamusoro pemudzimai wehupenyu. Uye panguva iyoyo chiremba ndiye anonyanya kuoma.