Chiziviso chokubhadhara - tinoverenga pakati pemitsetse

Kazhinji, ndeyekutanga kwemwaka wezhizha, vazhinji vedu tinouya mupfungwa tinoshandura hupenyu hwavo pachavo. Uye tanga nekutendeuka kwenzvimbo yebasa. Uye ikozvino tava kutarisa kushambadzira kwebasa kwechido kwatiri, izvo zvinowanikwa kune vasiri vashandi sevheti yemitauro yakazara, asi kune mazwi atinofanira kubhadhara kunyatsoteerera.

Asi pano ndiyo inonyanya kukosha yekuona zvinhu zvakadaro: iwe unofanirwa kutarisa kune vamwe zvakaenzana, pakutanga, zvisingakoshi, asi mashoko anonyatsokurudzira achakubatsira nokukurumidza kuziva kuti ndechipi chebasa raunopiwa uye kuti rinodhura iye kubvumirana. Iyi nzira ye "decrypting" zvikwata zvimwe zvakafanana nekwanisi "yekuverenga pakati pemitsetse," saka kukudziridza kukwanisa uku kunobatsira zvikuru - muupenyu huchava hunobatsira.

Somuenzaniso, iwe ungati chii kana iwe ukaona mumashoko echiziviso chinyorwa chokuti uyo anokumbira nzvimbo yacho anofanira kunge akagadzirira nguva yakawanda yebasa ? "Nguva shomanana yekushandira zviviri - hapana chinhu chinotyisa!" - Vamwe vedu vachati uye zvichave zvisina kururama. Zvinonzwisisika kuti pasina chero nguva yebasa, pasina kambani kana iri pasi pekambani yekuremekedza, nokuti nyaya dzekurumbira nekuchengetedza mazinga emabasa akawanda dzimwe nguva dzinoda uye dzinogara kwemaawa mashomanana, uye dzichioneka kubasa pazuva rokudzima. Asi kana uyo anoshandira akatoti akubvunze mumashoko ekutsvaga kuti nguva yakawanda ichave yakadaro, saka, iva nechokwadi, iwe uchafanira kushanda zvakawanda kupfuura purogiramu uye, zvichida, nguva dzose. Uye hazvigone kuti iwe uchabhadharwa nekuda kweizvi. Kazhinji mazwi akafanana akaiswa mumashoko ekunyora kuitira kudzivirira wega kubva kutsamwa kwevashandi pamusoro pekuti basa rakawanda riri kuitwa, asi izvi hazvikanganisisi mubhadharo chero ipi zvayo. "Iwe wakanyeverwa!" - mushandirwi achadzinga uyo waanoshandira uye achave akarurama nenzira yake.

Vakawanda vedu, takadzidziswa nechakaipa, edza kudzivisa izvo zviziviso umo " mukomana muduku uye akavimbisa " anokumbira vashandi kuti vashande. Kambani yakadaro kazhinji haina kupfuma, kwete kunyanya kuda uye kunyanya kunetseka kwevashandi vayo. Izvi zvinonzwisisika, nokuti kana zvisina kudaro hakuzovi nekutanga kutanga. Izvi zvinoshandiswa kune avo avo, sezvavanotaura, "ziso rinopisa", avo vanorota basa rakanaka uye vanogona "kutora" pasina misha miripo. Kutanga kwekuvapo kwemhando ipi neipi kana masangano - iyi ndiyo makomo ehuwandu hwemaawa akawanda, mubhadharo shoma, nhamba yakawanda yemabasa akanzi iwe uye remangwana risina kujeka. Rudo, muchidimbu. Kazhinji muzviziviso zvakadaro munguva yemberi, sezvo bhizinesi richisimudzirwa, inongovimbiswa kukura kwakanyanya kwemubairo.

Semuenzaniso, iwe une ziso pamusoro pekutsvaga kwevashandi kune dzimwe nzvimbo, asi pakati pezvinodiwa zvinotaurwa ndiko kukwanisa kutungamirira boka revanhu . Mira! Ngatiti, sezvavanotaura, "bvumiranai pamahombekombe"! Kutungamirira boka revanhu, kureva, vashandi, rinofanira kutungamira. Uye kana iwe ukakokwa kunzvimbo yemusoro, ipapo mubhadharo unofanirwa kupiwa zvakakwirira kwazvo, zvichienderana nemari yemusoro. Kana iwe uri kuedza kuita mutungamiri kuburikidza nekugadzira nzvimbo yakajairika? Zvadaro zvinoshuva zvinyengeri.

Izvo zvinoshanda kune izvo zviziviso zvine chinyorwa chokuti uyo anenge achikumbira ari kutarisira " zvakasiyana-siyana zvemabasa ". Hazvina mhosva kuti vangani venyu makagadzirwa "simhanyai". Hazvigoneki kuti chero munhu upi zvake atarise nezvose zvese zvekambani, kunyange nemutengo mukuru kwazvo.

Heano mamwe mazwi anowanzogara achifanira kukupa iwe, kunyange, pakutanga, hazvirevi njodzi. Kana wakambosangana nemashoko ari mumashoko ekutsvaga kuti zvose zvinyorwa zvebasa rakarongwa zvichakurukurwa newe iwe pachako , saka unofanira kuva wakagadzirira kumusangano unotevera wekutengesa mitambo . Ndezvipi zvinyorwa zvichakurukurwa newe, zvichida unofungidzira.

Ikoko kunogona kuva nemashoko akawanda akadai asinganzwisisiki, asi yeuka chimwe chinhu: chero chiremera chekuzviremekedza kana kambani inofanira kunyatsoratidza mune zvinyorwa zvekuzivisa kwekukoka kwevashandi zvese zvakarongeka, zita remamiriro ekushandiswa kunoitwa mushandi, mubhadharo uye zvido zvekudzidzisa uye ruzivo mushandi. Uye kubva kumagumo akadai "Uyu ndiwo mukana wako wekuita mari yakawanda" kana "Tinokoka vashandi. Mubhadharo wakakwirira "makiromita kunze kunhuwa kwehutsotsi.


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