Sei munhu asingadi kukura?

Zvinowedzera, mukukurukurirana kwevakadzi vemazuva ano unogona kunzwa kuti "varume havasi ivo vaimbova" kana kuipa, "murume mwana mukuru". Zvikonzero zvekupindura kwakadaro kusina kufadza, maererano nevakadzi, vanorara mukusada kwevamiririri vazhinji vehutano hwakasimba kuti vawane mari yemhuri uye vanoita zvisarudzo zvakakomba pane ivo pachavo. Uye zvino mubvunzo unomuka: chii chiri kuitika chaizvo nevarume vemazuva ano? Shure kwezvose, zvinodhaka zvevarume (motokari, vakadzi, mitambo) uye mufambiro wavo zvakaramba zvakadaro. Zvinokwanisika kuti mhinduro ndeye chirevo chiri nyore chechokwadi - ivo vana. Panogona kuva nezvikonzero zvakawanda zveizvi. Kusada kukura

Hazvina kukodzera kunyora kusagutsikana nehutano hwakasimba pamurume wechidiki. Semuenzaniso, kusada kutarisana nenyaya dzemhuri (kushambidza ndiro, kushambidza, nezvimwe) kana kugadzirisa kunogona kutsanangurwa nehusimbe husati huripo kana kuti wechikoro chakapfuura. Zvisinei, maererano nekutsvakurudza kwevanhu vanogara mune zvemagariro uye masayendisiti, nyika yenyika ino inowanzotanga kufanana neregartergen, uko vakadzi vari kutungamira, uye iyo yavasingadi uye vanotya kukura.

Nzira yehupenyu yemazuva ano inosanganisira zvipingamupinyi uye kuwira, kukurira izvo munhu akasimba uye anofambira mberi. Zvisinei, urongwa uhwu hunovhundutsa nhengo dzakawanda dzehutano hwakasimba nechisimba chazvo, semugumisiro wekuti zviri nyore kuti murume wemazuva ano agare mubasa rakaderedzirwa uye nenzira imwe neimwe awane zvigaro zvese, kana chete nyika ine utsinye isingamanikidzi kuti atore mungozi uye kutakura mutoro wezvisarudzo zvake. Vanhu vakadaro vanokurumidza kuchinja kuva vanorota, nekukurumidza kuchinja kutarira kwavo uye chido kune imwe nzira, nokukurumidza apo iyo yekare isingakwirirani nayo. Uye panguva ino, mukadzi anodikamwa anotora zvose mumaoko ake, achiziva zvakakwana kuti kunze kwake, hakuna mumwe angatarisira.

Vakadzi pachavo ndivo vane mhosva

Muchivhiringidziro chekusunungurwa, vakadzi vakagamuchira zvavakarwira kwemakore mazhinji. Chido chekuita basa, mukana wekuvaka hupenyu hwako sezvaunoda uye kuzvimiririra mune zvemari zvakatungamirira kukuti hapana nzvimbo dzakawanda dzakasara zvekurara zvepabonde zvakasimba. Uyezve, kukundikana kwemunhu kuratidza hutungamiri muhutano hwemakambani kwakatungamirira kukuti pane zvakaitika kune utera hwake, havasisiri kuita zvido. Somugumisiro, vakadzi vanogamuchira mumwe munyori uyo, asina kunge ari mamiriro emamiriro ezvinhu ari kushanda uye pamba, anoshandisa simba rake rose uye mubhadharo paari wake uye maitiro ake, umo iye anoratidza kusununguka kwake kwose kusingabatsiri.

Izvi zvave zviri

Hazvisi chakavanzika chokuti zvakawanda zveunhu hweunhu hunotsanangurwa nehutongi hwakatonga mumhuri yake. Kunyanya inonyatsooneka pamuenzaniso wose unozivikanwa we "mwanakomana wemamen" uyo vakadzikadzi vemazuva ano vanofanira kutowedzera kunyanya. Mhando dzakadaro dzevechidiki dzinokura pakati pevabereki vasina kuroorwa uye mukugadzirira kukura vanoona chete mukadzi ane simba anoedza kuvadzivirira kubva kunyika dzakapoteredza. Nepo pazera iri rekuvandudza unhu, murume anofanira kunge ari pedyo nemurume weramangwana. Asi iyi haisi yega yekugadziriswa kwechikadzi infantilism. Mhuri dzemazuva ano, kuonekwa kwomwana kuri kuramba kuchizorora, uye kana mwana achida mwana, vabereki vanowanzomukomberedza nekunyanya kutarisirwa.

Somugumisiro, mukadzi wacho anotarisana nemubvunzo wemakore-yekare - chii chaaifanira kuita? Kana munhu akadaro asina kunge asina hanya newe, ipapo mhinduro ndeyechete - kudzidzisa. Hapana munhu akati zvinenge zviri nyore, asi kune nzira dzakawanda iyo mukadzi akachenjera anogona kugadzirisa mamiriro acho ezvinhu. Chero zvazvingava, zvakakosha kuyeuka kuti hapana chinogara nokusingaperi. Nokufamba kwenguva munhu mumwe nomumwe anokura uye nguva ichaisa zvinhu zvose munzvimbo yayo.