Mukadzi mumwe nomumwe kurota kuroora. Mumwe mukadzi anorota kwete chete nezvemuchato wacho pachawo, asiwo nezvemucheka wakachena wemwenga. Varume, pane zvinopesana, kunyange kana pane vakakodzera vakakodzera kubasa remukadzi, usakurumidza kuenda kuhofisi yekunyora. Asi nei murume ari kutya zvakadaro kuhofisi ye registry? Varume vazhinji havagoni kugara vachibvuma kuti vanotya kubhadhara hukama hwepamutemo. Kazhinji, varume vanokurudzira kutya kwavo nevakange vasati vabudirira kugonana kana kuti ruzivo rwekuda, zvisiripo zvezvitendero, uye saka vanopikisa kuti kuroorana kwevanhu kune imwe nyika ndiyo yakanakisisa muchato.
Panyaya iyi, mubvunzo unomuka: murume ane mukadzi anogadzirira, anobvisa, anopisa, mbatya, anopindira pabonde naye, panzvimbo pokusaida chero chinhu, sei achifanira kutora chero zvaanofanira kuita pachake ipapo, kana zvakadaro? Iwe haufaniri kutarisira, kutyaira kuresitorendi, zvakare, kuchengetedza mukadzi haafaniri kusungirwa, uye naizvozvo inodhura zvishomanana. Mukadzi ane kodzero dzeshiri, asati asvinudza muromo wake kune waanenge achida, achafunga zvekare, uye mudzimai ane dzimwe kodzero, iyo inomupa chivimbo uye anogona kudanidzira kumurume wake, kumuita kuti aite chimwe chinhu. Ichokwadi, nzvimbo inofadza? Nenzira. Uye kamwe-kamwe pahupenyu hwemumwe musikana anonakidza achasimuka uye kana asina kuroorwa, ane mukana wekushandisa zvakadai mumamiriro ezvinhu akazoziva. Ichi ndicho chimwe chikonzero nei varume vasingadi kuva netampu yeZAGS mupasipoti yavo.
Vakadzi vehurumende, sekutonga, vanomanikidzwa kutaurira munhu wese kuti vanofara mumhuri yevanhu uye vanogutsikana nehukama hwakadaro. Asi kazhinji izvi hazvisi izvo, nokuti mukadzi wese anorota pamusoro pehukama neanoda wake achibvumirwa nepamutemo.
Varume vanotya kurasa rusununguko rwavo uye ichi ndicho chikonzero chikuru chekusada kupinda muukama hwepamutemo. Varume vazhinji vane chokwadi chokuti mushure mekunyorwa, mukadzi achakurumidza kuputsa kodzero dzake, acharamba achiratidza mabasa ake. Kunyengedza murume ari muhofisi yekunyora kunonetsa zvikuru kana iye atova nemukana wekuroorana asina kubudirira shure kwake. Asi kunyange kana murume asina kuroora, kutanga mhuri pamwe chete naye hakuzove nyore. Muchikwata chehama dzeumwe neumwe mumwechete kune vakaroorana shamwari dzinoda kunyunyuta pamusoro pehupenyu hwemhuri, kunze kwekuvhiringidza pachena nehutano hwemumwe shamwari.
Murume anotya kurasikirwa nerusununguko anowanzotaura kuti haasati aenda. Nokudaro, kuroorana naye kunoreva kuratidza rudo kune mumwe mukadzi. Pasi pemunhu pane miedzo yakawanda, saka zvakaoma kuti asarudze pamatanho akadaro uye achizviziva kuti anozvidzivirira pamufaro wehupenyu hwehupenyu. Kuda kuroora murume kuchaonekwa chete pashure pekufamba kwake.
Bhuku rakanyatsogutsikana rakanyanya kuoma kunyengera muhofisi yekuregeresa, sezvaanoshandiswa kurarama ari oga, saka haadi kuti mukadzi ararame pedyo naye. Kunyange kana munhu akagutsikana nebhakorori achiwirwa murudo, haazokurumidza kururamisa ukama hwake nemusikana, sezvo anonzwisisa kuti imba ichachinja hupenyu hwake, uye haasati akagadzirira kuchinja mararamiro ake ehupenyu.
Vamwe varume vanotya mutoro, saka havakurumidze kuroorana. Munhu anoshandiswa kutarisira hupenyu paanoziva kuti haana kugadzirira kuchinja. Uye ivo vanofanira kunge vari mushure momuchato - ivo vachafanira kushandura tsika dzavo uye kusiya zvose zvavakashandisa uye zvavanogona kuita vasati varoorana, vachigadzirisa kusvika kune rwiyo rutsva rwehupenyu. Murume wacho anonzwisisa kuti kufara kukurukurirana neshamwari kuchava chinhu chekare. Munguva yakapfuura, pachavawo nevatsva vanofarira, zvikurukuru nevakomana vakasiyana. Kana munhu achida hupenyu hwake hwehupenyu, ipapo kubva pakufunga kwekuchinja kwaanozoita kutya.
Vamwe varume havakwanisi hupenyu hwemhuri, sezvo ivo vasina nguva yakakwana yemhuri yavo nekuda kwemabasa avo kubasa. Kana murume ane musoro wake achienda kubasa, saka haagoni kurangarira kuti aifanira kudana waanoda, kuti manheru ivo vakaronga kuenda pamwe chete kuti vashanyire kana kumitambo.
Varume vazhinji vanotya vakadzi vanozivisa pachena chido chavo chokuroorwa. Varume vanotyawo zvakare nevakadzi ivavo avo nemweya yavo yose vanoratidza kuti vanoda kuwanana.
Kana mukadzi achida kuti musarudzo yake irege kugadzirisa mararamiro kwechinguva, saka inoda kutsungirira uye haitauri nguva dzose kuti iwe wakasikwa kune mumwe nemumwe.