Psychological aspects ekuwana mari yakawanda

Sezvo izwi rinonyatsozivikanwa rinoti: "Mari haina kuitika zvikuru!". Hatigoni kupesana neizvi, nokuti hakuna, kunyange iye anonyatsobudirira mabhiriyoniire, achati ane mari yakawanda. Achareva zvakakwana, kana kuti zvakakwana zvehupenyu. Kana chimwe chinhu chakadai. Asi ngatitendei kuti vazhinji vedu hatina mari yakakwana. Mumwe munhu haana zvakakwana zvechingwa, asi mumwe wemotokari itsva, asi huwandu hwakazara hwedu hahupi mari.

Mubvunzo unomuka, unowana kupi? Chimwe chidimbu-chiyero chinogona kuonekwa sekukweretesa kwevatengi. Hongu, chikwereti chinotibvumira kutenga chinhu ichocho, uye mari yekubhadhara gare gare, uye kwete zvose panguva imwe chete. Izvo zvinokanganisa hazvina zvishoma zvokuti hakuna chikonzero chekutsanangudza ivo munyaya ino. Zvinokwanisika kudzokorora mazwi emuJudha wekare: "Handitore mari yekukwereta, nokuti iwe unotora vatorwa uye kwechinguva, uye iwe unopa wako uye nokusingaperi."

Saka, mari inofanira kuwanikwa. Asi! Wati wambocherechedza here kuti vanhu vangani vanoshanda vasinganeti, uye vanovhiringidzika kubva pamubhadharo kune miripo? Uye kana mubhadharo wakanonoka? Ita chikwereti. Asi anoshanda zvakawanda! Uye zvakakodzera kuwana!

Zvinoratidzika kuti mari inoipedzisa nenzira yegumi. Chikonzero chacho chiri mukati memafungiro epfungwa mupfungwa nezvemari. Mafungiro aya akanyatsogadzikana mupfungwa, uye akaisa zvinetso zvepfungwa pakuita mari.

Kutanga: mari yakawanda inogona kuwanikwa kuburikidza nokushandisa titanic kuedza. Kana iwe ukakundwa nekugadzirisa uku, iwe uchaita basa rakaoma zvikuru muupenyu hwako hwose, uye uwane mari shoma shoma. Kutaura zvazviri, kuwana hupfumi hwakanaka hakusi kwakaoma. Tinofanira kuzvikurudzira pachedu, kuti zvinhu zvose zvichabuda, uye zvinosanganisira pfungwa.

Chechipiri: Basa rakavimbika yemari yakawanda haigoni kushanda. Zvakare zvakaipa. Kana ukaita chimwe chinhu chinodiwa kuvanhu, unogona kuwana mari yakawanda. Bhizimisi rinobatsira nguva dzose rinounza pfuma yakawanda.

Chechitatu: mari muhupenyu haina kukosha! Kwete zvakadaro. Mari ndeimwe yezvinhu zvinokosha zvikuru muupenyu hwedu. Chokutanga pane zvose, kuwanikwa kwehukuru ihurukuro uye hukuru hwehurukuro. Saka nyika yedu inoshanda. Pamusoro pechikonzero ichi, pane kutaura kwakanaka: "Zvingava hutano, uye zvese zvatinotenga."

Chechina: mari inoparadza munhu. Pamudzi wekutaura kusina kunaka. Nditendei, pakati pevapfumi pane uko hakuna vatakuri vezvakaipa kunze kwevanhu vasina misha uye varombo vanodhakwa.

Saka, kubva pane zvose zvakataurwa-zvinoreva zvinokwanisika kugumisa, kuti chikonzero chikuru chekushaya mari, inopesana mupfungwa mukuziva, kudzivirira kuva mupfumi.

Chero chii chaunoda mari, haufaniri kungoziva chete kufunga kwaunoita somunhu anobudirira, asi zvakare kutevera mitemo shomanana yakajeka:

Mutemo wekutanga: Usatora mari yako yose yakagamuchira pakarepo. Zvakakosha kudzoka zvakanaka, somuenzaniso, chegumi chezvikamu zvacho zvose.
Sei chegumi? Kutanga zviri nyore nokuda kwekambani, uye chechipiri haisi mutoro wechikwama.

Mutemo wechipiri: Kuteerera kwegumi hakufaniri kungoiswa muvharo, asi kunopiwa mukukura. Aiwa, handikukurudziri kuti utore mari yekubhadhara mari, uchipa mari pane imwe nharaunda. Ingozarura kambani yebhangi nemukana wekudzorera uye mwedzi woga woga uise ipapo iyi chegumi chegumi.

Chechitatu kutonga: Edza kutora sengozi shoma sezvinobvira. Usaisa mari mumishonga ine ngozi, kunyange kana vakavimbisa mari yakawanda. Kana iwe usina kunyatsodzidza pane chimwe chinhu, verenga mabhuku anokosha, kana kubvunza vanhu vanoziva. Mushure mezvose, ngozi ndeyezviito mumamiriro ezvinhu asina kukwana kuziva. Kana iwe uine mufananidzo wakazara, izvi hazvisati zviri mungozi, asi rakarurama mano ekuverenga.

Kupfupisa, ndinoda kuti:

Kana iwe usingaiti, rara pamubhedha, kana kuti usina maturo mumagariro evanhu, saka zvisinei kuti zvakanaka sei uye zvakanaka iwe unofunga, iwe hauzove wakafuma.

Isa chinangwa chekuwana mari yakati mwedzi, uye utange kuishandisa. Zuva rimwe nerimwe uone mari uye uverenge kuti wakasiya zvakadini basa racho risati rapera. Chinhu chikuru chokuyeuka: Zvose pfungwa pamusoro pemari dzinofanira kuva dzakanaka! Uye kubudirira hakuzogadziri iwe kumirira!

Nhanho yakanaka kwauri!