Kugadzirira sei kurambana

Chii chiri kurambana?

Kurambana ndiko kugadziriswa kwepamutemo kwehukama hwepabonde pakati pevakaroorana. Kurambana kune runyararo, kana murume nemudzimai vasingabvumirani pamubvumirano pamwe chete uye vasina zvinhu zvekunyama kana zvetsika kune mumwe nemumwe.

Kunewo kurambana kunobatanidza nekukakavadzana, kukakavara uye miedzo. Asi mune yekutanga uye yechipiri zviitiko, mubvunzo wekugadzirira kurambana kunokosha zvikuru kune vose mapato. Kubva kurambana kunorwadza kukuru kwete kwete chete kune vakaroorana, asiwo nevana.

Kurambana ndeye maonero kuburikidza nejeri rezvakaitika kare.

Nhoroondo yekuti, kuroorana mumumvuri wechitendero chero chipi zvacho chaifungidzirwa chitsvene uye chisingatauriki, uye kurambana kwakanga kusiri kukurudzirwa mumusoro, uye kunyange kutaridzirwa chivi chikuru. Akabvumirwa chete mukushaiwa kwevana, mune dzimwe nyika, kutengeswa kwevakaroorana kwaiva chikonzero chakanaka. Munyika yedu yekare, kodzero yokurambana nekugadzirira kwayo yaive yakawanikwa kune murume - musoro wemhuri. Saka, somuenzaniso, yakanga iri muAkare Yenyika, Egipita neBhabhironi. Uye muRoma yekare pasi pemamwe mamiriro ezvinhu vatangi vangave vari murume nemudzimai. MuFrance, nguva yaNapoleon Bonaparte, mukana wekurambana usina mhosva yakataurwa. Mazuva ano, muvambi wekuparadzwa kwechato uye kugadzirira kwaro kunogona kutanga rumwe rutivi, zvichienderana nenzira ine rugare kana kuburikidza nekushandiswa kwekubatsira mutemo.

Zvikonzero zvekuparara kwemichato.

Zvinokonzera kurambana - zvakasiyana-siyana uye zvakashata, zvakasiyana nedzimwe mamiriro ezvinhu: kusawirirana kana vana, upombwe, matambudziko emari kana zvemweya, kusawirirana mune zvinangwa zvehupenyu. Kushungurudzika kwepfungwa kunoratidzirwa muchokwadi chokuti vakaroorana vanopinda mukati mebasa, vanoda humwe rudzi rwekuchivaraidza, vane makambani akazvimirira uye vane zvishoma kukukurukurirana. Zvishoma nezvishoma, kutuka uye kukanganisa kunotanga uye kana murume nomudzimai vasingawani nzira yakakwana yekugadzirisa dambudziko racho, ipapo chinhu chimwechete chinoramba chiri - kurambana. Uye munyaya iyi, haisi iyo nzira yekurambana inokosha, asi yekugadzirira kurambana, sei kuponesa migumisiro yaro.

Apo nyaya yekurambana inouya ...

Kukurukurirana kwekutanga kusingatarisirwi pamusoro pekuparara kwehukama huchaita kuti utyeke pamusoro pemudzimai akasiyiwa. Murume kana mudzimai anogona kungoerekana awira muhope uye haagoni kunzwisisa zviri kuitika. Nokudaro, munhu anoedza kuunganidza simba uye kugadzirira kuuya kwekuuya. Panzvimbo yekugumburwa gare gare inouya tariro yokuti haisi zvinhu zvose zvakarashika uye kurambana kunogona kudziviswa - murume anenge asingatendi mune zviri kuitika. Uye zvino kunouya kuora mwoyo, kunogona kuisa pangozi kwete chete utano hwepamweya uye hwemweya wekambani yakabva, asiwo kunokanganisa hukama hwepfungwa hwevana. Uye chete ipapo, paunobva muhurumende iyi, iwe unogona kufunga kuti wakagadzirira kurambana uye iwe unogona kutanga kuvaka imwe hupenyu.

Kuti vagadzirire kurambana uye vararame, kuchengetedza, kusvika pamigumo, mupfungwa nepanyama, zvakakosha kutevera mitemo yakawanda: munhu haafaniri kurarama achiyeuka mazuva ekare, achiona hukama newawakaroora, achiupisa mumeso evamwe kana kuedza kudzoka; Iwe haufaniri kukurumidza kupinda muzvivaraidzo zvakasiyana-siyana uye utange ukama hutsva; usabatanidzwe doro kana zvimwe zvinhu zvepfungwa; Zvakanakisisa kutungamirira hupenyu hunotaridzika uye hwakadzikama, iwe unofanirwa kurara, kuita zvepfungwa uye kugara uchiteerera iwe pachako.

Tarisa nguva dzakanaka.

Kuvandudza hutano hwepfungwa mukugadzirira kurambana kunogona kuva kutsvaga zvakakosha mumutambo uyu. Upenyu hupenyu huchakupa ruzivo rwehupenyu hwakasununguka uye hauzobvumi kuita zvikanganiso zvakadaro.