Chii chandingareva pano icho chingaita hupenyu uye hukama nemurume wake zororo, nokudaro, kumudzivisa we grey uye mutezo, musikana chete anogona. Pasina mano ose evakadzi uye mazano, isu (uye varume) hatigoni kuita. Nzira yekuzvibata nemurume: maitiro evakadzi nehutsika hwekunyengedza, ndiyo nyaya inokurumidza kumusikana wese.
Kuda kuratidzira uye kuvaka maziso muropa revakadzi vose. Mushure mezvose, hakuna munhu anodzidzisa musikana muduku, semucheche, kushandura maziso ake pameso evanhu vasingazivikanwe kana kwemaawa kuti vatende pamberi pegirazi. Mune mumwe nomumwe wedu anoti unhu hwemhuka inonyengera. Nokudaro, kuitira kuti uzive zvakajeka maitiro ekuita nemurume, kutanga kune zvose, gadzirisa iwe pachokwadi chokuti kana iwe usinganzwi wakanaka (pakutanga kwezvose) uye usingazviratidze kunyika yose, iwe ucharega kudiwa uye uchida. Kuzvivimba ndiko kadhi yako yehwamanda iri maitiro evakadzi. Iwe hausi kuzova iye, sezvazvinenge zvichidiwa kuti uwane, saka hazvina maturo kufunga nezvemwe rudzi rwe "frills". Yakajeka, isina hanya, yakanaka, ndizvo izvo munhu wose anoda kutitarira. Saka, iwe unongoda kugara saizvozvo, pasi pemamiriro ose.
Uye saizvozvo, mararamiro aunoita nemurume: mazano evakadzi achakuudza kuti chii uye chii chaunofanira kutaura, chii chaunofanira kuita uye kwete. Mutsara uyu: "kusangana pazvipfeko - kuperekedzwa nepfungwa", kwete kune imwe mhinduro kumubvunzo uyu. Yeuka, mumukadzi zvose zvinofanira kunge zvakanaka. Kuonekwa ndeye chivako chenyika yako yepakati kuburikidza nayo iwe unoratidza iwe mukati mako. Iwe unofanirwa kunge usingadziviriki panguva ipi zvayo uye panguva ipi zvayo yezuva. Murume uyu anofanira kugara ane maonero ekutanga pamusoro pezvaunogona kuita uye iwe unogona kuzvichengeta iwe pachako. Uye kusarudzwa kwako kwemazamu, vhudzi rako, manicure uye nguo, ndicho chikonzero chekurwadza uye maawa mazhinji e "kushanda iwe pachako." Uye kutanga kwezvose, inoratidzirwa paizove chii chakanakidza kunaka kwako, kumper mudiwa wake. Uye ichi ndicho chimwezve - kuratidza murume wacho kukosha kwayo. Asi uchiziva kuti ungatevedzera sei kuravira muzvinhu zvose, ndiko kuti, gadziro rako, rinofanira kugara richifananidza nekugadzirisa uye saizvozvo zvipfeko zvawakasarudza panguva ino. Ini ndichabatisisa pane izvi, iwe unogara uine pamusoro, chinhu chikuru ndechekutikubatsire nguva dzose kutarisa, hucheche chaizvo uye rudo.
Nyika yepanyika ndiyo iyo yaanoda kuonekwa mukati mako pasi penguvo dzako, chauri chaizvo iwe uye chausingazogadziri kana kushandura nerubatsiro rwechimwe chinhu. Iwe uri mukadzi uyo anogara achitsvaga fudzi romuti akasimba uye kutsigirwa kwepfungwa nguva dzose kubva parutivi rwake. Shandisa izvi (zvechokwadi, mukati mekufunga). Usanyara kuratidzira slack yako. Iyi ndeimwe yemashizha makuru ekukurukurirana kwevakadzi nehutano hwakasimba. Simba rako riri muhutera hwako kwete kwete. Munzira iyi chete iwe uchakwanisa kuratidza mukomana waunoda iye uye kutarisira kwake semucheche muduku (kunyange zvakadaro hachisi kudaro). Murume anodiwa kana mukadzi asina simba uye asingadziviriri. Nemhaka yekuti chete, anokwanisa kuratidza simba rake uye kuda kwake, achikudzivirira kubva kuhutambudzi hwehupenyu nezvinetso. Yeuka, kune musikana asina simba, pane nguva dzose munhu ane simba. Uye kuburikidza nekuonga kwaari, nokuda kwekutsigirwa kwesimba, kuratidza manzwiro ako munzira dzose, usanonoka kutaura pamusoro pavo. Usava nehanya nekumurumbidza. Kuzarura muhukama, pane iwe, unofanirwa kutora imwe yenzvimbo dzekutanga, nokudaro uchiita kuti uite, kuti uitewo zvakafanana maererano newe. Usambofa uchitya kurasikirwa naye. Kana zvisina kudaro, kutya kwako kuchakura kuva paranoia yakasimba, iyo, nokukurumidza kana kuti gare gare, inotanga kuparadza ukama hwako. Murume uyu achangotanga kukubata iwe kuburikidza nekutya kwako.
Kunyemwerera kwako, kutamba kutarisa flirtatious kutarisa - izvi zvose ndezvenyu mazambiringa. Ziva, pamusikana mumwe nomumwe kuona nekumwemwerera kunotarisa zvakasiyana. Tamba naye mumitambo yekutaura - icharamba ichipa hukama hwako hutsva uye hupenyu huzere. Aya maitiro echikadzi anokosha kwete musi wekutanga chete. Vanofanira kunge vari shamwari dzekusingaperi dzehukama hwenyu, kutora nzvimbo yekusingaperi. Nokuti izvi ndizvo zvepfungwa dzedu, zvakanyanya kusimba kuti tifare murudo, inenge zuva rimwe nerimwe. Muchiyeuchidze kuti iwe ndiwe oga, vanhu vose vari mumadzimai avo akaderera, saka sei musingaiti kumunyengedza, muchikurudzira chimiro chisingaiti.
Kukurukurirana kwako nemukomana kunofanirwa kuendeswa nekuwirirana. Ita kukwanisa kuteerera, kuraira, kukanganisa. Kunyange zviduku-asi mukomana achafara zvikuru kuti iwe unopa kwaari, mumurume wake maonero uye teerera mazano aanokupa. Zvinonyanya kukosha kuti azonzwisisa kuti newe anogona kutaura pane imwe nyaya kunze kwekudziviswa uye zvibvumirano. Iyi ndiyo nzira yako huru yekutaurirana kwako. Ita kugadzirisa mafungiro ake uye kunyatsogona kushandisa iwe pachako, kana ichi ndicho icho ichi kana kuti mamiriro acho ezvinhu anoda. Kana iwe uchida kugumburwa kana kuseka, kunyemwerera kana kuchema, taudza pamusoro pechinetso kana kuramba wakanyarara. Chimwe chezviito zvevakadzi ndezvekuti: "Iwe uri mukadzi - saka iwe uri mutambi wemifananidzo, unoziva kutamba, kushandura masikisi uye kuita saizvozvo kuitira kuti munhu ave iwe unogara uchionga mutaridzi uye opa maruva uye chimiro chakamira kwauri chete."
Uye pakupedzisira, rangarira nguva dzose kuti iwe uri mukadzi, uye vakadzi vose vane chirabwe chavo. Vakomana havadi vasikana vanoda bhuku rakashama. Iva nekukwanisa kuchengeta pikicha yako yakakosha zvikuru mukati memunyika yako yepakati, kuti munhu anofanira kufadzwa ne "sirivha yako yevakadzi". Chinhu chako chakavanzika kwaari chinetso chakakomba chemasvomhu, chaachaedza kugadzirisa nekufarira kukuru, nokudaro achikutarisa iwe semwana. Mwana anofarira zvose zvitsva uye asingazivikanwi. Iva kuti awane nyore uye panguva imwe chete asingateereri (murume chaiye anofanira kukurira mukadzi hupenyu hwake hwose, kunyange kuva naye) uye sezvandakareva pakutanga kwechinyorwa: zvive iwe pachako uye zvakare kukuda iwe zvakare.