Chinetso chei ushamwari hwemazuva ano? Ushamwari hahusi kukosha kwevanhu. Vakawanda vanosarudza kuderedza hukama hwekudya-simba hunoshandiswa pamutemo: makamuri ehurukuro, maforamu, masangano evanhu. Uye ikoko: kunyorera mafirimu uye marekodhi, smileys, winks friendly uye periodic popping up inofadza mazano. Shamwari yechokwadi, nerufaro, haigoni kukodzera mumapuranga akadai akareba.
Ndeipi chikonzero chechiitiko ichi? Zvechokwadi, kune basa rinowanzo uye runyararo rutsva rutsvuku rwehupenyu. Asiwo kuchinja kwekurehwa kwezviitiko uye zviitiko kubva muupenyu hwechokwadi kusvika kune chaiyo. Zvose zvinonakidza iye zvino zvinonzi zviri kuitika mumutambo, pane nheyo dzemashoko, muLJ uye mamwe masangano ehutano-boltologic. Izvo zvisingaiti zvehupenyu hwehutano hunochinja maitiro evanhu vose, uye zvino iye atove akashongedzwa nebhubhu yevamwe shamwari mu 229 threads. Pano, zvino, inoreva imwe mhirizhonga inokosha pakati pehukama chaihwo uye hwechokwadi: muchokwadi, ushamwari hwepedyo hunodya nguva yevashandi sensimbi inopisa. Zvishoma nezvishoma zvinoputirana nemashoko ekunyengera uye zvimwe zviito zvakarongeka, ushamwari hwepedyo hunovhiringidza "mushandi" wake, "kumuseka" kuchigaro uye kuongorora. Uku ndiko kukurukurirana pasina, hapana kupa munhu. Chimwe chinhu ishamwari muhupenyu chaihwo. Iyo yakawanda uye yakasiyana, inoda isu uye inobatsira uye yakagoverana mufaro, kutendeseka uye kuzvipira. Iwe haugoni kuvhara shamwari yako kusvikira mangwana, iwe hausi "kusvibisa" zvakadaro, pasina chikonzero.
Utano hwehukama.
Kana, mumutauro weRussia, nzira yekuwana shamwari (kwatiri mune zvenyika). Shamwari muhupenyu chaihwo dzinokosha. Izvi hazvisi chete vatsigiri vedu, nyaradzi uye shamwari. Ushamwari hunotibatsira kuzviratidza isu, hunotipa mukana wekuve nehanya chaizvo, kuti tione kukwanisa kwevanhu. Kunzwa kushamwaridzana mune zvemweya, kuchengetedza muvakidzani, tsitsi dzisina kufarira kune mumwe munhu anoyemura munhu. Hazvishamisi, ushamwari hwakakosha nguva dzose uye pakati pevanhu vose.
Asi usati watarisa shamwari, zvipindure iwe kumubvunzo umwe: Unonyatsoda izvi here? Chienzanisa zvose zvinobudirira uye zvakashata, nokuti hakuzovi nekudzoka nzira.
Nhanho imwe.
Rega kuzvifungidzira kuti basa uye kurwisana kwekupona zvinodya nguva yako yose nesimba. Izvi hazvisizvo mune dzimwe nguva. Iwe uchanzwisisa kuzvinyengera apo iwe uchingozviona iwe pachako masikati. Unopedza nguva yakawanda sei paInternet? Zuva rega rega nekuwedzera, handizvo here?
Nhanho mbiri.
Fungidzira mufananidzo weumwe shamwari uye uzvienzanise newe - iwe pachako ungava shamwari yakanaka uye shamwari yakatendeka here? Kana zvisingaiti, tanga kushanda iwe pachako, chengetedza zviito zvako nezviito, edza kukura. Izvi hazvirevi kuti kusvikira waita zvakanaka, haufaniri kutanga ushamwari. Kungoita zvikumbiro kune vamwe, funga nezvekuti unogona sei kururamisa izvi zvinoda. Batsira mumwe munhu nekuzvipira, ita chiito chakanaka chete, tora ruoko rwomumwe munhu munguva yakaoma, ingova munyatsoteereri anoteerera, kupa mumwe wako nguva yako yekusununguka. Chigumisiro chichava.
Zvechokwadi, havasi vanhu vose vachava shamwari dzako, mumwe munhu achangoonga nekuda kwekubatsira kwako, mumwe munhu anogona kukushandisa iwe. Asi kuburikidza nechinhu ichi chiduku chevasingazivi, kana imwe tsanga yemutsa, yakadyarwa newe, inogona kunonoka. Yeuka, dzimwe nguva pfungwa yakasimba inoumbwa nechiito cheumwe munhu, chisina udyire. Munhu akadaro anooneka akasimba uye anofadza mumaziso evamwe.
Danho rechitatu.
Tarisa-tarisa. Hazvirevi kuti munhu asinganzwisisiki wekune imwe nyika uyo anobuda kubva mumhuhu paanenge ari oga manheru ekuvhurwa achava shamwari. Dzimwe nguva haticherechedzi, kuzvitadzisa, kutipoteredza isu kunewo vakawanda vari voga, vanoshuva vanhu vanozofara kugoverana nomumwe munhu maminitsi ehupenyu hwavo. Imwe inogona kungova shamwari yega waunotora nguva yekukurukurirana pamwoyo kana mukombe wei; shamwari yekare, isina kukodzera kukanganwa muhusina matambudziko; muvakidzani pavhare, maunobatsira kugadzirisa motokari kana kugara ne mwana. Kune nzira dzakawanda uye hupenyu huzhinji kazhinji hukatutira nguva dzakakosha zvakadaro, chinhu chikuru ndechokuti tibatsire ivo.
Nhanho Ichina.
Zvisinei, kana chigumisiro chacho chave chaonekwa kare, usakurumidza kupinda mudziva ushamwari nemusoro wako. Sezvo Omar Khayyam akati: "Zviri nani kuva wega pane kuva shamwari neshamwari. "Kana munhu asina kufadza iwe, kana iwe unonyara nemitemo yake yepamitemo, kana" akapukuta "tsoka dzako uye asingashandisi kukushandisa, dzoka kubva kwaari. Munharaunda ine munhu akadaro, iwe unogara uchinzwa usinganzwisisiki uye usinganzwisisiki, kana iwe ungatopinda mumatambudziko.
Nhanho shanu.
Zvimwe tariro! Kunyange kana iwe uine hutsinye husingafadzi, edza kusamanikidzira shamwari yako nekushungurudzika kwepasi rose. Tora hupenyu kwete sechinhu chakaipa, tsvaka nguva dzakanaka uye nguva dzose uzvichengete mumusoro wako. Dzimwe nguva tinongoda shoko romufaro, rakataurwa munguva yakaoma.
Danho rechitanhatu.
Kuwana munyika yevamwe vechokwadi ndeye imwe hafu yenyaya yacho. Usakanganwa pamusoro pavo, vape nguva, vatarise. Yeuka kuti havangokutsigiri chete mumatambudziko, asiwo anokupa mukana wekuita mabasa akanaka uye kuva nani.