Upenyu huri kuchinja
Nokukurumidza kana kuti gare gare vasikana vakawanda vanoroorana. Mushure mokupinda muhupenyu hwenyu, mudiwa ane zvitsva, zvinodiwa nemhuri. Muchikwata chehama shamwari dzako nevasikana vavo vakawedzerwa. Iwe unoita maziso akabatanidzwa muzhizha mumakayakaki. Fry shish kebabs musango rechando risina kuchinja mashizha echando uye murwi-duku mumusana wechando. Kurumidza kusvika kumakonti emasangano ako aunoda - mune imwe nyika isingafungi inonakidza uye inofadza - vose vari vaviri vaviri, vaduku uye vane simba.
Uye tarira iwe wakamirira mwana - shanduko itsva, inotarisirwa uye isina kutarisirwa panguva imwe chete. Kuzvidya mwoyo uye kusava nechokwadi, kuchinja mune hukama hwakanaka uye ruvara, zvisikwa zvepanyama zvemafungiro uye tsika dzepfungwa. Zvese izvi zvinotungamirira kune dzimwe shanduko mune imwe nguva yekare yekugara uye denderedzwa yekukurukurirana. Kutamba kusvikira mangwanani mune chikwata chakazadza utsi, kufara kunoputika pa rink uye zvimwe zvinofadza zvinonakidza zvino zviri kunonoka kwekanguva.
Iwe hausati wambosangana, muhupenyu hwevaimbova shamwari dzechipfuva, zviitiko zvinowanzoitika, kwausingazove mutambo. Kuzviremekedza kwako kwakagumburwa, vanogumburwa nekushushikana kwako nekunyanya kunzwisisika. Kunouya kunonoka kusingadzivisiki mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro. Chii chandinofanira kuita? Nzira yekuchengetedza yakwegura uye kuwana shamwari itsva dzakanaka kuti dzinzwisise iwe nehafu yezwi? Zvikwereti munharaunda yakashamwaridzana yakashamwaridzana, inokonzerwa nekuchinja kwechinguva mune hutano, zvido uye mikana, kutya, kutsamwa uye kunoda kudzorerwa. Chero kushanduka kupi munharaunda yakajairika hakugone asi kunoshungurudza.
Uye pasina. Usatsamwira uye pakupedzisira uvige zvakanyanya kuda iwe hukama pamwoyo wako. Izvi hazvizoperi kwenguva refu. Vakawanda veuimbova shamwari dzako, vari mune imwe nzvimbo, vanozoteerera nehanya zvakanyanya kune mazano enyu. Vachadzoka kumhuri yenyu zvakare, asi nevarume vavo nevana vavo. Panguva ino, zvakakosha kutarisa zvinhu zvakanaka mumamiriro ezvinhu akachinjwa ekukurukurirana - shamwari itsva, iyo, sezvinozivikanwa, haiiti zvakawanda.
Ndekupi pandingawana shamwari neshamwari?
Shamwari uye vanozivana vanogona kuwanikwa pose paunoenda. Uye nzira dzako dzakashanduka zvakare. Saka, ikozvino iwe uri purogiramu, iwe uri, kutanga kune dzose, mukukurukurirana kwevakadzi. Nzvimbo itsva. Pano iwe waimbova kamwe chete pagore kuti uone chiremba uye hauna kugara kwenguva refu. Zvino zvose zvakasiyana. Iwe haunzwi uine chivimbo chakasimba, tarisa pamadziro "kuratidzika kwekuona" kwehumwe ruzivo rwetsika uye tarisira kusakanganisika nguva dzekuongorora. Siya maitiro asina kufadza nguva yavo. Tarisa-tarisa. Tarisa kutarisa kune vavakidzani - mumatafura ekufambidzana akasungirirwa pamusana unonstrained. Iwe unogara uine nguva yekuenda kumba, asi denderedzwa yevazive inoda kuwedzerwa. Uye nokuda kwekufara, uye nokuda "kugovana uchenjeri", uye kutsigira tsika, uye kungovhiringidza. Zvichida, mhando dzehurukuro pakutanga dzinoratidzika kwauri pane zvishoma zvakanyanya mumusoro wezvokurapa. Zvaunofanira kuita, iwe muchechi. Asi izvi ndezvokutanga. Kudzidza mumwe nemumwe pedyo (uye iwe uchafanira kusangana kanopfuura kamwechete), uchawana dzimwe nyaya uye zvingasarudzwa zvekutaurirana. Munzvimbo yekutengesa yepedyo yekombe yetii, somuenzaniso.
Tinoenda mberi. Kupi? Zvechokwadi, kuchitoro. Maererano nevakawanda, pamuviri uye kuberekwa kwomwana mune ramangwana inokosha nguva yekutengesa kunonaka. Taurai mazai ezvitoro zvakasiyana-siyana uye maresitorendi ari pedyo kuti muzive chaipo kuti munogona kuporesa. Uye-enda mberi! Pano iwe uchatsigirwa neshamwari dzekare, uye itsva. Uye muzvitoro iwe zvechokwadi uchasangana nevakadzi vakanaka. Navo zvichange zvichikwanisika kukurukura kwete chete kuwandisa kwehuwandu hwehupfeko hwekushongedza kwezhizha zemazhizha kana kushandiswa kwebhanji rekambani yakasimba. Ndiani akataura kuti kutenga hakusi kutambira kunonakidza, kana iwe uchienda kune iyo zvinoshamisa, nekunakidza uye nekambani yakanaka?
Nguva yakakura yevanhu vatsva vazivana ichakupa iwe kufamba kweusiku. Kana zvisati zvaitika kufamba kwako kwaive kwakakwana kune hukama hwakanaka nemutambi munzeve uye rwendo rwekutengesa, ikozvino uri kutamba uchifambisa manheru. Nyatsoongorora vatambi vari muchivanze, mupaki. Kwete kune avo vari munharaunda yakafanana, asiwo kune vanaamai vane vana vaduku, vanakidza madzimai akare pamabhenji. Kubudirira kwekuona mutsa unonzwisisana, mazwi mashomanana emhando zvakakwana kuti atange mutoro unorema. Kana ruzivo rutsva ruchiita serusingabviri, iwe unogona kugara uchichinja nzvimbo uye nguva yekufamba. Kuti uzive vanhu vari pedyo newe mupfungwa, iwe unogona kupi zvako.
Indaneti inoshanda kwauri
Panewo kutaura kwakashanda paIndaneti. Usazvidzivirira kushanyira vanhu vakasiyana-siyana, zvisinei kuti zvinonakidza pfungwa dzinokurukurwa pamusoro pavo ndezvi. Iva neuchenjeri, uchizviedza iwe pachako kana imwe yakakurumbira muInternational community pfungwa. Tsvaga nzvimbo dzakasiyana-siyana dzakakurumbira. Kunongobva pamigumisiro yeruzivo rwawakarongedza uye mushure mokuziva mazano evaya vakaongorora pfungwa itsva pamusoro pako, tora mhedziso yako. Sarudza ruzivo rwemashoko akakodzera iwe, uye iwe chete - semunhu akakurumbira uye anonzwisisa.
Ngwarira kwete kungoenda kune masayiti kuvakadzi vanotarisira. Asiwo munharaunda munyaya dziri nyaya dzepfungwa dzemhuri kana imba. Zvinogara zvichifadza kutaura nevaya vanewe "muchikepe chimwe chete." Hazvina kunaka here "kushambidza mabwe" pamwechete naamai vamwene vangu? Kana kuti kurukura nezvekugadziriswa kwekuchengetedza imba, kuchinjana mapepa uye magwaro e-lullabies, kungotsigirana? Uye zvakadaro, nekushingaira kukurukurirana pane imwe nyika musangano iyi kana kuti iyo nyaya yepamusoro, usakanganwa nezvemaguta eguta rako. Kukurukurirana nenyika huru kunofadza uye kunodzidzisa. Asi zvakanaka dzimwe nguva kubva mu "World Wide Web" uye kusangana "muhupenyu chaihwo" nevanozivikanwa vatsva.
Usanamatira!
Usakanganwa nezvezvinodiwa zvekare uye zvinokuvaraidza, pamusoro pokusimudza unyanzvi hwehutano hwepamhizha. Ona nyaya huru uye nhau dzinovhara pane zvidzidzo zvaunofarira mberi. Zvichida, manheru ekumuka kwekuberekwa uye nguva inotambudza pakuberekwa kwevabereki, zvinhu zvose zvekare zvinofadza zvinoita sezvisingakoshi uye zviri kure. Tenda, zvisinei, izvi hazvisi izvo. Uye nguva inofamba nokukurumidza. Uye kushanduka kubva kune rimwe rudzi rwebasa kune rimwe rinobatsira kutsauswa pazvinotarisirwa zvisingadikanwi zvakanyanya zvinowanzoonekwa nevakawanda vedu munguva ino. Mukuwedzera, kuzvifunga kuzviziva mumhuri-nyaya yevana, iwe une mufaro uye kusazvipira nemaoko ako pachako kuumba "cage" kubva kwaunozoedza kutiza.
Zvakakosha here kuisa upenyu hwako pasi? Yeuka pamusoro pezvinhu izvi zvinonakidza, izvo nguva dzose dzisina nguva muhupenyu hwekare. Shandisa zvinoshandiswa nehupenyu huchishandurwa uye uite kuti kurota kwekare zvizadziswe. Zvishoma pamusana pekuunganidza ruzivo pamusoro pebasa rezviroto zvako, zvingave zvichikwikwidza nemvura yakachena, kutamba gitare kana kugadzirisa inorem. Pfungwa yacho haisi yepamusoro, asi mukuchengetedza pachedu zvakanaka. Uye izvi zvinokurudzirwa zvikuru nekukurukurirana nevanhu vanoshingaira vari pedyo newe mubasa ravo. Muhupenyu kune zvimwe zvinhu zvakawanda zvinoshamisa, uye pamuviri unowedzera hupenyu hwako. Zvakakosha here kuishandisa sechikonzero chokururamisa tsika yemagariro uye chimiro chekuedza kusiya zvose zvakanaka muupenyu "zvekare"? Uye, sezvamunoziva, zvitsva zvitsva zviri shamwari itsva.
Usatarira nguva dzose nhanho yakanaka. Shamwari dzatisingawaniki kakawanda munguva ipi zvoupenyu uye tinozvida nguva dzose. Zvinokwanisika uye kuzvidzora uye kuora mwoyo, asiwo kuwanikwa kwezvipo zvinoshamisa nenzira yekushamwaridzana kusinganzwisisi nevanhu vane pfungwa dzakadaro. Zvakakosha kuedza kuchengetedza ukama hwakanaka neshamwari dzekare. Muhupenyu huchava nezvimwe zvakawanda zvinoshanduka. Uye shamwari dzechokwadi dzinoramba kana iwe uchizvitarisira zvishoma. Zvichida iwe hausiwe kakawanda wakasarudzwa pamwe chete kune imwe kambani yemagetsi kana picnic. Zvisinei, iwe unogona kukoka shamwari dzako manheru manheru kuai chai chaiyo kana pie maererano nezvakagadzirwa kare. Tarisa mufirimu mutsva, unosangana pane imwe mharidzo, pamusoro pezvawakanzwa, uye taura mumhepo yakasununguka.
Nyaya inokosha ndeyekuti unochengetedza sei shamwari idzi, dzinodiwa kwauri, asi zvino, kana kuti, hazvizove nekuwana vana? Ngwarira! Usaita kuti vasikana vasina vana vakubatsire iwe nyaya dzekukurukurirana. Iyi mibvunzo iwe uchakurukura mune imwe denderedzwa. Kumbira chete izvo shamwari yako inofarira uye yakabatana iwe kare. Mubvunze nezvezvinetso uye zvinokuvaraidza. Asi usambozvibvumira mibvunzo yakadai sekuti: "Zvakanaka, uye uripi?" Uye mazwi anowirirana. Zvinonzwisisika kuti chido chako kumusikana wake chakazara nemufaro sezvaunoita. Asi maonero ako pamusoro pomufaro haasi nguva dzose anodiwa kurarama. Haikwanisi kurwisa, uye iwe wakadanwa, "yakaitwa"? Nokuzvidira uye nekumwemwerera kwekumbira ruregerero nekuda kwekushaya kwako, apo iwe unogona kuguma pakupedzisira. Zuva remumwe shamwari ibhizimusi rake, uye iwe hauna kodzero yekumuudza. Asi shamwari inofanira kupiwa kuti inzwe kusakodzera kwemashoko ari mumweya: "Zvakanaka, sei wakaida?". Kuremekedzana ndiyo imwe nzira yakanakisisa yehukama mune imwe nguva yeupenyu.
Kana hupenyu hwehutano husingakonzeri matambudziko ako, ramba uchiita mararamiro ehupenyu mukambani inowanzogara. Kana kushamwaridzana kwakadaro kusingauyi mufaro wekutaurirana - usanetseka! Kana ukaedza, iwe uchawana zvakare shamwari dzakanaka uye vakawanda vanozivana navo. Kuchengeta shamwari dzekare nekuzivana nevatsva, hupenyu hwako huchava hwakapfuma nemufaro uye hukuru hwekutaurirana kwevanhu.