Upombwe hunoita basa here?

Nzanga yevanhu vanoona upombwe sechinhu chisina kunaka, chinonyadzisa. Zvisinei, nhamba huru yekurambana kwevanhu vakaroorana, iripo nhasi, inokonzera kunzwisisa kwakadzika kwezvinokonzera uye zviito zvekuita kutonga.


Murume wemazuva ano anobatanidzwa mumhando dzakasiyana-siyana dzehukama. Memoria kuwirirana, anovakawo hutano hunobudirira neshamwari, shamwari, uye vashandi pamwe chete mubasa rekuunganidza.


Pfungwa yezvino kubudirira inokonzera vanhu kusimbisa hupenyu hwekutanga muupenyu mukushanda kwepamabasa uye kubudirira, izvo zvinokonzera kusanganisa kuwirirana kwehukama hwepedyo pakati pevashandi - uye ukama huno hunokwanisa kukonzerwa pamwe nekudiwa kwekudzikama kwepabonde nekudzvinyirira kusununguka, uye nekushaiwa kwekudziya uye kutaurirana kwepfungwa. Zvinosuruvarisa, kunyengedza uye huwandu hwemashoko zvakakurumbira, vachipa ufeve sechinhu chisingagoni kudzivirirwa kumhuri imwe neimwe, uye kuchirondedzera kuti ndiyo chete inobva murudo mumhuri yakaroorana.


Basa rinonyanyisa iro rinogadzirisa mikana yekuzviziva kungakonzera kukakavara kwepfungwa-chido chekuvhiringidza, kurega mushandi kuendesa kune waunoshanda naye pedyo. Uyezve, zvinogona kuitika kuti mune mamwe mamiriro ezvinhu akawanda akazara nezviitiko uye manzwiro, chinangwa chokupinda muhukama hwepedyo nomunhu akadaro hahuna kuzomuka.


Pano, semuenzaniso, sezvinotsanangura pamusoro pokutengesa K., aimbova mushandi webhangi: "Ndakanga ndine shungu kwazvo pabasa - zvinosuruvarisa kuti nguva yakawanda yakaparadzwa. Aon akashanda muhurumende inotevera, uye yakaita yakanaka. Apo murume wangu akazoziva nezvehutsinye hwangu, pakanga pane kutyisa kukuru, uye ini ndaifanira kusiya. Dzimwe nguva ndinosangana nemudiwa wangu wekare mumugwagwa, uye ndinoshamisika kuti ndingamuda sei. "


Kuzvidzora, kuratidzira uye kugadzikana, kuratidzika kwakanaka uye kwakanaka, kakawanda kunopesana nehumwe unhu hwemumwe wako, inofungidzirwa mumhuri uye mumhuri, inotarisa kushamwaridzana nevamwe sechinhu chisingatenderwi.


Ndicho chikonzero, pasinei nemazano mazhinji evanodzidza nezvepfungwa avo vasingakurudziri kusika mamiriro ezvinhu munzvimbo yebasa iyo inopokana nemukurumbira, kushamwaridzana pamabasa kuchiri kufanana. Izvi zvakabatana nekushaikwa kwevanhu pavari kudzora manzwiro avo pachavo nekufambisa-chimiro chehupombwe hwevanhu ndeyekuti kune vamwe hausi kunyange kusiya sarudzo. Vanhu vakadaro vanoyevedza vanoratidzira upombwe nekushaya kukwanisa kuzvidzivirira pameso echinhu chinotarisa zvepabonde, chiri pedo kwenguva yakareba.


Heano izvo zvaanotaura pamusoro peupombwe N., mushandi wekambani huru: "Ndiri kuchinja mudzimai wangu-vakadzi vari muhofisi yedu vanonyanyisa. Ndinonyatsoziva kuti vanofunga nemaune zvipfeko zvinokuvadza, uye vanoita nenzira yandinonzwisisa - havazobhadharwi. "


Zvisinei, maererano nedzimwe nyanzvi, kubudiswa kwakadai kunobatsira kuhutano hwepfungwa uye kunyange nenzira imwechete kusimbisa kukanganisa ukama hune ushamwari pamwe nekubatsirwa nemanzwiro ewakaroorana anoshandura mudzimai wake. Zvechokwadi, chete munhu iyeye ane kodzero yekugadzirisa kana zvichikwanisika kuvaka rusimba chakasimba pane zvakadaro zvekunyengera.

Uye zvakadaro chimwe chinhu chinoramba chisinganzwisisiki - maererano neongororo dzakawanda uye kuongororwa, upombwe inowanzotenderwa neavo vasina kugutsikana nehupenyu hwewanano uye vanoda kuchinja. Asi zvinofanira kurangarirwa kuti kudengana zvishoma newaunoshanda navo kuchakuunzira manzwiro auri kurota pamusoro pazvo.Asi, iwe wakamirira pfungwa yekunyadziswa, chido chokumira mukati mevhu pakatarisana ne "mudiwa" uye makuhwa akawanda mushure mako.


Funga-iwe unoda izvi kwemazuva mashomanana kana nguva dzomufaro unoshamisika here?