Zvichida hupenyu hwemhuri yako pakutanga hwakanga uine rudo, zvisinei, manzwiro anozivikanwa kuti haana kugadzikana. Uye nguva inouya apo iwe uchitanga kuzvibvunza mibvunzo, nei zvinhu zvose zvichiitika. Uye iwe hauna kuzvipa chikonzero chokuderedza kufarira kwomunhu iwe pachako here? Imwe nyanzvi yeFrench lexicographer uye muzivi, Pierre Boast, akati " vakadzi havana kumbosimba zvakasimba sekunge vaine zvombo zvisina simba."
Unyanzvi hwekunyengera
Iwe unogona kusangana nevakadzi vazhinji vane maziso uye zvigoni hazvikwanisi kudanwa uye mifananidzo yavo ndeyevanhu, zvisinei ... Uhu hwavo hwevakadzi hunoita kuti huve hunodiwa uye hunokwezva mumaziso evanhu vavo. Mumazuva edu, hutano chinhu chisingawanzoitiki. Mukadzi wemazuva ano anotora hupenyu hunoshingaira uye akaomeswa pakuzadzisa zvinangwa zvake, pasinei mukurovedza muviri kana kufambira mberi pamabasa ekukwirira. Izvi, hongu, hazvisi zvakaipa, asi, wakacherechedza here kuti tsika dzako, gait, uye kutarisa kuchinjwa? Ngatishandure kune avo vane mifananidzo yavo nhasi ino inokurudzira vazhinji kuti vatevedzere.
Yeuka mambokadzi weEgypt, Cleopatra. Amai vevana vana uye mutongi wehurumende yose-ndiye muenzaniso wekutevedzera mukadzi wemazuva ano? Panguva imwecheteyo, iye anozivikanwawo somukunda mukuru wemwoyo yevanhu, uye unyanzvi hwake hwekuchengetedza kunaka kwake huripo huripo kusvikira nhasi, rangarirai zvimwe masikisi eCleopatra uye bhati reCleopatra. Asi akanga akanaka here? Panhoroondo iyi, kune maonero akasiyana. Vamwe vanopa maitiro ake nemhete refu uye ane simba-willed chin. Nzvimbo dzakawanda dzinobva kwatiri dzakabva kune dzimwe nguva dzakare dzinoti madzimambo aive nemafungiro akajeka, aifadza, akanga ari dhigirii mukuru, uye izwi rakaderera rinonakidza rinogona kuvhara ani zvake. Kwemakore zviuru zviviri zita rake harina kurega kuvhiringidza pfungwa dzevanyori vemazvikokota vemazuva akasiyana-siyana, akadai saShakespeare, Pushkin, Bernard Shaw nevamwe vakawanda. Mifananidzo yemambokadzi, yakachengetedzwa pamifananidzo uye mari - yakasiyana uye haipei pfungwa imwe chete yedhesi yayo yekunze. Kuva mutemo wevakadzi. Cleopatra inoramba iri chinhu chisingazikamwi, ichivanzira kubva kwatiri isu chizivo chaicho pasi pevheiri yemakore emakore.
Uye ndeapi zvinyorwa pamusoro peMambokadzi weShebha? Mune rimwe remabhuku eTalmud, Midrash, pfungwa dzake uye runako zvinorumbidzwa. Vakakunda kunyange Mambo Soromoni. Akanga akafadzwa zvikuru navahosi veShebha zvokuti akafunga kuti dhiyabhorosi pachake akanga ari iye. Nokudaro, akauya nenzira yekuchenjera kuti aedze kufungidzira kwake, achifunga kuti pane tsoka dzemaikadzi pasi pemapfeko anofanira kunge ari mapofu embudzi. Nenguva yekusvika kweTarina, Soromoni akavaka girasi rine pasi regirazi pasi payo hove yakatsvaira uye yakakumbira kunaka kunopinda muimba. Akashamisika apo mambokadzi akasimudza nguvo yake pamusoro pemvura, semumwe mukadzi aizodai aita, uye pasi payo yaiva mapaviri emakumbo chaiwo, asi mazai uye vhudzi, kwete chero kunakidza. Iwe unofunga mushure meizvi izvi Soromoni haana kurashikirwa naye? Chimiro chemaikadzi, vachifambidzana nekutakura kukuru, vaviri vematende uye akanaka hafu-asina kupfeka divs, vakamurova ipapo. Hungu, kuitira kuti chibereko chemudiwa wavo chaiva mwanakomana wavo.
Chii chikadzi?
Uhu humwe huseve hubatanidzwa hwekunaka, kunatswa uye mapurasitiki. Uviri hunozivikanwa pakarepo, kuratidza kusiyana kwehukama hwakasimba hwemunhu. Nokuda kwemukadzi munyoro uye anonyorera, murume wegomo ari kugadzirira kutendeuka, achizviisa mumhare yake uye masculinity. Mushure mezvose, chinhu chakanyanya kumurume ndechokuziva simba rake. Charles Baudelaire zvakare akataura kuti "mukadzi arikukoka kune mufaro."
Nzira yekutarisa feminine?
Chinhu chakakosha ndechekusimbisa musiyano uri pakati pako nemurume. Ipai micheka yevarume uye mavara madema, pamwe chete nezvose zvinoita kuti musimboti wako-munhu, kusanganisira zvisungo, zvipfeko uye zvimwe zvezvigadzirwa zvevanhu. Zvakanaka kuedza kana uchiziva kuti ungazviita sei, asi zviri nani kushandisa feminine inozivikanwa zvinoreva - mabhesi, hats, berets, maruva anoyerera.
Hausi iwe unofunga zvakanyanya here? Unoseka sei? Iwe uri unyanzvi uye unyanzvi kushandisa zvigadzirwa here? Unowanzoita rumbidzo kakawanda sei? Vanoyemura nyasha dzenyu nemaitiro here? Kana zvisina kudaro, zvakakodzera kuzviona iwe kubva kunze nekufunga. Vakadzi vane unyoro uye vanyoro havasi ivo voga. Mushure mezvose, kutanga kwezvose, varume vanokoshesa neshamwari dzevakadzi.