Uye murume haasati akangokumbundira munzvimbo dzomusangano, asi haatotori zvinyoro noruoko. Iye zvino iwe uri mhuri inorasikirwa. Uye "zvinhu zvose zvorudo zvinhu" - izvi hazvisi kwauri.
Tingamutsira sei hukama hwekare hwehupenyu hwomumhuri, huchipa ruzivo rwekujeka?
Vakawanda vanowana nzira yekubuda pakutengesa. Asi iyi inzira inonyengedza yekusiyanisa hupenyu hwemhuri, iyo inounza zvirwere zvemhuri, zvinotyisa, kurambana. Saka ndinofanira kutanga here?
Heano mazano mashanu achakubatsira kunyatsosiyanisa uye kuchengetedza ukama hwemhuri yako.
- Bhura nevarume vako kuti vaite dhani. Munguva yekutamba, murume wako achakwanisa kunzwisisa unyanzvi hwokudha nevamwe vakadzi. Uye chido, chinowedzera mukati maro, chichava mune zvako chete! Kwete pasinei nokuti mitambo yakagadzirwa!
- Itai kuti uwane hutano pamusha. Ronga kamakwikwi kaduku, ndiani achangobva kuva muridzi wemuviri wakanaka. Bvunza murume wako mushure mekunge uchinge ushambira usati warara kuti uzonzwa misuru yako, zvigunwe kana mahudyu.
- Endai ku saloni, kwavanopa chikafu chechipiri. Mushure memaawa mashomanana emufaro, unogona kuzvidzora uye uchinzwa chishuvo chisingachinjiki kuva mukadzi oga kune mumwe wako, uyo ane chimiro chakave nechakavanzika uye chishongo.
- Tanga rwendo rukuru. Zvisinei, kunyanya kusarudza musarudzo inonzwisisika. Nenzira yakadaro, iwe unofarira uye wakasiyana-siyana ruzivo uchakwanisa kuratidza unhu hwake hwakanaka: masculinity, ushingi. Taura nehurumende yekufambisa, iyo ichakubatsira iwe kuronga rwendo urwu rusingakanganwiki.
- Kana iwe usina mari yekufamba rwendo rurefu, enda kune imwe nzvimbo paki iri munharaunda, uko kune marudzi ose e "slide mawere." Uye kana zvichitsvaga kusvetana pamwechete neparachute kana kuti kubhururuka pane imwe nhandare, ipapo iyi ichava chiitiko chakanaka chezviyeuchidzo zvisingakanganwiki uye kukurukurirana kwenguva refu.
- Gadzirira musangano sekare. Sarudza nzvimbo inokosha yemisangano, zvichida yakazara, zvipfeko zvekunakidza uye kufara nekukurukurirana kweumwe, kwete kutarisira kune vamwe.
- Isa rimwe zuva mwedzi chete kune vakaroorana vako. Izvo zvinodikanwa kuti iri zuva rinopera. Rega murume wake apfeke mupfeko akapfekedzwa mumba mauno zuva rino, tsvina uye kubika, uye panguva iyoyo iwe unorara pahofa uye unoti iwe uneta zvikuru. Chinhu chikuru ndechokuti zvinhu zvose zvinoitika pahomwe, kuitira kuti zuva rino rinogona kuunza mufaro uye kufara.
Iwe unogona kuuya nemamwe akawanda uye akawanda akawanda anofadza mazano ehukama hwemhuri dzakasiyana-siyana, zvinokosha-usagare panzvimbo! Uyewo chengetedza mamiriro maduku, asi akaoma zvikuru: shandisa nguva yakawanda pamwe chete. Edza kuronga kushanyira kwako sezvinogona. Tora musanganisi wemangwanani manheru, enda pamwe chete kunobata hove, kwaunogona kutarisana nemakwikwi ehove.
Dzorerai rudo muhukama hwenyu.Unoenda kundoshambidza usiku huri pasi pemwedzi kana kutsvoda muchishuwo chakanyanya, iwe unogona kuzvivhara mufambisi uye unogumburana mumwe munhu kusvikira mumwe munhu akadana. Uye iwe unonzwisisa zvechokwadi kuti hapana nzira iri nani kupfuura murume wako anodikanwa! Uye usakakahadzika, pfungwa imwecheteyo inofanira kushanyira musoro wake!
Kubvumirana uye kunzwisisa kwauri mumhuri yehukama!