Moody vana

Kana mai naPozhalbit chikumbiro chekusingaperi chemwana, iva nechokwadi chokuti baba kana mumwe munhu kubva mumba vachati: "Hapana nzira! Usatenderera maitiro ake, uye iwe uchazochema iwe pachako! "

Iko kune njodzi chaiyo: mwana akachekwa kazhinji anowedzera hukuru, hunoda, udyire. Asi pane, fungidzira, imwe dambudziko: kuzvidzora, kusindimara, utsinye hunoumbwa muvana vanoremekedzwa rudo rwevabereki, "vasingafari" uye "vasingadi".

Kusvikira munguva pfupi ichangopfuura, vanachiremba vakakurudzira: usazvibata nemaoko! Icho chichava chishamiso! Iwe haugoni kuita chimwe chinhu gare gare! Asi kutsvakurudza kwemakore achangopfuura kwave kuratidza kuti vana vanoziva chete chikwata chevo uye nhandare, vanowedzera kuwedzera, vanotanga kutaura, vanorwara kakawanda. Tsanangudzo inowanikwawo kune izvi: mwana anonyaradzwa nekunzwika kwemoyo wemadzimai. Masayendisiti akaedza kuedza kwakadaro: vakanyora kuroorwa kwemoyo kwevakadzi vanoverengeka pa tepi, uye vakaisanganisira rekodhi iri pedyo nemwana ari kuchema. Nenzira isinganzwisisiki, muduku wacho akasiyana nekurohwa kwemoyo wamai pakati pevamwe uye akadzikama, akarega kuchema.

Zvisinei, hazvibviri kupfeka mwana nguva dzose pamaoko ako! Uye hazvibviri. Pano akatakurwa nematayiri: anokambaira necheka, anogogodza mupuni, anotunga bhora ... Unogona kuita mabasa epamba. Asi usamirira kusvikira mutambo wacho unomutora, kusvikira zviputi nemabhola zvichibhururuka kusvika pasi uye kubhuta kuchatanga. Zvakakosha kubata nguva yacho uye wotora mwana mumaoko ako, famba-famba mumba, pamwe chete, kuratidza zviri kuitika mushure mehwindo ... Zvakanaka kuna amai vangu pamapango, nyarara! Manzwiro aya akazova nani, simba rakagadziriswa, zvino iwe unogona kutamba zvishoma iwe pachako.

Mwana anofanira kunzwa kuti anodzivirirwa nerudo rwemwana kubva pamatambudziko ose, kuti amai vachanzwisisa nguva dzose, kubatsira, kuchengetedza. Izvi zvinokosha kwaari mugore rokutanga rehupenyu. Uyezve - zvimwe ...

Ndinoziva kuti hauna kurega simba ripi neripi rokuripa iro rinonaka, shandisa maawa pachitofu, edza kuisa mwana wako panguvo dzakanaka ... Uye iwe unotamba zvakawanda nemwanakomana wako here, kana mwanasikana? Kutaura nhau dzenyaya dzeusiku? Iwe unoridza sarlabies here? Mushure mezvose, zvidhori zveterevhizheni kana zvinyorwa zvakanyorwa pafirimu hazviti nzvimbo yehupenyu hwekushisa, kutarisana ne-meso-kwiso, mbuya: nhau, rudo rwemaamai - zvose izvo kubvira kare zvakange zvakaita kunaka kwehuduku ...

Vanachiremba-psychoneurologists, zvinosuruvarisa, ikozvino kuwedzera kuongororwa neuropsychic kushungurudzika muzvidzidzo zvevana, vadzidzi vezvikoro zviduku. Chimwe chezvikonzero zveizvi ndechokushungurudzika, kusurukirwa kwemweya wemwana, kusava nekutaurirana nevabereki, kusava nekanaka, kusinganzwisisiki, zvose-kuziva uye kukanganwira caress.

Mwana anotya anoda kushivirira kwakanyanya, hazvisi nyore. Asi iwe haugoni kunyange kukura maruva, gwenzi, muti usingashandi uye kushivirira! Nzira yekukura sei munhu, kana iwe uchida kuti ave nemutsa, ane rupo, anonzwira tsitsi, akazarura, achitarisa nyika zvishoma uye nomufaro?