Akabatwa nemhuri dzose dzisina kufara nenzira dzakasiyana. Somuenzaniso, kana vaviri vakabvumirana kuti varambane, hapana vana uye hapana mvumo yekutengeserana, ipapo imba inopedzwa kuburikidza nedhipatimendi reRAGS.
Asi magweta anopa mazano kunyange mumatambudziko emvumo yemapato kukwidza kurambana kuburikidza nedare, kuitira kuti iyo imwe hafu isingashandure zvido zvavo kupfuura nguva.
Nzira yekuparadzanisa sei? Kokorodzano, kurambana kunogona kugoverwa muve nerunyararo uye rinopikisana.
Kutaura zvazviri, munyaya iyi, dare rinongotarisa uye rinogadzirisa chokwadi chekuparadzwa kwewanano. Iyi inguva yekurambana ndiyo inokurumidza uye "isina ropa".
Mune huwandu hwakawanda, mumwe wevakaroorana anoteterera kudare, uye imwe inopesana nekurambana. Muchiitiko ichi, kurambidzwa kwekurambana kunonoka kwemwedzi mitatu, sezvo dare rinopa "nguva yekuyananisa". Kutanga, tinokukurudzira kuti utsvake rubatsiro rwemweya kana kuti kuwana mazano emutemo. Zviri nani kana chirevo chekutsvaga chikabatanidzwa nemumwe nyanzvi. Uye uyo anotanga kurambana anofanira kuzviisa. Mhosva inofanira kureva: nzvimbo uye nguva yekunyorwa kwechato, kuvepo uye nhamba yevana vanowirirana vane zviratidzo zvezera uye, chaizvoizvo, chikonzero chokurambana (kuparadzana, kusavapo kwehukama hwemhuri, nezvimwewo).
Akabatanidzwa uye ndokusaina chirevo chekurambana kunonzi kunowanikwa kudare panzvimbo yekugara kune mumwe wevakaroorana. Tinobatanidza kwaari chikwata chekuroorana, chiremba chokuberekwa chemwana uye chibvumirano chinobva panzvimbo yekugara, uyewo kopi yepasipoti. Kushandisa kurambana, iwe unogona panguva imwechete kubvunza kuti alimony - munyaya iyi iwe unodawo chidziro chekugara kwevana. Zvino iwe unofanirwa kubhadhara mari yehurumende uye zvinodiwa zvemashoko uye kubatsigirwa kwekambani yemhosva uye kuisa kune kudai rekuripo kubhadhara.
Iye zvino kuti zvinyorwa zvose zvekurambana zvakabatanidzwa, zvinogona kuendeswa kumatare edzimhosva uye zvino kumirira mwedzi nehafu yenguva, iyo ichakudanai iwe mose kumatare. Zvakakosha kuti purogiramu yakawira mumaoko emawakaroorana naye. Kana iwe uchirarama zvakasiyana, tsvaga kero iyo murume wako iye zvino ari kurarama. Kana kuwanikwa kwomuchato kusingazivikanwi, kudai kunoiswa pa kero yekupedzisira yekugara kana panzvimbo yeimba yake.
Zvaunoita mumatare zvichawedzerwa. Usafunga kuti kana iwe uchinge uchichema mudare kana kuratidza kukanganisa, kana iwe uchibudirira iwe ucharambana uye ugoverwa pfuma. Mutongi anobata pasina chokwadi, uye manzwiro ako akawandisa anogona kungokuvadza zvakanyanya. Akatova nekodzero yekuvatora semuedzo we "kudzvinyirira" pachivanze. Ichokwadi kuti mukadzi asingakwanisi anogona kuramba akadzikama kana kuguma kwevana vake kana imba iri kugadziriswa. Uye zvakadaro, kana kurambana kwakaoma, uye iwe unotya kusatarisana nemanzwiro, ipapo pasina rubatsiro rwemagweta iwe unogona kuita.
Nzira yekuita sei kana murume asina kuonekwa pakunzwa? Dare rinogona kutarisa kufungidzirwa kwenyaya yako kana murume asina kugamuchira zvigaro kana kuti akaudza dare chikonzero chakanaka chokukundikana kwake kuonekwa. Kana akagamuchira chiziviso, asi haana kuonekwa uye haana kuzarura zvikonzero zvekusavapo kwake, saka dare rine kodzero yekufunga nyaya yacho pasina iye.
Muchato chibvumirano
Uchenjeri hweHollywood hunoti: "Iwe unofanirwa kupenga uchida kuroorana pasina chibvumirano chowanano." Isu, hongu, haisi muHollywood, asi munyika yedu mune mavoti masayenzi anopa mazano asati awana kuroorana kugumisa chibvumirano chowanano. Mikana yekurwa kurambana ichabva yasvitsa kusvika pakaderera. Iyi ndiyo mvumo yekugoverana kweimba. Mareji anopa mazano ekunyorwa kwebhuku, umo iwe unogona kuparadzanisa hurumende yehudziro uye kwenguva yehuroorana, uye kana muchiitiko chekurambana. Kana, somuenzaniso, mudzimai wacho haana kushanda munguva yewanano, asi aive achiita basa rokuchengetedza imba, uye mushure mekurambana iye angazviwana achinetseka. Kuti udzivise izvi, iwe unogona kusanganisira muchibvumirano chinhu chakadai: "Kana pane kurambana, imwe nzvimbo inotevera inopinda muhuri hwemudzimai: purazi, midziyo, zvishongo."