Nekuda kwekuti kurambana kunobata sei vakaroorana kune nhamba yakawanda yemafungiro. Nokudaro, usati waroora uye iwe paunowedzera kurambana, unofunga kufunga kanenge ka gumi.
Kurambana zvinhu
Mhando dzakakura dzesarudzo dzekurambana kune vakaroorana dzinobva pane zvikonzero zvakatungamirira kurambana:
- Maonero ekurambana nevakaroorana (kusatsigira, kusaipa, kurwadza);
- Zviratidzo zvekurambana, somuenzaniso, chimiro chayo, kudzika, nguva, nhamba yevatori vechikamu vanobatanidzwa mukurambana (shamwari, vanoda, vabereki, vana);
- Nyaya yezvinhu uye kupatsanurwa kwepfuma panguva yekurambana (dambudziko rekuparadzanisa nzvimbo inogara);
- Iko kushandiswa kwemitemo yehutsika (hutano hweumwe wevakaroorana, hurombo hwepfungwa, makore, dambudziko revana vachava nevana).
Zvinokonzera vakaroorana maererano nehutano husina kuenzana
Yakagara ichifungidzirwa kuti mukadzi akaoma zvikuru kupona kurambana, kusiyana nemurume. Izvi zvinokonzerwa nokuti chokwadi zvakaoma kumudzimai kurera mwana mumwe, kuwana basa nemari yakakwana, kugadzira mhuri itsva, nezvimwewo. Asi nekufamba kwemazuva, mazvikokota epfungwa vakasvika pakufungidzira kwakafanana kuti murume anoda mhuri kupfuura mukadzi.
Mumwe murume mushure mekurambana ane mukana wakakura wokuroora zvakare, asi kazhinji vanorambana nevamiriri vehutano hwakasimba havakwanisi kuwana shamwari itsva. Izvozvo zvinoshandiswa pakurambana kwemurume zvinowedzera kuderedza mari yevarume, uyezve, murume ari kutambura kukuru kwetsika kunobatanidza nekudzvinyirirwa nekuda kwekuti haagoni kuona vana. Asisina kurasikirwa nebasa rake mushure mekurambana, murume wacho anoedza kusataura zvaanosangana naye uye kunyange akazotanga kurambana, iye achiri kutambudzika. Zvose izvi zvinoenderana nehuwandu hwenyika muwanano uye chiyero chekusarudza kwekutonga panguva yekusiya basa iri.
Mukadzi ari panguva yakadaro anotanga kunzwa nekushaya rudo uye kuzvipa mhosva. Anotarisana nematambudziko mupfungwa zvakanyanya, asi nokukurumidza anouya kuhutano hwepfungwa. Nenzira iyo, maererano nehutano hwemagariro evanhu, vakadzi vakarambana vane hutano hwepamusoro hwehutano kupfuura mukadzi akaroorwa. Pakati pezvimwe zvinhu, pakutanga vanovhara vanhu vanotanga kutsigira mukadzi, uye zvino vanobva vazvitsaura kubva pazviri, izvo zvinowedzera kunzwa kwekusurukirwa uye kunogona kukonzera kuora mwoyo.
Murume uyu, kwenguva iyo aripo, anovhara mukati make, ozobva "abuda" nekunzwa kusagutsikana kwenguva refu. Varume vanowanzova nemikana yakawanda yekuzvikanganwa ivo (zvinokuvaraidza, doro, mitambo). Kazhinji, "kupukunyuka kubva" iwe pachako kunogona kukwezva. Mune mamwe mazwi, kukwirira kwose kwemigumisiro yekurambana kune vakaroorana kunobva mukusatarisira kweizvi. Uyo akapiwa kupa kurambana anowirwa kukuvadzwa kukuru.
Mutsva maonero pamusoro pehupenyu
Kune vakaroorana vekare kune unhu hwokusava nehanya nebasa ravo pachavo mumakakatanwa, kurega mhosva dzose pane imwe. Asi zvakanyanya kukwana uye kukwanisa kunyatsorongedza mamiriro ezvinhu vanhu vanoita mhedziso yakarurama kubva pane kukanganisa kwakapfuura uye vanoita mumhuri yechipiri, kana zvichiitika, nokungwarira uye zvine musoro.
Varume, avo muwanano yekutanga vaiva nemudzimai akashungurudzika, avo vaigara vachitsvaka kunyanya kutarisirwa, nekuda kwechato chechipiri, sekutonga, sarudza shamwari yakanyarara uye ine mwero. Kana, varume avo vakanga vakaroorwa nevakadzi vane hanya zvikuru, nekuda kwekuchengetedza nguva dzose uye kunzwa semwana, vachasarudza mukadzi iyeye semudzimai mutsva uyo ari mupfungwa asina simba uye anozvida iye pacheche uye ane hanya. Izvi zvinotendera murume wacho zvizere kuti azvinzwe ave wakakura uye kuti awedzere mukati make pachake pfungwa yekuzvimiririra, iyo yaasina kumboita.
Zvakanakira kupinda muukama hutsva zvinobva pakuziva kuti pasi pesimba rezviitiko zvakaitika, vose vakaroorana vasati vava kusimbisa hukama hwavo pamusoro pe "rudo husingaperi" nerudo, uye vanoona zvinhu zvose zvakanyanya. Nenzira, achiyeuka kusuruvara kwose kwekuti kuguma kwemuchato wekutanga kwakaunza, zvose mukadzi nemurume vanoonga chaizvo nguva dzose dzakanaka dzavanogona kupa mukaro wechipiri. Nokudaro, vanoedza kuichengetedza zvakanyanya nekushingaira uye kuwana mufaro wakakwana kubva pairi.