Muzuva redu pfungwa ye "Ushamwari hwevakadzi" mune zvikonzero zvakawanda kusongana nekukwikwidzana, kutengesa, kunyarara. Kunyange zvakadaro, mubvunzo uyu unowanzobudiswa mumisangano yevakadzi yakasiyana-siyana, izvo zvinoreva kuti ine mhirizhonga isingaperi "ye" uye "inopesana." Izvi zvakakumbidzana kwemakore akawanda uye hapana sangano rinogona kuuya kune pfungwa yakafanana.
Ihwo huwandu hwevakadzi hahupi hune ushamwari hwevakadzi nevarume, kuratidza kuti matambudziko muhukama anogara aripo, pasinei nokuti ane simba uye akatendeseka sei. Maererano nedzimwe nhepfenyuro yemasangano evanhu, 56% yevanhu vakapindura vakati.
Pasina shamwari - chiedza hachina kunaka.
Uye vanenge vose vakabvunzurudzwa nounyoro vachitaura pamusoro pevasikana vavo. Mushure mezvose, neshamwari unogona kuseka nemwoyo wose pane hupenzi, taurai nevakomana, baba, amai vamwene ... uye ani zvake! Chinhu chikuru ndechekuti hapana mumwe kunze kwako asi iwe vaviri achaziva nezvazvo. Iwe unofanirwa kuverenga nhetembo mupaki, bvisa zvinyorwa mumasitolo kana kungotarisa firimu yakare - iwe nguva dzose unobatsira shamwari.
Panewo ruvara rutsvuku muhupenyu, apo kusuruvara kwevhiki nevhiki uye zvinhu zvose zviri kuwira kubva mumaoko, uye nyika inoratidzika yakave yakaipa uye yakaipa. Ndiyo panguva dzakadaro kuti shamwari inogara yakamira pakuchenjerera kune mafungiro akanaka. Anokwanisa kuteerera zuva rose rakawana matambudziko uye anobvumirana newe mune zvose, izvo zvinomupa kuzvidzora uye kuora mwoyo sechanza. Kana kuti zvichida aigona kugunun'una, kupopota, kuzviita pachake kuzvisunga pamwe chete. Izvozvo, zvinoshamisa, zvinoshanda zvakare. Sezvo Aristotle aiwanzoti: "Shamwari mweya mumwechete unorarama mumviri miviri."
Kutsigirwa mutsika kwehama kunofanana nekugadzirira nemunhu wepfungwa. Nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzinotaura kuti shamwari isinganzwisisiki. Chinhu chikuru ndechekuti pane kuvimba, kuremekedzwa, kutendeseka muhukama. Uye murume uyu aine mumwe munhu aizodurura mweya wake uyo waizotarisira uye uyo waachagovana naye mufaro. Pashure pezvose, yakagara ichizivikanwa kuti ichokwadi shamwari yako, uye iwe pachako. Uye ndiani anoshevedzera mufoni uye anosvetera kune denga apo paanoona kuti akakuita mukomana wechipo? Shamwari yakanakisisa. Saka, kune hukama hwevakadzi shure kwezvose?
Izvo zvakasara kurutivi rwemari.
Muhuduku, vanasekuru, vanaamai uye vadzidzisi vanoita kuti tive nerudo rweushamwari, kuwedzera pfungwa dzevanhu vose, kuvimbika uye kubatsirana. Uye havatombotauri kuvapo kwehukama hwevakadzi, asi vanonyanya kusimbisa pamusoro pekuti zvakakosha kuva shamwari "saizvozvowo." Kwete nemari uye chimiro chemunhu munharaunda, kana kuti mahwendefa asingabhadharwi mumabhodhi eusiku uye zvinhu, asi zvakadaro! Ndiani anoziva, zvichida ndicho chikonzero kune kukakavadzana pamusoro pehukama hwevakadzi, kuti pakutanga hwakanga hwavakwa pamusoro pounyengeri uye kubudirira. Uye zvinokwanisika kuti vasikana vemazuva ano havakwanise kusiyanisa ushamwari neshamwari. Uye, chokwadi, kana pane mhirizhonga, kutengesa uye marudzi akasiyana-siyana eveveve, vazhinji vanokurumidza kubvunza mubvunzo: Pane hukama hwevakadzi here?
Kutengesa kunokakavara kakawanda pakati pevaya vanoramba kutenda muhukama hwevakadzi. Hazvisi zvisingazivikanwi mubhizinesi rinosanganisira vamwe vakanaka. Anofarira vose shamwari, zvakanyanya zvokuti zvinoita kuti vakanganwe nezvemakore ehupenyu hunofadza uye hunofadza. Apa ndipo apo kukakavadzana kunonyanya kukanganisa pakati pevamwe shamwari dzakanakisisa kunomuka, avo vanobva vangova vavengi.
Anne Lindbergh anotenda: "Varume vanoita ushamwari sebhola, uye rinoramba rakagadzikana. Vakadzi vanotamba neshamwari, seganda regirazi, uye rinoputsa. " Zvichida ndizvo zvazviri? Pakutanga, vasikana vanosimbisa ushamwari hwose hwepedyo, kurota pamwe chete, kukoshesa mumwe nemumwe, uye zvakare kamwe, uye pakati pevamwe vakaita sekati nhema. Moyo wakakuvadzwa uye unovava, kutsamwa kwepasi rose uye kuvimba kusingatauki kuti hakuna hukama hwevakadzi - ndicho chinoramba chiripo. Asi kuchine pfungwa yekurasikirwa! Inonzwisisika, pfungwa isingarambiki yekurasikirwa nemweya wemunhu. Zvinopera kuti pasina musikana muhupenyu, hapana!