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Maererano nehuwandu hwemashamba enyika, inyanzvi yekutambidzana nevekuInternet yave iine kukurumidza kukurumidza mumakore maviri apfuura, zvinoreva kuti mamiriyoni evakadzi nevarume vanogoverwa kufarira kwangu mumapurogiramu aya akawanda. Gore rakapera, pamusangano wegore negore weIndaneti Dating Executive Alliance (sangano rinobatanidza vatungamiri vezvenhare huru dzekutsvaga paIndaneti), zvakashamiswa kuti motokari yakawedzerwa ne12% kana ichienzaniswa na2008. Zita guru reRussian websites rakaonawo kuwedzera kwenhamba yevatori vechikamu uye nguva yakawanda yakashandiswa navo pazvivako.
Ndechipi dambudziko racho? Chokutanga, panguva yekutambudzika, vanhu vazhinji vane nguva yakawanda yekusununguka, mari shoma yekutengesa-makonti-kufamba, uye kudiwa kwepfungwa "kurohwa", tsitsi, kunzwisisa, ukama hwepedyo hwakawedzerwa. Semuenzaniso, mumusarudzo pane imwe nzvimbo yepasi rose yeHarmony.com, 25% yevakadzi vakabvuma kuti ndiyo zvakaitika kune matambudziko ezvematongerwe enyika akavakonzera kupinda muhukama hwepanguva refu nevarume. Uye mumazuva iwayo apo dow Jones index yakadarika mazana anopfuura zana, nhamba yekushanyira pawebsite yakagumbuka zvikuru.
MuRussia neUkraine kune chimwe chikonzero chekuti: nhamba yevanhu vakaziva kombiyuta inowedzera, uye vari kukura. Somuenzaniso, nyanzvi yezvepfungwa dzeRussia Vladimir Shahidzhanyan, uyo akanyoresa neMamba makore mana apfuura, anoti panguva iyoyo, ava nemakore makumi matanhatu nemashanu, ndiye pamwe chete ari panzvimbo yeimwe murume wezera iroro; Nhasi ane vane makore makumi manomwe nemakumi manomwe emakwikwi. Zvisinei, semunyika yose, ruzhinji ruchiri huchiita huduku kusvika makore 25. Asi panewo mavambo emhuri: maererano nehuwandu hwakakonzerwa nemasvomhu evanhu veMamba, varume vezera ripi zvaro vanonyanya kufarira vasikana vaduku, 20% chete yevarume vari kutsvaga vakadzi vane makore 30-35.
Mukuwedzera , varume vazhinji havasi kuedza hukama hurefu kwenguva refu, uye nokuda kwepabonde - izvi zviri pachena kumunhu chero upi zvake mumazuva mashomanana mushure mekubhabhatidzwa. Ini, somuenzaniso, ndakagadzirira kunyora nyaya, uye zvakare kunyoresa pane imwe nzvimbo, panzvimbo chaiyo uye "zvakanyanyisa" yakazadza mubhuku remibvunzo, asi harina kundiponesa kubva pane zvinogara zvichitsvaga kuti ndipedze manheru "sevanhu vakwegura".
Pane imwe nguva ndakaputika: "Wakamboverenga fomu yangu yekushandira here? Munzvimbo imwe chete, zvose zvakanyorwa! Ndinongova nehanya nehukama hwenguva refu! "Mhinduro yacho yakaputirwa nekuzvipira:" Uye ini handitendi kune vakadzi! "Kubva pakuguma kwekupedzisira: dzimwe nguva, uye pamwe kazhinji, kunyange vakadzi" vakanaka "vanopindura kuvimbiswa kwaDon Juan. Ndine chokwadi chekuti vakadzi vakawanda pazvikwata zvepambano vari kutarisa zvepabonde. Izvozvo zvakadaro munharaunda yedu zvishoma kudarika varume. Mushure mezvose, isu taigara tichifunga kuti kana mukadzi achichinja vadadi, saka iye "unhu huri nyore", uye kana munhu - saka ane nguva yakadai muupenyu hwake. Kunyange zvakadaro, kuwedzera kune zvifeve, izvo zviriwo zvakanyanya kune nzvimbo, pane vakadzi vanogara vanofarira chete zvepabonde, kwete rudo. Zvichida kwenguva yakati, kana "zvepabonde nguva dzose" - pane nzvimbo uye iyi sarudzo.
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Sei vanhu vachienda kune rubatsiro rwekutsvaga nzvimbo? Mhinduro yacho inobva pane yekare kushandiswa kwevashandisi uye kuti chinzvimbo chekugara naye ndezvei. Vechidiki vave vachiwana mikana yakawanda yekusangana kwechokwadi kune vanhu vakuru. Vakarambana vakadzi vanopfuura makumi matatu, vachidzoka kubva pakushungurudzika kusingadzivisiki, kutanga kutarisa vavakidzani paInternet, nokuti mumabhodhi eusiku vanonzwa sevasingazivi, kazhinji havaendi kumazariro, kazhinji vanopedza nguva isina vana nevana. Panzvimbo yaunogona kutaura kunyange usiku, kana une mafungiro. Nokudaro vazhinji vevanhu vakuru vemaeni vanofambisa vanhu vanogadziriswa zvakanaka avo vasina matambudziko nekukurukura paInternet, hukama hwehutano. Chinhu chavo chavo chavasina chavo nguva yekusununguka uye tsika dzezororo kunze kwemusha.
Kana ari wechidiki , ipapo mufananidzo wacho wakasiyana. Takaita tsvakurudzo, tichiedza kunzwisisa kuti chokwadi chaiye: macheku, maforamu, nzvimbo dzekufambidzana - zvinova zvakakosha kune vechidiki kupfuura upenyu chaihwo. Vakawanda vevarume nevasikana vacho vanongotaura zvisina kukodzera: kusachengeteka, havazivi nzira yekugadzirisa vanobatana. Pamusoro pewebhu, vanoita nharo: vanochinja zvepabonde, zera, mararamiro evanhu, vanouya ne "nicks" - masikisi akavanzwa shure kwavo. Uye kutaurirana hakuiti sekutyisa seichoicho. Unogona kufungidzira iwe pachako uchibudirira, kubudirira kupfuura zvazviri chaizvo. Uyezve, zviri nyore kuonekwa munzvimbo ino uye nyore nyore kunyangarika.
Masikiti anoita kuti zvive zvisingagoneki kubuda kune chaiye, asi hazvidikanwi kune vakomana nevasikana vakakomba, ivo vanonyatsoda kutamba. Kana mitemo yemutambo ichiputswa, kunyara kunonyadzisa kunogona kuitika. Somuenzaniso, Vladimir Shahidzhanyan akakurudzirwa sechiremba wepfungwa mumwe murume nemudzimai, avo vakazobudiswa kune webhusaiti. Mumwe mukomana wemakore makumi maviri nemasere, asina mari, ane acne uye amai vasingadikanwi, vachinyararira panzvimbo yekadzikadzi akanaka: makore makumi mana, mutungamiri wemari, anoda vaduku vaduku. Panzvimbo pemufananidzo wake, jaya racho rakamutumira chithunzi chaBrad Pitt. Akaratidza kufara uye akapindura nemufananidzo weAngelina Jolie. Vakaseka ndokubvuma kusangana. Mukadzi wacho akaudza CMC kuti akanga atenga mabheji emukadzi uye zvimwe zvinhu zvinobatsira. Sezvo achinge apinda mune rimwe zuva, guy akafara akaona ... amai vake chaivo. Pashure pekutsamwa kwehasha ("Ungagona sei, kunyange kudaidza mutungamiri wezvemari, uri mubhizimisi!"), Amai vangu nemwanakomana havana kutaura kwenguva yakareba, uye ndaifanira kutendeukira kunyanzvi kuti ndigadzirise mamiriro acho ezvinhu.
Vakuru vekushanyira kunzvimbo dzinowanzoshandisawo mukana wokuviga mushure memazamu akanaka. Mumwe musikana ane makore 27, achigara nevabereki vake, haana kuchengeteka zvikuru, ave achigara panzvimbo dzekufambidzana kwemakore mashomanana adarika uye achiita rudo dzisingamboitiki. Ane rumwe rudzi rweukama nevarume, asi kwete kwenguva refu, nguva nenguva. Uye paInternet - upenyu chaihwo uye rudo. Kunyange zvakadaro, anoramba kusangana naye tsamba dzekushandira pamwe, nokuti anotya kurambwa. Uye ndinoziva dzakawanda zvakadaro. " Varume vazhinji havasati vakanamatira mitsipa yavo chaiyo, zvichida nokuti vanotya kuora mwoyo, kana kuti nokuti vakaroora uye havarevi chero chinhu chiri paInternet, kunze kwechikamu chekuchengetedza. Panzvimbo iwe unogona kuva wakatsvuka, wakapinza, wakaita soro, ushingi, kutamba chero basa rausingadi kuita muupenyu. Vakadzi (pavhareji) zvakajeka kuyananisa nekukundikana kupfuura varume, saka ivo vanowanzoita uye vanoda kugovana chaizvo.
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Zvinotaridzika kuti kana iwe ukaisa mufananidzo wako uye wakanyora chokwadi pamusoro pako iwe mubhuku remibvunzo, ipapo njodzi yekurambwa pamusangano wokutanga iduku. Asi chaizvoizvo, kufunga kwevanhu kunoumbwa nezvinhu zvuru zviduku zvatisingafungi nezvazvo, kusangana "muhupenyu chaihwo": maitiro ekubata, kufamba, kutaura, kururamisa bvudzi; kunhuhwirira, mhedziso yezwi, nzira yekumwemwerera, kusareva mashizha asina kuonekwa mumufananidzo.
Ipapo unotora kunyora chimwe chinhu chinopomerwa pamusoro pevarume vePost-Soviet ivo, vasati vambosvika pane imwe nzvimbo yemagariro evanhu (kunyange kana maitiro edziri wemotokari kune imwe nyika), vanotanga kufambidzana nevakadzi, segorosi muzvinyorwa. Uye zvichava zvechokwadi, asi muchikamu chete.
Munyika yedu pane nguva yakave nedambudziko rakarondedzerwa munziyo: "Kune 9 vana gumi nevasikana gumi maererano nezviverengero. Hondo yehupfumi yehupfumi inenge yabviswa kare, nhamba yose yevarume muhuwandu, ndinofunga, haisi duku zvikuru. Asi kubudirira, vakachenjera, vanoyevedza, vakadzi vane hutano-hutano vakaonekwa zvakaenzana kupfuura varume vakaenzana. Pane nzira yekuregererwa, vakadzi vari kukwikwidzana nevarume kuti vabudirire uye vagadzirire, uye ivo pachavo vanotambura neizvi. Mukuverenga, zvakakosha kutora chimwe chimwe chinhu. Pamusoro-varume havawanzosarudza vezera ravo nehuwandu hwevakadzi. Vanosarudza zvishoma kubudirira, kwete kunyanya kufambidzana nebasa, avo vanotarisa vasanangurwa avo kubva pasi kusvika maziso ekudzivirira - ngaaite kuti ave nechero doro uye muitiro wakaipa.
Asi vakadzi vari kumusoro havawanzozvisarudzira kuzvishamwaridzana nehuwandu hwemamiriro evarume, nevarume vaduku pane ivo pachavo: ichi chiitiko chetsika. Uye avo vanokunda maitiro emitambo, kazhinji vanozviwana ivo muhukama nea real alfonso. Asi pamagariro evanhu vanoita zvepabonde maonero akasiyana-siyana akafanana kana akadzimwa. Apa vose vanoita sokuti vakaenzana. Uye varume vanoziva vakadzi avo muhupenyu chaihwo havangavi kutarisa mumutungamiri wavo. Ichokwadi, kazhinji kacho ava vanoziva vanoguma chete nemukati unobatsira.
Saka, hazvigoneki kuisa hukama hwakakomba panzvimbo iyi? Kwete zvachose. Munzvimbo ipi neipi, uko vanhu vanenge zana vanoshanda, pane mumwe akasangana nemumwe muIndaneti. Vane chinhu chakafanana: mushure mekunge vawana, havana kutarisana kwenguva yakareba, dzimwe nguva mazuva mashomanene, uye ndokusangana muhupenyu chaihwo, - Inna inozivisa. - Kana munhu akakurumidza kubvumirana nemusangano, izvi zvinoreva kuti anonyatsoda muukama hwakakomba. Ichokwadi, vazhinji vanofanira kugara pazvivako zvegore, kugara vachisangana nekusarudza, kusvikira vawana iyo chete, iyo chete.
Zvinoratidzika kwandiri kuti avo vasinganonoki mabhairiro vakanyatsogadzirira kuongorora mafungiro avo mukuita. Mushure mezvose, pahutaneti tinowira murudo nechimwe chifananidzo, tinoronga zvose zvatinotarisira pane izvi, kupa humwe hutano hwatingadi kuona muasanangurwa wedu. Uye iyo yakareba iyo mutsamba, iyo yakakwirira nhare mujecha, iyo inonyanya kuodza mwoyo apo iwe unosangana. Zvisinei, ndinofunga, mazuva mashomanana mushure memusangano, ichiri kutokurumidza kusvika kusangana. Panofanira kuva negoridhe kureva. Kana zvisina kudaro, vanhu havana nguva yekunzwa mumwe kune mumwe kuti ivo vanozvarwa, vanozvarwa, kuti vanogona kushamwaridzana.
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I "Sieve" kuburikidza nevanotarisirwa kubvunzurudzwa vanoongororwa vanofanira kunge vane masero eusviki, asi kwete maduku uye kwete akawandisa. Semuenzaniso, "kukura kweasati pasi pe 180, mubhadharo wemadhora zviuru zviviri, doro mumuromo haitore" - iyi yakareba seeve, vazhinji vanogona kunge vakwezva vanogona kukwira mairi. Mudzimai akachenjera anokwanisa chaizvo kugadzira musayendisiti ane mubayiro muduku webhizimisi anobudirira.
Nokudaro, zvinobatsira kunyora urongwa hwehutsika hunhu hunokosha kwauri (kutarisira, kunzwira tsitsi uye kutora mutoro, pfungwa yekuseka, nezvimwewo) uye uvaratidze mufomu yako yekukumbira sezvinodikanwa kune imwe shandaneti.
Pamusoro pemari yaunoda, nenzira, zviri nani kuti usanyora. Iwe unonzwisisa zvose shure kwemisangano yakawanda. Asi kwete iyo iyo shure kwekutanga. Maererano nemwene webazi reMoscow, vanhu vazhinji vakapfuma vakatanga kuenda kunzvimbo dzekufambidzana, uye vanozviita zvisingazivikanwi uye kusarudzwa kwekutanga kwava kuda kudya zvakakurumidza - kutamba mutambo "musandida mari yangu." Ndinonyatsoziva kuti vakanaka, vakangwara, varume vanobudirira vanopfuura makumi matatu vane chido chekukama hukama. Kufanana nevakadzi, ivo vari mukuora mwoyo, nokuti havazivi kuti vanoziva kupi avo vanogona kushamwaridzana navo. Ndakaverenga nyaya pamusoro pebhizimisi aishanda mune rimwe chikwata chevarume vakanyunyuta pamusoro pokushaya kukwanisa kuziva mukadzi. Saka uya nemumwe nemotokari munzira kubva kubasa, "- shamwari yake yakamuudza. Ndinogona kufungidzira kuti zvichave sei ... Ndinowanzodzoka kumusha kubva kubasa mushure meusiku husiku. Mugwagwa, usiku, jeep inomira uye murume mukuru anobuda mairi ... Heino mukadzi anofamba mumugwagwa achafara!
Zvinoshamisa kuti kusvikira zvino hakuna munhu akaita bhizinesi pamatunhu akakwirira emapato "kune avo vanopfuura makumi matatu". Mushure mezvose, kuguta kwemuguta iri kufambira mberi, vanhu vanoshanda kubva mangwanani kusvika manheru uye havazivi kunyange mazita evavakidzani vavo pamatanho ...
Kuvimba kwakabuda kune ivhu rakadaro, semugwagwa wakamanikana muchando, unogona kuonekwa nyore nyore uye nyore nyore nyore. Varwere, kazhinji vasikana vaduku, vanouya kwandiri nemisodzi: "Akanditengesa! Takanga tiri shamwari naye zvakanyanya, ndakamuudza zvinhu zvose pamusoro pangu, uye akaparadzira zvakavanzika zvangu munzvimbo yese yepaiti! "Chikanganiso ndechekuti vanounza hutano, hukama husina kufanira hukama huno: ivo vane godo, vanofunga kuti vanoita flirting nomumwe musikana" kunyengedza, "kunyange kukanganisa vatauriri vavo ku" kuteterera ", kunyanya, kubvunza shamwari kuti vateere nevasanangurwa avo uye negodo vanotevera migumisiro yemutambo wakaoma. Izvo zvisinganzwisisiki. PaWebhu, iwe unofanirwa kuenderera zvakanyanya kuti uonekwe, usamanikidza ukama. Kunyange kuvanza mushure mekusaziva masikati, mukadzi acharwadziwa kana mutauriri wacho achinyanya kuseka pamusoro pake, achaenda pamwe nokuzvipira kwake nemwoyo wose nemashoko asina maturo.
Dambudziko rekupinda mumatambudziko akadaro rakaderera, kana kuipa kwezvinangwa zve interlocutor kunosimbiswa nechinhu. Somuenzaniso, kumadokero, kubhadhara Inhare yeInternet iri kuve yakashongedzwa kune "vanhu vakanaka": hazvidikanwi chete kuti muite mishonga yemwedzi we $ 50, asiwo maminitsi makumi mana kuti muzadze fomu yakakumbira yakawanda pakunyoresa, kuitira kuti mutambo wemagetsi uwane kuti iwe unobatana zvikuru.
MuU.S., maererano nehuwandu , humwe hupfumi hwevakadzi vakaroorana vakaungana paInternet. Kushungurudzika pamusoro penhamo yemhuri, kuguta kwemaguta uye kuparadzaniswa kwevanhu kubva kune mumwe nemumwe hakuiti pfungwa. Basa racho rinoramba richienderera mberi, haugone kumira, iwe unongoda kuisa pfungwa dzese - uye kushandisa mikana iyo hupenyu hunopa.