Masayendisiti akaedza kuedza uye akaverenga kuti kangani murume nomukadzi vane rudo vanofunga nezvemumwe musi masikati. Maererano nemamiriro ekudzidza, vanoda vanoda kugadzirisa nhamba yezviyeuchidzo zvevanodiwa. Zvigumisiro zvaive zvisingataurikiki. Vakadzi vaifunga nezvechinhu chavo rudo rwavo kubva pane makumi maviri kusvika makumi matanhatu, uye varume - chete 4-5 nguva. Nyanzvi dzezvepfungwa dzinotsanangura kusakanganiswa kunoshamisa kwekuti varume vanonyanya kufunga nezvezvinoitika uye havakwanisi kuiswa mumabasa akawanda panguva imwe chete, kunyange kana zvichifadza mwoyo. Nevakadzi, zvinhu zvose zvakasiyana. Vanokwanisa kubata nezvinhu zvakawanda mukupfuura, uye vachiri kuramba vari mumashure mutsva yemafungiro kana zviyeuchidzo. Panyama, hazvigoni kuita kuti munhu afunge nezvake. Asi iwe unogona nguva dzose kushandisa pfungwa, simba uye kunyange magetsi nzira dzinobatsira kugadzirisa mupfungwa, uye naizvozvo mumoyo wemunhu anodiwa. Inoramba ichingosarudzwa kuti ive yakagamuchirwa ivo pachavo.
Nzira yekuita kuti munhu afunge pamusoro pake pachake: mazano evanodzidza nezvepfungwa
Nyanzvi dzezvepfungwa dzinopa mazano ekukwanisa kusava nehanya kwevanhu, vachikudziridza mukati meimwe rudzi rwekuvimba naye uye nekuvapo kwake mupfungwa dzake:- Cat na mouse. Varume vanopesana nezvipfeko uye maitiro. Kana vakachenjera "vakashandurwa-pamusoro", izvi zvinoshandura murume, zvinomutsa kuda kwake. Nokuda kwekugamuchira ichi, zvirokwazvo, unoda murume atofarira. Kutamba, kutaurirana kunonakidza uye mazuva maviri - izvi zvichange zvakakwana kutanga kutamba naye mu "cat uye mouse". Mushure mokukurukurirana kushamwari, kunopera kubva paupenyu hwemunhu kwemazuva mashomanana. Unyanzvi hwevhimi huchamuka mukati make, uye haagoni kukwanisa kufunga pamusoro pako. Asi zvakakosha kuti usapfuure-kudzivisa kukanganisa, kana zvisina kudaro murume achazviona se "dynamo".
- Association. Mukufunga kwepfungwa, kusikwa kweshamwari dzakanaka dzinosanganiswa nemangariro dzinonzi anchoring. Iwe unogona "kutora" murume wako nekuzvibatanidza iwe mukuyeuka kwake nezvimwe zvinofadza zvakaitika. Somuenzaniso: mafirimu, firimu, kutsvoda pamutsara wokupedzisira we cinema. Nguva dzose kana munhu achiona vanhu vakuru vefirimu iyi mune mhizha kana kunzwa mimhanzi, achabva achiyeuka avo vanoda kutsvoda newe. Anonzwawo, zvakare, ndiyo nzira yakanakisisa yekubudisa pfungwa. Pamberi pemusangano nemurume, shandisa maronho maviri emakwenzi anoramba achifadzwa, anonakidza uye anowanikwa pamaoko ako. Regai murume wacho aenzanise nekunhuhwira kwako. Uyezve, pose paakazvinzwa, kunhuhwira kwaizogadzirisa nekuyeuka kushamwaridzana newe.
- A kode yezwi. Sarudza shoko risina kujairika (kwete rakajairika muupenyu hwezuva nezuva) uye kuvadana, semuenzaniso, zvepabonde nemurume wako. Mukati kana mushure mokuita zvepabonde, iti: "Ichi ndiMwari!". Dzorera shoko nguva dzose nguva uye unoziva munhu kwaari. Shandisa iyi "kodeti" apo iwe unoda kudana wako waunoda nemarangariro akanaka. Semuenzaniso, nyora mharidzo pamusoro peiyo gaka rinofadza raMwari raunodya pamasikati. Iri shoko rinogara richikubata iwe mupfungwa yemunhu uye, kana uchingosangana naye muupenyu hwezuva nezuva, haazozviyeuki kukuyeuka uye pamusoro pezvinorehwa neshoko iri kune vamwe vako pachavo.
Nzira yekuita kuti munhu afunge nezvake: zano esoteric
Uzivo hweEsoteric hunobatsira kubvisa mutsara pakati pekutaridzika uye chokwadi. Shandisa maitiro anobatsira kweizvi:- Esoteric "hypnosis". Iwe unogona kuzadza pfungwa yemunhu nemafungiro ako:
- Iva nechokwadi chokuti akarara (pedyo) kana kuenda kunorara (kana uri kure).
- Rara pasi uye usunungure (unogona kufungisisa usati watanga kubvisa musoro wako wekushushikana kwemasikati, manzwiro uye mhirizhonga yemafungiro).
- Zadza nemafungiro pamusoro pemunhu wako: chimiro chake, kunhuwa, kutarisa, nzira yekutaura, kufamba, nezvimwewo.
- Apo chifananidzo chinova chakajeka uye chakasimba, mupfungwa dzinoenda kumunhu uye kupinda mukati me simba remuviri wake, uropi, pfungwa.
- Mutumire mirayiridzo yakananga pamusoro pemafungiro nezviito zvaunoda kuti awane.
- Zivisai mukuziva kwake mufananidzo wakajeka wega, "dzidzisei" kuti afunge uye anzwe iwe.
- Kutenda kwakasimba. Bvuma mumusoro wako unogona kunge usina mvumo kuti iwe uri nemurume wako murume nemudzimai akanaka. Zvibvumira kuti udzungirire mumakore. Fungidzira uye, pamusoro pezvose, unzwe manzwiro ako anokonzerwa nemafungiro echokwadi pamusoro pekuti iwe pamwe sei, semuenzaniso, gadzirira kudya (inzwa kunhuwa kwezvokudya, kuravira kwezvokudya zvakagadzirwa, mazwi nezviito zvaunotaura / kuita pamwe); kuita rudo, kugamuchira vaenzi, etc. Kurarame iwo zvese, asi uchiziva. Kuti uite, tora hafu yenguva pazuva. Chikonzero chamuchazoshamisika!
Nzira yekuita kuti munhu azvifungidzire pachake: mazano emashiripiti
Vose vakadzi ... muroyi. Icho chivi chisingafaniri kutora chipo chechipo chechipo kuti uwane pfungwa dzemoyo wemurume:- Taura chikafu. Paunenge uchigadzirira kudya kwemanheru, gadzirira chikafu chinodyiwa nemurume wacho paunenge uchibika. Pamusangano uyu, unofanirwa kuchengeta mitemo yakawanda: tungai mune zvakanaka, kuunganidza bundle rebvudzi, kupfeka nguo dzakachena. Iyo nzira yekugadzirira inoperekedzwa nerwiyo rune rudo runofadza uye mazwi ane rudo pamusoro pemurume wako. Funga nenzira yakanaka, yeuka nguva dzako dzinofadza uye kubika nerudo. Kuzadza ndiro iyo nesimba rerudo, unozivisa chinangwa chako chekufara nemurume uyu. Uye kuti iye, kana adya chikafu ichi, akafungisisa pamusoro pako, anyeve pamusoro pake mazwi: "Uya-funga pamusoro pangu, enda - funga pamusoro pangu, kurara, uye ini ndinorota iwe, simuka, uye unditevere ndichikurumidza."
- "Napote" ane pfungwa pamusoro pako. Pakati pemutambo wepabonde, iva nechokwadi chokuti chinwiwa chikuru ndiro waini tsvuku. Imwai zvishoma kubva pagirazi renyu, uye zvishoma zvisinganzwisisiki mukati mugirazi romurume, mupfungwa kana kuti muveveve (maererano nemamiriro acho ezvinhu) anoti: "Inwa, inwa, uye undiyeuke." Iva nechivimbo, murume, kunyange kana achida chaizvo, haagoni kubvisa pfungwa pamusoro pako. Uye pfungwa dzinoita zviito.
- Dyyisa chingwa chakaviriswa. Pfeka pamusoro pechingwa chero chipi zvacho pamusoro pechingwa mbiriso. Mutumirei kunzvimbo inotonhora kuti inopisa. Kana uwandu hutanga kutumbuka uye kumuka, tora thimble matatu yemvura uye kunwa, uchiti: "Pedyo nemwoyo wangu, mukanyiwa unowira pasi, uye (muzita remurume) pfungwa yangu ichasimuka." Bika chingwa uye utore murume.