Dzimwe nguva gereji, umo mwana anoenda, nokuda kwezvikonzero zvakasiyana-siyana, haafanire mwana kana vabereki vake. Pakati pezvinonyanya kuwanda ndizvo zvinokonzera sezvirwere zvinotapukira zvinowanzoitika, kusarapwa zvisina kunaka, kusava nehanya kwevadzidzisi. Zvino vabereki vanofanira kunetseka pamusoro pekuendesa mwana kune imwe gorosi? Mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, vabereki nevana ivo pachavo vari kunyanya kunetseka nezvekushandurwa kwegerereji, boka idzva, zvakatipoteredza uye vadzidzisi.
Murairo weRussia unopa kuendeswa kwevabereki vemwana kune imwe nzvimbo yemasimende yemasisheni inoshandiswa pamusana purogiramu yakawanda yepurogiramu yezvidzidzo zvekusati kuchikoro. Kuti uite izvi, iwe unoda kutenga kutiti-kutumira kubva kumakurukota ekuunganidza, uye mune ino masangano panofanira kuva nechigaro chepachena.
Kutanga, vabereki vanofanira kushanda nekunyorwa kwakanyorwa kuchipatara chekudzidzisa, munharaunda yavanoda kuwana nzvimbo muzvidzidzo. Iwe unofanirwa kuva nemagwaro matsva newe:
- Chiratidzo chekuzvarwa chemwana
- Pasipoti yemubereki, kureva kuti, mutungamiriri wemutemo
- Chiremba chemasisheni isati yasvika kuchikoro chinoshanirwa nemwana panguva ino
- Zvinyorwa zvekupiwa kwezvipo, kana pane.
Asi nhasi kune dambudziko guru nekuchengetwa kwemwana muchechi yegoroji, saka usashamisika kana kutamisa mwana kune rimwe jindu hakuzovi nyore sezvinotsanangurwa mumutemo. Kana pasina nzvimbo yakasununguka muchekechera, iwe uchafanirwa kumirira kusvikira mutsetse uchisvika pane zvese. Izvi zvinokonzerwa nekuti sangano rezvematongerwo enyika haritauri chero nharo dzakasarudzwa kana kutamisa mwana kune imwe yepachikoro chekudzidzira. Nokudaro, pangava nemamiriro ezvinhu apo iwe unofanirwa zvakare kupinda muchechi chechikoro itsva.
Panyaya iyi, zvinokurudzirwa kujekesa chikonzero chekuendeswa kwemwana muchikumbiro, kubvira pakutanga kwevana kubva kumhuri iyo yakashandura nzvimbo yavo yebasa kana yekugara ichaendeswa.
Kugamuchira nzvimbo mune imwe nzvimbo yepachikoro, mhuri dzinobatanidzwa muhurongwa hwehurumende "resettlement nekuparadzwa kwezvinhu zvinotyisa uye dzimba dzisina kukanganisa" dziri pane urongwa hwekumirira.
Mushure mekunge vhokiti yakagamuchirwa pamunharaunda yaidiwa, vabereki vanofanira kunyora chikumbiro chakanyorerwa kumusoro webindu, mune mamwe mazwi, zivisa vatungamiri mukunyora kwekutumirwa kwemwana, kubhadhara chikwereti chose, kana chiripo, kutora kadhi yemishonga yemwana.
Paunopinda muchekereji mutsva, vabereki vachada kubhadhara mari yekutanga, kupfuura nemushandi wezvokurapa nemwana, uye kupedza maedzo ose. Kana mwana asati atoshanyira imwe yedzidzo yepamusoro, ipapo hapana chikonzero chekupfuura vese vadzidzisi. Tsanangudzo yavo chaiyo inofanira kuongororwa nechiremba wevana vedhara.
Zvisinei, usakanganwa kuti kunze kwemaitiro, kune pfungwa yakakomba yepfungwa. Uye zvichida, zvinonyanya kukosha, kutanga kune zvose, kumwana pachake. Kuchinja mamiriro ezvinhu echikoro chekare, boka idzva uye vadzidzisi vanogona kuva chiitiko chakakomba chepfungwa chemwana. Imwana inogona kuona mamiriro aya sekuparadzanisa, kubviswa kwehanya, kuchengetedzwa, rudo rwevabereki, rudo. Nokudaro, zvinokosha kuti kusvika mumunda mutsva, boka idzva raive rakanaka, risina njodzi, rakanaka.
Kuti udzivise izvi, mumwe munhu anofanira kutungamirirwa nemamwe mazano evana vezvepfungwa dzepfungwa:
- Gadzirira nemwana wako kuti ataurirane nevamwe vana nevakuru vasati vagara. Tsanangura kuti sei sei uye kuti sei zvinoitika.
- Zvakakosha kuzivana nevadzidzisi veboka idzva zvisati zvaitika. Vaudze pamusoro pezvinhu zvemucheche wako, zvaanoda, zvaasingadi, unyanzvi hupi uye unyanzvi hwaanayo, zvaanoda rubatsiro. Sarudza, pamwe chete nomudzidzisi, nzira dzipi dzokuranga uye kukurudzira dzakakonzerwa nekurera mwana wako.
- Usarega mwana mumazuva ekutanga, enda naye kwechinguva, somuenzaniso, usati wadya. Mumazuva ekutanga, tora mwana wacho munguva.
- Tora mubindu iro raanoda tambo naye, haazove ari oga mumamiriro matsva.