Nekuuya kwenhamba huru yemakambani makuru munyika yedu, kwakamuka kudiwa kwekuziva sesa yekutarisa pamwe chete nevatungamiriri. Paiva nemibvunzo: hukama hunofanirwa kunge hune hutsika muhupenyu kana hukama uye hwakavanzika, hukama hunofanirwa kutungamirirwa nehurumende kana kuti hune hupenyu hwepanyama. Zvechokwadi, mumubatanidzwa mumwe nomumwe wakagadzira dzimwe mitemo yekufambisa, iyo yatinofanira kubvuma, kuzviwana pachedu. Inogona kugoverwa mumhando dzakasiyana.
Yakasikwa . Vatariri vanosiya zvachose kubatana kwevashandi kunze kwevashandi. Mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, hurumende yakajeka yehukama huripo. Saka edza zvakadai sekuti usataura pachena pamisoro yega yako, kupa huwandu hwemashoko pamusoro pako, usataura kune zviremera, kunyanya kuisa ushamwari. Rutsigiro rwehukama hwakadaro nderokuti hapana chinopesana nebasa, maonero ehurumende anotungamirirwa chete nemigumisiro yemabasa ako. Mukufambira mberi kwebasa remhizha, hukama hwemhuri uye hwemhuri hahuremi. Icho chinonyadzisa ndechokushaikwa kwekodzero yekusimbiswa, nguva dzose kushungurudzika mupfungwa.
Unconstrained hukama huri muboka, kwaive nekubatana kwekutendeseka, kushamwaridzana pakati pevashandi, uye izvi zvinotsigirwa nehutungamiri. Ikoko vanotendeukira kune mumwe "nekuda kwenyu", vanokukwazisai pazuva rako rekuzvarwa, mushandi anonzwa kunyaradzwa panzvimbo yebasa, akasununguka kusarudza kuti ndiani angava shamwari naye. Asi kazhinji pakubatana kwakadaro kune makuhwa, simba rinoponeswa kwete nemunhu pachake, asi nehuwandu hwekuzivana. Kuti tirarame munzvimbo yakadai, tinofanira kuedza kunyanya kunyatsotarisa pakusarudza denderedzwa rekutaurirana uye kwete kuvimba nevanhu zvakakwana.
Collectives, umo mhirizhonga inotonga uye kubudirira kwepabonde kwehukama, kuratidza kusashaiwa kwekutungamira . Kurwisana kunogara kuripo uye, kupfuura zvose, hazvigadziriswi, asi "kuchengetwa", nokudaro kuwedzera mamiriro acho kunyanya. Mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, zvakanakisisa kuti usarerekera kune vamwe vanhu.
Zvinonzwisisika, hapana chikonzero chaicho chekutungamira mune rimwe boka, asi chinhu chikuru ndechokuti uone kuti rudzi rweukama huchakudziridza nekukudziridza maitiro akanaka.
Zvinonakidzawo kuziva kuti hukama hupi pakati pehutungamiri uye mutungamiriri anofanira kuva. Munyika yanhasi, pfungwa ye "maitiro ehofisi" yakave yakagadzirwa, inotora maitiro evashandi maererano nechimwe chimiro. Munzvimbo yebasa, ukama hwevamwe shamwari hunofanira kusiyanana nehukama huri kunze kwechibvumirano chebasa: inofanirwa kunge iri kuda uye yebhizimisi. Vatsva vanozivana vanogamuchirwa ne "ivo vamene." Iyo yakanakisisa inofungidzirwa apo munhu wose akaenzana muhupenyu hwehupenyu, saka kushuva uye kusafungira kwezvido zvayo hazvisipo. Kazhinji kukurudzirwa mubasa kunobata denderedzwa yekukurukurirana, kune rumwe rudzi rwe "kusarudzwa kwezvisikwa". Izvo zvinonzi "mahofisi ehofisi" zvinomira mitemo yekubata mazororo panzvimbo yebasa. Kunyanya kurongeka zvakarongeka, somuenzaniso, zuva rokuzvarwa, zviri nani. Zuva rekuberekwa rinowanzova pakati uye rinogamuchira kufara. Zvadaro anogona kupa kupa mwero kune avo vashandi. Kana uyo anokonzerwa nemhemberero akawana chipo chinotapira, saka inofanira kugoverwa chose.
Ngatitaurei mitemo yekutungamira muboka. Conciseness . Mukukurukurirana, edza kuisa pfungwa dzako muchidimbu, kuitira kuchengetedza iwe pachako uye nguva yevamwe vanhu. Kana iwe uri mutungamiriri, chinhu chikuru hachisi kuronga, asi kukurudzira mumwe munhu kuti aite. Kutaura kunofanirawo kuva nekuverenga, mazwi acho akarurama. Kugadzirira kwakakodzera . Kana iwe uine musangano wakakomba, somuenzaniso, pamwe nemutungamiriri, zvakanakisisa kufunga mberi kwemaitiro ayo, kunyora pasi pamapepa anogoneka mibvunzo uye mazano. Panguva yekukurukurirana, iwe unofanira kuchengeta marimi evanhu vebhizimisi. Kuti urege kufungidzirwa usina simba, usazonyunyuta kune vekune dzimwe nyika, edza kuzvidzivirira mupfungwa. Kana iwe usingakwanise kuchengeta urombo hwako, usakanganwa kunyora tsamba iwe pachako. Uye shure, manheru, verenga mumamiriro akadzikama uye uongorore mamiriro acho ezvinhu. Kugunun'una muhotera yako hazvioneki sechinhu chinoshorwa, asi semazano. Nevamwe vaunoshanda navo, nguva dzose taurai pamusoro pehurukuro, pamwe chete nemashoko ose anodiwa mberi (semuenzaniso, kana inosangana nekuzadzikiswa kwemabasa anokosha nerimwe zuva, misangano inokosha), kuitira kuti usarega mumwe munhu pasi. Kunyatsokosha kunokosha mubasa iri . Usarega makuhwa achipararira, vadzivise. Uye, pakupedzisira, kazhinji kana zvichikwanisika kunyemwerera, kurumbidza vamwe, ipapo mhepo ichava yakanaka uye ichagadza munhu wose kuti ave nehutano uye basa rinofadza. Iye zvino iwe unoziva nzira yekuchengetedza ukama hwakanaka nevashandi kubasa. Tinokuda iwe rombo rakanaka!