Sei uchifanira kuwirirana nevavakidzani
Zvikonzero izvo ukama hwakanaka kana kunyange kunyange hukama nevakidzani hunokosha, zvikuru.
Kutanga, kunyange imba yakasiyana haisi kukuita iwe pachako kune vamwe vanhu vanogara mumba. Kana iwe uchigara mune imwe imba, ipapo pedo newe unenge uchinge uri vanhu avo nenzira imwe neimwe vachapindira nehupenyu hwako hwega. Vangave vane tsika dzinogona kukudzivirira. Somuenzaniso, vanoda mimhanzi huru vachapedza mangwanani, uye masikati nemadekwana, uyewo vateki vemakambani ane ruzha. Kunyanya kuziva uye kuvhiringidza vavakidzani havazokusiyi kodzero yekuviga. Kana iwe ukawana mutauro unozivikanwa navo, iwe unogona kugara uchikumbira kuita kuti mimhanzi iite zvishoma kana kuti iende kure kubva kumahwindo eimba yako yekupona, usingatyi pamusoro pezvinogona kuitika.
Chechipiri, vavakidzani vanogona kubatsira mukuita. Kana iwe uchida kuenda, ivo vachatarisira imba kana imba, vofudza puroti uye mvura maruva, sidza mapurisa kana vakaona munhu anonyunyuta pamusuo wako. Uye ivo vanongotora manheru avo kana iwe kamwe kamwe uchinetseka. Zvakaoma kupokana nechokwadi chokuti zviri nani kuva neshamwari nevavakidzani. Hazviiti nguva dzose kuita izvi, asi zvakakosha kuedza.
Nzira yekugadzira nharo
Chinhu chokutanga chinotarisirwa kwauri ndechokuti uzive. Tsvaga zita uye mazita evakidzani vako, edza kuzvirangarira uye usambokanganwa kutaura hello. Kutsika kwepfungwa kunobatsira kuti uswedere pedyo uye usamutsamwisa zvakaipa.
Iva nechokwadi chekuzviongorora iwe pachako usati waita zvido kune vamwe. Kana iwe usingadi chidimbu pamasitepisi, mimhanzi inoridza, zvipfeko kana mhepo dzinomhanya, saka usarega chero chinhu chakadai pakutanga. Kana mufambiro wako usina kunaka, zvingava nyore kukumbira vavakidzani kuti vabvumirane. Kana iwe iwe pachako uri kukonzera kuora musoro kwevakidzani, saka haufaniri kutarisira kuti vachasangana newe.
Mukuwedzera, usati waita kudai, kunyange kana wakarurama, zviongorore iwe kune mafungiro akanaka. Kupomera uye kutuka haisi iyo nzira yakanakisisa yekuita kuti munhu achinje. Ingotsanangurira zvakadzama kune vavakidzani kuti vari kuputsa hurumende yevanhu uye izvi zvinokupa manzwiro asina kufanira pamusoro pekuti nei uye zvauri kupa. Hazvisiko kuisa zviratidzo zvekupedzisira - vavakidzani havafaniri kukuteerera, vanogona kukurudzira kuenda kumatare nemitemo yako, saka chikonzero chekuzvidya mwoyo chicharamba chisina kugadziriswa kwenguva refu. Kana iwe uchinetseka nemanzwi makuru, tsanangura zvakajeka kuti iwe uri kupumha, kushanda kana kungova nehanya neruzha. Kazhinji vanhu havadi kuita nemaune kuvhiringidza, saka vanokwanisa kuteerera zvikumbiro zvenyu.
Kana pane dambudziko pamusoro pevamwe vaviri, nguva dzose ratidzai nzira dzinogona kugadziriswa uye bvunza kana vavakidzani vane dzimwe mazano. Iyi ndiyo nzira yakanakisisa yekuwana kugadzirisa.
Kana vavakidzani vasina ruzivo, havaendi kune vekubatana, usateerera zvikumbiro zvako, utungamirire nzira yehupenyu husinganzwisisiki, saka hauzobatsiri kutaura nekunyengetedza. Asi usaburukira kunzvimbo dzakashata uye kurwisana - izvi zvose zvinogona kushandiswa kukukuvadza iwe gare gare. Ingokoka boka revanhu vemauto uye kumubvunza kuti ave nehurukuro inotsanangurwa nevavakidzani, uko kodzero dzako uye mabasa ako kune mumwe nomumwe zvicharatidzwa. Uye chete sechisarudzo chekupedzisira, shandisa kudare rekugadzirisa dambudziko racho.
Vavakidzani ndivo chirango kana chipo. Nevamwe tinorwa kwemakore, nevamwe tinoshamwaridzana. Nditende, hapana munhu anoda kurarama mukushungurudza uye kana vavakidzani vako vane vanhu vakanaka, saka ivo vanofarirawo ushamwari hwevamwe. Iyo yakanyanya uye yakanyanya kukuremekedza iwe uchava kwavari, zviri nani hukama hwako huchava. Kana, pane zvaunoedza kuita kuti uwane hukama, vavakidzani vanopindura nevasingafariri, ipapo taurai chete mune bhizinesi sezvinoita. Zvichida iyi ndiyo mhando yekukurukurirana iyo ichaenderana nevakakidzani vako vakaoma. Uye yeuka, mumwe nomumwe wenyu ane kodzero yakakwana yehupenyu hune rugare.