Echoes of Childhood
Kutanga tinoda kunzwisisa: sei isu tisingadikanwi nhasi kuti tiri kusangana neshamwari chaiyo yakasimba uye yakasimba?
Kutendeukira kuhuwandu, iwe unogona kuona: makore mashomanana adarika, sangano remhuri rave richinetseka. Kana sekuru nanasekuru vedu vainge vachirwisana nekugadzira simba uye risingaparadzi remasangano evanhu, saka, mushure mechinguva, tsika iyi yakatanga kuderedza zviratidzo. Vakadzi vakazvisunungura mukuda kwekuzvimiririra pamusana pepabonde rakasimba rakawana mamwe masimba munharaunda, vakatora zvitsva uye vakanyanyozvirumbidza nezvekubudirira kwavo.Ukuzvisarudzira kwevakadzi kwakarwadza nekuzviremekedza kwevarume - vakaguma vachinzwa ivo pachavo vadziviriri venzvimbo. Vamwe vakasarudza kurega kubva kumunhu ane simba, kuitira kuti vasapindira pamutsipa wevanhu vavo vavariro. Uye chii chatakawana mukudzoka?
Vakawanda vakadzi vane simba vane vana mumaoko avo, vakasununguka kubva kune vakaroorana, asi vanhu vakashata zvakadaro nekuda kwekusurukirwa ...
Iye zvino ngatifungei - ndeupi murume angakwanisa kumuberekera basa rake? Mukadzi asina murume, asina maoko akasimba, asingatsigiri ...
Zvichida, heino mbeu dzekumera kwevanhu vanokwidziridzwa nekuda kwechikadzi nekukurudzirwa (izvo zvisingadzivisike, nokuti amai vose vanonzwa vaine mhaka pamberi pemwanakomana wavo kuti anokurira pasina baba vake, kunyange kana kuzvidemba kwakanga kwakavanzika pasi pechifukidziro chemukadzi bhizinesi). Mukomana akadaro haana kumboona muenzaniso wakanaka wemurume akakodzera, asati atarisa maziso avo vakadzi, avo vauya kubva kubasa, vachiri kubika kudya uye kushambidza mbatya, pasinei nehutano hwavo hwevanhu. Dzidzo yemadzimai inogona kuva murume, asi yakaipisisa - mwana anoshandiswa kutungamirirwa nevakadzi vasina simba uye anonzwa asisina simba.
Zvechokwadi, sarudzo yekukudziridza mwanakomana mumhuri yakadaro inogona kuenderera kune imwe nzira - uye murume, achiziva kuti ane hutano hwakasimba, achatanga kusvibisa kodzero yekodzero mumhuri yake. Asi jaya rakadaro rinogona kukura musikana anokanganisa anoramba achidzorera musoro wake we "carrier".
Nzira yekuzviziva sei?
Hazvisiko kufunga kuti murume wevakadzi anogona kuderedzwa ne "radhi" yako mukuoneka kumwe chete - somuenzaniso, chimiro chawo chekupfeka pano hachina basa. Iwe uchaona hutatu chete nekutaura nemunhu uyu. Murume akadaro anowanzoshungurudzika kupfuura vamwe vose. Dzimwe nguva, achikakavadzana newe, haazombogadziri (uye zvichida haafaniri kuchengeta) misodzi, hazvingaiti zvachose kutengesa maoko ake uye kukukumbira kumuregerera kunyange pane zvaasina kuita.
Varume vakadaro vanowanzofara, vanogara vachipa majasi avo, vachizarura musuo kuresitorendi, vabatsire kubva kunze kwemotokari. Zviito zvehujaya hwemhandara, unhu hwakanaka kunyange paanoita mabasa ezuva nezuva. Pridyak kukushanyirai, mushure mokudya, mukomana akadaro, zvichida, akakurumidza kushambidza ndiro, asingakanganwi kuisa pamapuroni.
Iye achakuudza nezvezuva rake rekushanda zvakanyatsotsanangurwa, asingakanganwi kutaura nguva yekuzorora kwemasikati uye menyu mune mamwe mashoko. Mushure mezvose, iwe unobvumirana, chirevo chemashoko, pane kudaro, chikadzi chimiro chevanhu, asi vanhu, vazhinji, havadi kupinda mune tsanangudzo uye kuzvishungurudza ivo pachavo nenyaya dzakareba.
Kana zvakasvika pakuita chakakomba kana kunyange zvishoma zvechisarudzo chinokosha - munhu akadaro achafunga nezvesarudzo kwenguva yakareba, achifunga zvose zvingasarudzwa uye panguva imwechete achitya kusakosha. Iva wakagadzirira nokuda kwekuti achakurukura newe chero rubatsiro chero rupi zvaro: ungaita sei mazamu? Nzira yekubika borscht kubva kune zviri mufiriji? Nzira yekuzvibata sei se-co-worker, ndiani ari kuedza kugogodza pasi kubva pasi petsoka dzake? Nzira yekuitisa sei kubvunzurudzwa mangwana uye kwete kuwira pasi nechiso mumatope?
Mukadzi wechidiki wechidiki achatsvaga mumudzimai iyeye kudzivirirwa kweiopor, iyo inowanzowanikwa mumurume nemumwe musikana.
Mukadzi wevakadzi: zvinotyisa uye zvinotyisa
Mushure mokuverenga zvose zvataurwa pamusoro apa, vasikana vazhinji vanogona kuwana pfungwa: "Fi, sekunge vari kutsanangura slobber, munhu asina kukwanisa kuve mupenyu, nei ndichifanira?" Zvisinei, usakurumidza kuisa muchinjikwa pane zvishoma, paunotanga kuona, munhu asina simba. Shure kwezvose, ane zvinyorwa zvake:
- Murume wemukadzi akanaka kune mukadzi anoda kuraira. Rimwe jaya murudo ruchaita chero ripi zvaro kubva muhafu yake - uye panguva imwechete isingaoneki semusikana wechidiki.
- Murume akadaro haazoregi musoro wake kana achifanira kutarisira hupfumi pachake. Anokwanisa kutanga maitiro ose ekuchenesa, kubika kudya kwemasikati, kugunzva makenduru kumativi ekuyera kwetafura ... Usararame nejaya rakadaro, haufaniri kunetseka kuti kana uripo haazoputsika, kuuraya magirasi kana kudiridza vavakidzani vake - pfungwa yehutano hweimba yake pachake inokosha kwaari , kupfuura iwe.
- Iwe hauzombofi uchinzwa mafungiro uye mafungiro ekuzvidzivirira iwe pachako. Vamwe varume nenzira iyi vanoedza kusunga musikana pedyo naye-vanoti, anonditevera, achazadzika-uye ipapo achada zvakanyanya. Mukati yedu, ivo vachaedza kukutora iwe, kunyange kunyara, pasina mazwi makuru uye mapenzi-asi iwe haugoni kubatsira kunzwa manzwiro aanoita iwe.
- Vakadzi varume, kazhinji, vane rudo zvikuru. Vanoda kuita zvinofadza kumudzimai wavo wemwoyo: vanonyora nhetembo, vobva vaita zvishuvo zvezuva rakanaka pasi pemaginiti pane firiji, ipai maruva pasina chikonzero, tora matikiti emagetsi mumuganhu wokupedzisira ...
- Uchiva nekukwezva kwakasimba kumusikana, kunyange munhu akaomeswa uye ane nyadzi achave akwanisa kuita chiito chevanhu, kunyanya kana mubvunzo uri pamusoro pekuchengeteka kwako - chero zvakadaro, haufaniri kumurwisa kubva kune vamwe.
Mune hutano hwakanyanya hwehutano hwejaya rako iwe unogona kuwana zvinyorwa zvako:
- Iwe haufaniri kuvimba zvakanyanya pamusoro pokuti mukomana achaita zvisarudzo zvakakomba pamusoro pehupenyu - gadzirira kuzvitora iwe pachako kunyange pamabasa maduku iwe pachako.
- Kuti munhu anonyara uye anotambura awane basa rakanaka, achafanirwa kusundirwa kwairi. Zvichava zvakaoma kumurume kuti awedzere kukwirira kwebasa, kunyange kana ane ruzivo rwakakwana uye unyanzvi hwokuvandudza. Zvingangodaro, zvishoma zvouchenjeri, asi vamwe vanoramba vachitsungirira uye vanovimbisa muurongwa uhwu huchakurumidza kuupfuura.
- Kana iwe usingafariri kudanwa nguva dzose uye tsamba, kana iwe usina rudo rukuru - iwe unogona kugumbuka kwenguva yakareba nechishuvo chake chisingadikanwi chekushandisa newe nemaminitsi ega ega. Asi zvakashata here? Zvichida haasi iye, asi iwe hau ...
- Vanoda makambani ane ruzha vachanzwa vachinetseka pamberi pevanhu vakadaro: hazvisi nyore kuporesa, kubata chiso chake chinosuruvarisa, kukukumbira kuti usiye munhu wose uye ugare naye oga.
Hazvikwanisi kutaurwa kuti mukadzi mukadzi - zviri pachena kana zvakanaka kana zvakaipa. Pane kudaro, mukadzi murume - izvi hazvina kukwana zvachose. Zvichienderana nemhando yemusikana pachake, mumwe munhu achawana kune asingatendi uye mudiwa wehupenyu hwakanaka, uye mumwe munhu achanzwisisa kuti anoda maoko akasimba uye akavimba nemaoko - uye naizvozvo majaya anokanganisa haakwanisi kukubata kwenguva yakareba.