Mukadzi, chii ichocho?
Mukadzi ndeye sangano rezvematongerwo enyika, iyo nheyo yaro inobva pakuenzana kwepabonde. Paiva nechikwata muzana remakore rechi18. Mutsara wokutanga wechikadzi unowa pa19 uye hafu yekutanga yezana remakore rechi20. Panguva ino kwaive nekurwa kwakasimba kwekutonga kwepamutemo kwevarume nevakadzi. Kubva pahafu yepiri yezana ramakumi maviri nemazana inotevera inotanga. Vashandi vanobvunza kuti kwete chete mutemo, asiwo kunyatsoenzana. Mumakore ekuma makumi manomwe apera, sangano rinova guru. Vakadzi vakawanda vanotanga kutsigira pfungwa yevakadzi, magungano emagungano uye magungano, masangano uye mapoka ari kusikwa. Mumakore makumi masere, rufaro rwakapoteredza chikamu chiri kudonha zvishoma.
Zvichida, hapana hutano hunokonzera hunoita kuti kusawirirana kwakanyanya, kufanana nevakadzi. Chii chinonzi chikamu ichi uye chinangwa chei? Maererano nevashandi, chinangwa ndechekudziridza kunamata kwevakadzi.
Kana zvisati zvaitika pfungwa yehukadzi nezvose zvakabatana nayo yakaita kuti vagari vedu vave chinhu chiri kure uye chisingaitiki, zvino mushure mokunge "Iron Curtain" yakasimudzirwa izvi zvehutano zvakapinda muupenyu hwedu.
Mukadzi, ndiani uyu?
Mafungiro evanoita vakadzikadzi vakadai, akave akaparadzaniswa kwenguva yakareba. Zvechokwadi, zvinonzwisisika kuti mukadzikadzi ndiye mukadzi anotsigira pfungwa yekukwaniswa kwakakwana pakati pekusava nesimba uye simba rakasimba.
Vakadzi vechikadzi havadi kuti vatarise varume. Mumwe munhu anovatuka nokuda kweizvi. Uye varume vakawanda uye havanzwisisi zvinorehwa nesangano iri zvachose, uye vanotya nharo dzevashandi.
Kubva pane zvinyorwa zvekuongororwa kwakaitwa muhafu yakasimba yevanhu pamusoro pezvinorehwa nevakadzi, vazhinji vakapindura kuti zvinhu zvakafanana zvevakadzi vakadai kune utsinye kune avo vasiri vakomana. Vasikana vanonyanya kuenda kumakakatanwa, ndinoratidza kururamisira kwangu. Mukuwedzera, vakadzi vanoedza kutungamira mune zvose, zvose kumabasa uye kumba. Zvinotaridzika zvinotaurira maonero avo kune vose vanovapoteredza, vachivavimbisa kuti vakarurama. Behave tactlessly. Kana iwe ukaedza kuratidza kutsoropodza mukero yavo, unogona kumhanya mune dutu remanzwiro. Vakadzi vanoona chero kutsoropodza sekuzvidza munhu wavo. Muhupenyu hwose husakundikana, vanopomerawo varume.
Chimwe chinotevera chinosiyanisa vakadzi vanobva kune vamwe vakadzi ndezvekuita masimba. Vasikana nenzira dzakasiyana-siyana vanotevedzera huwandu hwevarume. Inogona kutevedzwa mune zvipfeko, nenzira yekuzvibata, uye kunyange gadziriro kwavari inova "chero munhu".
Nharaunda yekufarira kune vakadzikadzi inowanzova "murume". Vakadzi vanoedza kuzvidzora uye kuratidzira kune vakomana nevasikana vakasiyana kuti havasi ivo vakaipa, kana kuti vari nani, vanogona kubata nemabasa ayo anowanzoonekwa sevarume.
Ndezvipi zvinodiwa nevasikana vese (mhuri, mararamiro, kubasa, kubereka), havafariri, uye vanokonzera kushorwa pane zvavo.
Chimwe chezvinhu zvevashandi vakawanda hazvisi izvo. Vasikana havadi kuroorwa, vane vana uye vanowanzogara vari voga.
Vakadzi - zvinorevei, uye kana zvakanaka kana zvakaipa, zvakaoma kupindura. Icho chaicho chikonzero chekufambisa uku chakanga chakanaka uye, rega tisapomera mhosva mweya, vakadzikadzi vakawana zvakawanda. Zvisinei, kunyange zvazvo vatsigiri vakawanda vechikwata ichi vachiramba izvi, basa revakadzi nderokuti vave amai uye vanochengetedza nzvimbo. Izvi zvakasikwa mune zvakasikwa. Sei uchirwisana nevarume uye uchiedza kuratidza kune avo vari nani? Ngatitorerane nekuremekedza, uye ipapo hupenyu hwedu huchava hunofadza zvikuru.