Ndiri musikana wekuratidzika kwakasvibirira uye mhare yehupenyu huripo. Asi munguva pfupi yapfuura, ndakabvuma kuti ndichiri mudzimai uye ini ndichatsanangura chikonzero nei ndisina kuita izvi zvisati zvaitika. Ndakanga ndisati ndashamisika pane zvandakaita muna December gore rakapera. Ndakaziva muroori paupenyu hwangu hwose: takaenda kuchikoro pamwe chete, makore gumi namatatu akapfuura takasangana nezhizha rose, asi ipapo munhu wose akafamba nenzira yake. Apo shamwari dzangu dzichinyatsoziva kuti takapedza makore ose aya takasiyana neGosha, vanotanga kuchema kuti vakararama zvakakwana pasina. Asi pachedu, ndinofunga kuti aya ndiwo makore angu-fuma yangu. Gosh, ndine chokwadi, haazvidembi kana ...
"Mbongoro isheyo, imba yakasimba, uye chii chinonzwisiswa nekutambudzika, saka isu tinokosha zvikuru," sezvakaitwa nemunhu mumwechete. Aiziva zvaaiimba pamusoro: mitambo yakawanda inoda kuti ive norusununguko. Vanotibvumirawo kuti tiwedzere ruzivo rwekunyengedza, izvo zvinopesana nekuedza kuedza zvakanaka nezvakaipa kuruboshwe rwemhuri yemhuri. Mushure mekuongorora zvandaona uye ruzivo rwevamwe shamwari dzangu dzakanaka, ndakasvika pakugumisa kuti panofanira kunge kune huwandu hwekutendeuka hupenyu hwemukadzi wese. Uye, vasati vasarudza kutaura kuti "hongu" kune munhu akanaka uye vochengeta shoko rake. Iyi nguva ndiyo mitemo yegoridhe inobatsira muupenyu hweumwe nomumwe wedu. Kuti vakandibatsira sei kamwechete.
1. KUSAVA KUTI UYE KUDZIDZISA UYE KUTAURA.
Shamwari yangu Anne ane makore makumi maviri nemashanu, uye iye mukadzi akangwara. Panguva imwecheteyo, anotenda kuti kufamba kuburikidza nekurwadziwa chinhu chinokosha murudo. Makore mashanu apfuura, Anna akasangana nemurume, waaifarira kwaari pasinei nekuti pfupa rake rakavhenekera zvakanyorwa kuti "kuchava nezvinetso". Mamwe manheru ari mubha raakamupa. Uye akabvuma pasi pekudhakwa kwewaini uye maziso ake okuboora. Asi mwedzi miviri isati yatochata, akashandura pfungwa dzake ndokubvisa chiitiko chacho. Sei? "Panzvimbo yerwendo rworudo rwakarongeka neni, akakurudzira Petro kune imwe hama yepachikoro, iyo yaakandiudza pamakero." Anna haana kupindura tsamba yacho, sezvo asina kutora dambudziko kudzorera ringani yaakagamuchira kubva kum sham. Ari parwendo, akaenda oga uye akazora mari yakawanda pamari yakagadzirwa kubva mune zvishongo zvekushongedza. Ari pamahombekombe, akasangana naTolik, kwete zvachose doro uye kwete zvachose. Mwedzi miviri yakasayina - pasina runyararo rwakawanda uye guruva remadamondi.
2. Usati wamboedza kuedza itsva.
Muboka rehama dzangu Alice, 27, pedantic. Kunyange jeans yakaoma-yakachena. Uye iyi fifa inotaura kuti chikwata chake chakaunza chimwe chezvibatsiro, apo zuva rimwe nerimwe regore rinorudzirwa kuti acrobatic pose. Muroori akatsigira "gumbo rinowira" (mukadzi wacho anozorora maoko ake pasi, uye mudiwa wacho anomutsa makumbo ake). "Ndakanga ndisingafari zvikuru kuva so raskoryachivatsya musati mudiwa wenyu, uyo achiri kunditemera uye kuti ataure zita rake. Asi kuda kuziva kwakawanda. Uye handina kuzvidemba! "Muroori akafarirawo maitiro aya - uye chipo chacho hachina kumirira, asi Alisa ari kupedza nguva. Icho chichiri kuonekwa kwaari kuti imba yekurara yemukati haisi nyore nyore kuva mukana unonaka. Uye muroori anoedza. Kunyengetedza.
3. VANOFANIRA KUTI VADZIDZE HERE.
Oo, hongu, iyi ichokwadi mutemo wegoridhe. Kwapera zvishoma mwedzi wapfuura, mukomana wangu Gosh akaenda neni kuchitoro kunotora dawati. "Ndinofarira iyo, ine bhiza jena," ndakati. "Kunyange zvazvo gumbo iro rakanaka ..." Gosh akaseka: "Mukufunga kwangu, iwe hauzivi kuita sarudzo zvachose." Ndakatotadza nokutsamwa, uye akaramba achinyemwerera kusvikira ndawana-damn, ari kutaura! Iyi ndiyo nguva yaunenge wakadzikama uye uchizvininipisa uchizvipupurira iwe pachako uye kuti mune dzimwe nzira iwe unenge uine simba, uye zvinoreva kuti zvidimbu zve smalt zvakagadzirwa kuva chimiro chakanaka uye chakanakisa - kamwe chete. Kuzviziva iwe sechinhu chisina simba hachisi nyore, asi zvinodiwa. Kutambudzika kwekuziva kukanganisa kwako pachako hakunonoki kudarika kurwadziwa kunobva kuora. Asi mufaro wekuvimba kuti iye anokuziva uye anokunzwisisa zvakanaka, anoporesa mweya wako hupenyu hwako hwose.
4. DZIDZIDZA KUCHENGA.
Shamwari yangu Sasha, ane makore 25, ane chokwadi chokuti kurwisa nemisodzi uye kushungurudzwa kwakachinja upenyu hwake. Izvo zvose zvakatanga neshoko rokuti Sasha anonyanya kutsvaga akatanga kutamba flirt pabhadharo yake uye iye zvino Sasha mukomana. Akashatirwa, shamwari yangu - zvakare. "Ndakatsamwa! Asi ndakaona kuti kana tisingatsananguri, ipapo tichaparadzanisa nekusingaperi. Ndaifanira kubvuma kuti ichi chakaipa chakanga chakanaka kudarika ini. Asi sezvo isu takabva tayanana! "Chaizvoizvo, pano mamiriro ezvinhu ainyanya kuchengetedzwa nekwanisiro imwechete yekucherechedza simba rayo. Uye kukwanisa kukanganisa. Uye kunze kweizvi muhupenyu hwemhuri - pasina chero.
5. Usatombofanira kutumira SOS SIGNAL.
Isu tinowanzoonesa kusava nesimba kwedu kuvanhu. Uye zvisina maturo, sezvakaita shamwari yangu Evgenia 26. "Ndakambofunga kusungira mabhechera ini ndoga," anoyeuka mukadzi akave akazvimiririra. - Uye zvakatosvika kubudirira kwandiri - kusvikira gwagwa rakawira uye yese yekuvaka yakatanga kuwira pamusoro pangu. Ndakadanidzira, iye akamhanyira ndokubata jeri. Uye akati: "Handizi bhizinesi raTsar, uye zvechokwadi kwete remukadzi. Haana kuda kubvunza? Uye ini, munzira, ndinofara kuzadzisa chero chekuda kwako. " Tsika: rudo - kubvuma rubatsiro rwake. Uye kugehena nekuregererwa!
6. DZIDZIDZA KUDZIDZA ZVINHU ZVINHU.
Kutevedzera mutemo uyu wegoridhe, chinhu chikuru hachifaniri kunonoka nekufunga. Makore mashoma akapfuura mukomana ane shungu akatendeukira kwandiri: akanaka, akapfuma uye akazara-rega ndirege kukurera iwe nevana vake. Asi apo taifanira kuenda kune imwe nzvimbo, ndakanzwa ndisinganzwisisiki. Akanga asinganzwisisi uye asina hanya pachena pamusoro pevanhu uye kunze. Pakupedzisira akamira kundidana, uye ... zvakandiita kuti ndichinzwe zviri nani. Kutsvaga murume maererano nehuwandu hwezvakanaka ndiko kuparadza nguva. Pakati pese, ini, ndayambuka shoko rokuti "mari", rakanyora "kuseka" kubva kumusoro. Uye humwe humwe hunofadza kwandiri kusvikira nhasi.
7. USAKADZIRA KUENDA KUZVIMWE.
Vanoti munhu akakurumbira anozivikanwa pazororo. Shamwari yangu Julia, ane makore 25, akati mushure mekuenda kuBurma ukama hwake hwemakore maviri nemumwe Marik hwakangoerekana hwabukira. Rimwe zuva mutungamiri akavatungamirira kugomo umo rutsoka rweMadokero runafungidzirwa kuti haruna kufamba. "Hatina kumbobvira takabatana zvakanyanya mukushanyirwa," anodaro Yulia. - Uye nzira yacho yakaiswa pedyo nepamatombo. Mitsipa inopiwa, uye kuitira kuti isingawisi pasi, pane muedzo mukuru wekuwira kune uyo ari pedyo. Zvisinei, izvi hazvina kuitika - Marik, kwete iyo yakanyanyisa kuburitsa munyika, yakaratidza kuva yakasimba uye isina hanya. Uye ndakazviona: kana munhu akadaro ndakakwira mugomo ndikabva ndaenda ndiri mupenyu uye ndisingakuvadzi, saka tinoda kumhanya pamwechete nezvipingamupinyi pamwe chete nebani rekugara pamwe chete. " Kubva ipapo ivo vari kumhanya: pamwe chete uye kwete kubudirira.
8. HAPPY VATONGA.
Kwemakore takatsoropodza chimiro chedu pachedu, uye hapana chirwere chinopfuura ichi kubva kuzvitambudza uku kupfuura mumwe munhu anotitora isu zvose pasina tsanangudzo. Shamwari yangu Ira, 30, inotiudza nezvemurume wake: "Tagara tiri pamwe kwenguva yakareba, asi kana ini ndichinyunyuta, iye achiri kufara nemufaro. Ndinovonga kushingaira kwake, ndine chivimbo mune zvehutano hwangu uye nesimba rehukama hwedu. " Chii chandingawedzera pano?
9. SMEL KUNYANYA KUDZIDZA.
Kuita zvepabonde zvepabonde kwakazara. Ichi ndicho chirevo. Asi kumashure kwehukama hwepedyo kune chokwadi chekuva tambo dzinofadza uye kupisa kunotonga - maererano nemitemo yese yezvose. Chinokosha ndechimwe: chido chekuziva, zvisinei nezvose, mumwe munhu asati apedza mazuva awakasiya.
10. KUDZIDZA KUTI UYE NEZVAKAITIKA.
Regai imwe chete, asi ini ndine imwe. Ndinofanira kukuudza here? Mifananidzo. Zvadaro iye uye chakavanzika, kuitira kuti arege kubudisa tsanangudzo. Zvakanaka, ndichareva: yaiva muCuba pasi pemichindwe. Izvi zvinorangarirwa ndinotakura mukati mangu semwoyo wechipiri, ndinonzwa kurohwa kwandinorasikirwa musoro wangu. Kuvapo kwezvakavanzika kunoratidza kuti hupenyu hahuna kupfuura. Uye iyo inofanirwa, kuitira kuti mumakore 95 ari pachigaro chekuzununguka ichiri chisinganzwisisiki kune mumwe munhu akafamba munzira.
Zvechokwadi, zvinenge gumi zvinokonzera hupenyu muhupenyu hwemudzimai wese zvinogona kuva nguva yakareba kupopotedzana. Mumwe munhu ane zvakawanda kana zvishoma - hazvisi zvakakosha. Chinhu chikuru ndechokuti uende kuburikidza navo usati waita sarudzo yakakosha iwe pachako. Enda nemitemo yegoridhe inobatsira muupenyu. Kuti uwane kunzwisisa iwe pachako. Bvuma iwe. Uye ipapo zvinhu zvose zvichabuda, uye zvichagadziriswa, uye zvichaiswa pamashavha, uye hazvizoputsiki pamadziro ezvinetso zvebhanal. Kwete.