Unogona. Uye iwe wakararama. Handikwanisi kutaura kuti ndave ndakambozvifananidzira, pane kudaro, ndazvitsaurira. Akavanza uye akamirira, uye akashanda, ndokukwevera mwana wacho kune rumwe rutivi rweguta kune chikoro chakanaka. Uyezve ... Nguva idzi dzakapera: zvikwereti zvakagovera, pedo neimba itsva maiva nechikoro chakanakisisa, pabasa rose rakangosvika zvakakwana, kunyange naamai vamwene vemafungiro akachinjwa. Iwe waifara nemhuri yako yakanaka, uye kutengesa kwemurume wako uye "hakunhuhwi."
Ndianiko bell inorayira? Kuchinja murume wake, sezvazvakanga zvakaita, "haana kunhuwa," asi chimwe chinhu chakaitika. Haugoni kunyange kuyeuka pawakatanga. Asi paiva nevamwe "mabhero", zvechokwadi, vakanga vasingagoni. Murume wangu aiwanzoenda nebhizimisi rwendo. Iwe haugoni kuzvienzanisa. Uye hazvisi kuti iwe hauna kuvimba naye, wakangomusiya. Iwe hauna kutarisana nguva nenguva kazhinji: mangwanani pamangwanani ezvokudya, manheru mashoma maawa asati avata-ndizvo zvese. Kupera kwevhiki, zvakadaro, iwe waigara uchishanda pamwe chete, wakarongwa mberi. Asi vhiki yevhiki yakakurumidza kupfuura. Uyezve yakauya masikati, masikati makuru, manheru aneta - iwe mose makada basa renyu, makavapa simba rakawanda uye nguva. Mhuri yakadaro inenge yakakwana. Mune rimwe shoko, iwe hauna kumuda iye chete paakaenda. Uye zvino nzendo dzebhizimisi dzakawedzera, iwe, chokwadi, hauna kufara. Murume wacho akanyaradza, akati ndezvenguva pfupi, kuti iye pachake haafariri ndege idzi dzisingagumi, tsika, mahotera. Iwe wakatsinhanisa SMS, email, asi kazhinji hauna kutumidzwa. Dzimwe nguva zvaionekwa kwauri kuti misangano yako, iyo yaive yakagamuchirwa nguva dzose, usati waenda sechantantingly sezvakaitika kare, asi wakanzwisisa kuti zvinhu zvose hazvigoni nguva dzose zvakafanana - kuneta, matambudziko, uye mwanakomana achangobva kutsvaga kutarisa - kubva iye akatanga nguva yemazuva. Kazhinji, iwe hauna kuteerera, wakazviudza iwe uye wakasarudza "kufunga nezvazvo mangwana."
Kamwe iwe wakanga uri mhuri yakanaka, uye kamwe-kamwe kutengeswa kwemurume wake kwakafanana nehote kubva pabhuruu. Murume akanyarara kwazvo, zvakajeka uye asina manzwiro akawanda akaudza kuti ari kufambidzana nomumwe mukadzi. Uye, kazhinji, iyi haisi nyaya duku, asi hukama hwakakomba. Paakabvunzwa kuti nei achikuudza izvi, murume wacho akati anokuda, iyewo, uye kuti hana yake iri kutambudzika. Asi pano iye zvino "haunhuhu" mhuri yakanaka, iyo yaive nechivimbo. Murume wacho akazove akanyarara, ane mhosva uye akarasika. Anonyora kuti bastard uye asina kukodzera iwe. Paakabvunzwa kana aizoenda kumukadzi iyeye, akati zvinhu zvose zvinoenderana newe. Iwe unofanirwa kusarudza, asi achayananisa nechisarudzo chako. Uye iwe unorarama sei, nzira yekuyananisa nekutengesa kwemurume wake? Sei kukanganwa, kukanganwira, kunamata?
Kusvibisa kunochinja - kukakavara. Kana hana yomunhu yakamuka, munhu anofanira kumupa mukana. Zviri nani kuti urege kuita chero hurumende. Rega anzwe kuti wakaedza kumunzwisisa, varume vanofunga kuti izvi zvakakosha - kuti vanonzwisisa. Zvinoshamisa kuti panguva imwe chete ivo vanowanzoedza kuzvinzwisisa isu, ichi ndicho chirevo. Zvichida murume wako akangogumburwa. Ndakazviwana ndiri mumamiriro asina kufanira panguva isina nguva. Uye zvino-akaenda-akaenda. Rudo manzwiro anonyatsogadzikana kudarika kuwira murudo. Edza kumuregerera, mwana wako anoda baba, uye unoda mhuri. Kunyange kana iwe usingamuiti iye mhuri yakanaka.
Nzira yekupona sei kutengeswa kwemurume wake uye mararamiro aanoita? Kufanana nechirwere. Chirwere ichi chinotanga nguva isingatarisirwi, asi zvinongopera. Pakutanga, hutano hwehutano hwakaipa, saka dambudziko nekudzoka kunouya. Chinhu chikuru hachisi chokukakavara. Pachave pasina mushonga, hakuzovi nematambudziko. Ndingakanganwira sei? Kufanirwa kurangarira chokwadi chisinganzwisisiki: hatina kuuya kunyika ino kuti tiwane zvido zvevamwe vanhu. Uye hakuna munhu anotipa chikwereti. Uye kana zvakadaro, saka hapana chakakanganwira murume wake. Ungakanganwa sei? Hazvina musoro kutaura nezvechiitiko chakakonzerwa, nokuti chichabvumira kuongorora kwakanyanya kwemazuva ose mune ramangwana. Chii chandinofanira kuita? Rega murume wake kuti azvisarudze oga. Vanhu vasina kusimba, sekutonga, vanochengetedza, izvo zvinoreva kuti iwe unobatsira pane wako muvengi.