Vakawanda vedu tine unhu hunogona kutsamwisa vamwe nguva nenguva. Saizvozvowo, jaya rako dzimwe nguva rinodzoka kubva kumurume wezviroto rikava dambudziko rinotyisa, kuva musikana iwe iwe uye muvengi usingadi.
Shamwari yako, pane zvinopesana, hainzwisisi kuti chii chaunofanira kuita kana murume wake akavhara mukati make uye iye anomutambudza sezvaari mubatsiri kuti aone zvikonzero zvekumhanya kusatarisiri. Uye hanzvadzi yacho inobva mukati payo nguva apo mudiwa anoerekana asarudza kugoverana kuti akambogadziriswa sei kubasa, uye mumapara kutsanangura kusadzisa kuti musikana wake haana kuwana nguva yekugeza shati yake yaaida kuti iite hurukuro inokosha. Kune vose vakadzidza mune mumwe wevarume ava vakatendeka, tinokurudzira kuti vaverenge zvavanofunga nezvemhando dzakadaro dzepfungwa dzepfungwa. Uye, zvichida, unonzwisisa kuti ungashandura sei kukanganisa kwejaya rake mumasimba ake asingatenderwi.
Rudzi rwakashata
Iwe wakasangana naye mukupedza chikoro. Akasimudzirawo chirevo chake cheP.D. uye aifarira zvikuru mutariri wako wesayenzi mukuru wekuwana zvinhu zvakadai zvisingawaniki uye zvitubu zvebasa rake iro vashoma vevadzidzisi vakamboona. Zvinokwanisika kuti pakutanga kwekukurukurirana kwako waive naye unofadza zvikuru, nokuti mumusoro weizvi zvinyorwa zvakatakura mashoko akawanda anofadza, uye nguva dzose akagadzirira kugovana naye. Asi nekufamba kwenguva, iwe wakatanga kucherechedza kuti shamwari iyi itsva yakatanga kukudzidzisa kwete chete mundima yesayenzi, asiwo mukusunga tambo uye kugadzirira minestrone. Zvakakosha kuziva kuti izvi hazvishamisi. Munhu ari munhu anofarira - uye izvi ndizvo-zvinenge zvisati zvagadzirira kudzoka kubva mumuganhu wake wekuzvibata, ichi ndicho chinonyanya kukosha chepfungwa dzakaipisisa dzepfungwa dzevarume. Ndokusaka munhu wose anenge ari pedyo naye akamubata nehasha zvishoma: vashandi pamwe chete, shamwari, shamwari dzomukadzi uye, zvechokwadi, vatengesi vari muzvitoro.
Kunyanya kudengenyeka kwechimbichimbi chiratidzo chevanhu vechidiki avo vaifanira kukura mangwanani. Izvi ndezvomutsa "Amai Fyodor", avo vakava vatsigiri vamai vavo, vachitamba ivo basa revanyaradzi nevanopa mazano. Vainzwa vadiwa uye vanokosha chete apo vaigona kupa "mukuru", rubatsiro rwakangwara. Uye ikozvino vari kuratidza chimiro chaamai vavo kubva paudiki hwavo, izvo zvavakasungirwa kugadzirisa zvinetso. Mumutambo wepfungwa "Chaser - Muponesi - Chibayiro", varume vanokakavara vanogara vachiedza kuita basa reMuponesi. Vanonyatsoda kutsvaga Chibayiro, icho chichada kutungamirirwa kwavo kwakachenjera uye chavanotanga kudzidzisa. Dzimwe nguva rubatsiro rwakadaro runoratidzika rwakawandisa, kunyange kutambudza, kunyanya kana Muponesi anoramba achiita "kudzidzisa" kwake. Muchiitiko ichi, usatya kutaura kuti "Stop!". Nditendese nokuda kwezano rako, taura kuti unoonga maonero ake, asi iwe uchaita chisarudzo chokupedzisira iwe pachako. Kwekanguva, angave akagumburwa zvishoma, asi kana iwe uzvibata zvakasimba zvakakwana uye uchitevera chisarudzo chako, zvishoma nezvishoma ukama hwako huchavandudza.
Iva nemufaro!
Nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzinotaura kuti mukadzi akagadzirira kutora hupenyu hwehupenyu hwake pamapfudzi eumwe munhu uye asingadi kufunga uye kuzviita akazvimiririra anokwanisa kuvaka hukama hwakasimba nevarume, kana kuti mamwe madambudziko emagariro evanhu. Zvisinei, kana pane chimwe chikonzero murume wacho anodawo kutsigirwa, uye musikana haazokwanisi kumupa iyo, imba yavo inogona kupa kuputsa.
Ndiri kuchema uye kuchema
Apo iwe unofarira kwemazana zana unotanga rwiyo rwake rwaanoda pamusoro pekuti haana hanya uye chii chinonyengera chakakomberedza vanhu vauya, iwe uri kuedza kumubata, asi mukati mako unotsamwirwa kuti une munhu akadai. Izvi hazvirevi kuti haana zvakakwana zvachose - asi, anogona kuita basa rakakura, ave noupenyu hwakajeka, uye uri pano, akanaka uye ane hanya, nguva dzose naye. Asi zvinoratidzika kuti munhu uyu anongoda chete kugovana maonero ake asina kunaka panyika. Iwe wakaenda kune cafe, akaraira hodha, asi yakanga isina kuwanikwa? Iwe wakamirira hafu yeawa uchigunun'una pamusoro pekusaruramisira munyika, mushure mezvose zvamunonwa, kuti iwe unoda, uye "iye ane". Ndakamuputira omelet kwekudya chamangwanani, iyo yakanga isina nguva yekuibvisa kubva pakateti? Anofanirwa kupedza mvura yakaoma yakasvikika - manzwiro ezuva rose anoparadzwa.
Nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzinotaura kuti kuva chimwe chinhu chisingagutsikana nevanhu vakadaro ndeyechimiro chechimiro chechimiro chekunze, chinotangira kubva paudiki. Mwana wemukati wemunhu uyu haasi kuchema nokuti chimwe chinhu chinotyisa chakaitika kwaari, anongoda kuzvidzora mupfungwa.
Varume-whiners vanokura, sekutonga, mumhuri umo baba vasipo kana mumuviri kana mupfungwa. Uye amai vangu vane hanya zvikuru, vachiedza kudzivirira mwanakomana wavo zvakanyanya kubva pamatambudziko ose. Uye panguva imwechete zvinotambudza zvikuru uye, zvichida, kunyange zviduku zvishoma zvekuedza kwomwanakomana kuita chimwe chinhu ari oga. Amai nemwanakomana vari mumhando yechibvumirano, umo maitiro asina kukwana ayo anogoverwa sezvinotevera: iye akasimba, akachenjera, ane hanya, uye iye-uyo anotora izvi, anoda. Kukura, murume ari kutsvaga hukama hwave huchizivikanwa kwaari kubva paudiki.
Zvinosuruvarisa, whiner haana kukwanisa kukura. Uye ini handina kudzidza kudzidza mutoro wehupenyu hwangu. Anodanidzira, anononoka, semwana muduku, achitarisira amai vane hanya vanofanirwa kumubatsira kurarama noupenyu huno hwakaoma. Sezvo mutemo, muukama munhu akadaro anotora nzvimbo yeVokutambudzika. Uye anogara achida Muponesi. Musikana asina kugadzirira kungotsigira uye kuva mutsa wemudiwa kune waanoda, asingabvunzi chinhu chero chipi zvacho, haakwanisi kugara nemurume whiner kwenguva refu. Ngatitenderei iye achimufadza iye nekunzwa kwake uye manzwiro ake pakutanga kwehukama. Asi kana zvakakosha kuti iwe uzvizive iwe pane kuti uone sefudzi resimbi rakasimba riri pedo newe, ipapo vako vaviri vane ramangwana.
Handingakanganwiri!
Chinhu chose chakakura newe, kusvikira chimwe chinhu chichiitika kamwe kamwe. Asi chii ichi "chimwe chinhu" uye nei chichimukuvadza zvakadaro, unofanira kuzvifungidzira iwe pachako. Zvichida gare gare, munhu waunoda achataura pamusoro pekusaita chimwe chinhu kuti arege kumugumbura mune zvakanakisisa manzwiro. Asi zvichaitika gare gare, asi mukati meawa mashomanana uchaona chiso chisingafadzi chemurume wako uye kupindura mibvunzo yese mhinduro imwe chete - "yakajairika." Uyewo vanotambura nekushaiwa kwekunzwisisa kweizvi mune mufambiro wako waasingadi.
Kuwedzerera kune vamwe mumamiriro ekurwisana, kusada kutaura, uye kutarisa kusuruvara, zvichida zvinoratidza kuti haana kutarisirwa zvakakwana. Kakawanda, izvi zvinogona kunge zvinyatsozivikanwa. Kunyombwa komumwe wako kunokonzera manzwiro ekuregerera kubva kwauri, uye iwe wakagadzirira kupa ushamwari wako kuti utsungirire kunzwa uku kusingafadzi. Zvinokonzera kutsamwa zvakanyanya, semamwe matambudziko mazhinji, muhuduku. Zvichida vabereki vakadzivirirwa mukuratidzwa kwemanzwiro uye kazhinji havana kurumbidza mwanakomana wavo muduku, nguva imwe neimwe vachida kusaona kuti kuburikidza nekunyomba iye aiedza kuisa pfungwa dzavo kwavari. Uye panzvimbo yekuzvida uye kubvuma kuti chii, chinova chakakosha kumucheche kuti chinongororwa sei nevamwe. Asingawani zvaanoda, anochengetedza kushungurudzika kunyika yose, iyo muupenyu hwehukuru hunoratidzira pamikana yose kune avo vasina kukwanisa kumupa kukwana zvakakwana uye rudo.
Mukomana muduku mumunhu mukuru anotya kukumbira chimwe chinhu pachena uye kuti awane kukundikana kwake, asi kamwe-kamwe anorambwa. Nokudaro, kukanganisa kunova, zvisinei kushamisika, asi nzira yekukurukurirana nenyika yakapoteredza nemumwe wako. Vaya vanogara vachigumburwa vanotenda kuti havafungi, uye vanoda nguva dzose kuvimbiswa kwezvakakodzera, kurumbidzwa. Munhu akadaro akafanogadzirirwa kuti ave nemaonero akaipa kune iye amene. Anokwanisa iye pachake kutanga mamiriro ezvinhu ayo achamunzwa akarambwa uye asingazivikanwi, achigamuchira kubva kune ichi rudzi rwemazuva ano.
Chimwe chikonzero chinowanzokonzera kutsamwa kunogona kuva kutarisira kusina kukodzera. Murume wako akamirira kubva kwauri, somuenzaniso, kukoka kumapati kana kushanyira shamwari uye, asina kuigamuchira, nemaso ake ose anoratidza kushorwa kwenyika yose. Anotenda nemwoyo wose kuti iwe, kufanana nevamwe vakawanda, unofanira kunge uchiziva zvaanoda.
Kana jaya rakanyanya kubata, iwe unofanira kuva nemoyo mukutaura naye. Murumbidze iye nekuda kwezvaakabudirira uye kubudirira, asi dzivisa kudzienzanisa nevamwe, nokuti iwe wakanakisisa ndiiye, uye iye chete! Edza kuwana "yegoridhe" pakati pakati pekuyemura nguva dzose uye kudzivisa kutsamwirwa pane zvake. Tora pfungwa yemunhu kubva pamatambudziko kusvika kune zvimwe zvakanaka zvehupenyu. Muratidze kuti kutaura pamusoro pekuchema kunogona kunge kusingatyi uye kune ngozi! Uye usakanganwa nezvekukurukurirana uye pamusoro pemanzwiro ako - usazvipa mhosva uye nguva dzose uregerere apo iwe haunzwi uine mhosva.