Kune vezvematongerwo enyika , hupenyu hunochinja uye hutendeuka hwemabhizimisi emabhizimisi ekuratidzira uye maHollywood vateereri, pamusoro pemitemo inowanikwa mubasa, maitiro evamwe pamwe chete uye antics yemukuru. Asi kunyanya, iwe haugone kukanda mazwi kunze kwenziyo, tinoda kukurukura nevanhu vanojaira, shamwari uye kunyange hama. Nhamba idzi dzinoti tinozvitsaurira pamusoro pe 65% yekutaurirana kwedu kune chikamu ichi chakakomborerwa! Kune rumwe rutivi, sezvo vazhinji vedu takanyanyobatanidzwa mune izvi, zvinoreva kuti tinozvida uye tinounza chimwe chibatsiro. Asi kune rumwe rutivi, isu tose tinodzidziswa kubva pamazuva okutanga kuti hazvina kunaka kutaurirana mumwe munhu, asi kuita makuhwa kana kuti "asingakuvadzi" madzimai '"hobby" kunyanya kuipa! Uye hapana munhu kunyange anonyanya kuda muchero "pamusoro penguva nemitambo" haifungi nezvemasango echirevo che "makuhwa". Saka iwe unowana sei pakati pakati pezvinhu zvose pamusoro pehehwa uye makuhwa?
Nguva yakanaka . Maererano nevasayendisiti, makuhwa aivepo kunyange pasi pepakutanga kwemagetsi. Vanoonekwa seimwe yenzira dzekusimudza kutaura. Zvakanaka, iye zvino mutauro wedu wakafuma uye unofungidzira, asi isu tichiri kuhwa. Sei? Iyo makuhwa ane imwe nguva yakanaka: inoshuma pamusoro pemitemo yaunofanira kutamba uye pamusoro pemiganhu yausingafaniri kuyambuka. Somuenzaniso, iwe wakatamira. Uye vavakidzani pamasitepisi apo musangano uchitaura nezvevatapi vekare: "Zvakanaka kuti vakabuda. Vose vaimhanya mimhanzi, uye zvikwama zvemarara kwemazuva akawanda zvakamira pamukova weimba. " Nekubatsira kwekunyomba uku, vavakidzani vanokuzivisa iwe: haufaniri kuita izvi.
Uye isu tiri pano kucheka kana "kusakuvadza" vakadzi "" chido chekuita "vanoita. Chirevo chinonyatsozivikanwa chinotaura kuti makuhwa anouraya vatatu vatora nhengo: munyori, anoteerera uye "anopomerwa." Uye haasi kure nechokwadi. Somuenzaniso, wakanga uchitsvaka basa kwenguva yakareba, usingabvumi kune zvingasarudzwa pane "mamwe mapfumo". Uye kusarudza kwako kwakaratidza kuti kwakapiwa: iwe wakapiwa nzvimbo yakakodzera, iyo, zvakare, yaive yakawanda kupfuura inopa mubhadharo. Kupfuura iwe nemufaro, wakaparidzira mashoko akanaka neshamwari dzakawanda. Asi havana kuda basa rako rokukura. Uye mukati memazuva mashomanana, pakati pevamwe vazivana navo, paiva nenhepfenyuro yokuti mubhadharo wakadaro wakanga wakamirira kwemakore matatu kuti iwe wakagamuchira nzvimbo iyi kune chimwe chinhu chisingazivikanwi uye kuti iwe haungakwanise kuzviita. Wakazosvika izvozvo, zvawakasangana nehama dzako, gomushki aifarira sezvaunoita, achiri kushanda? Unofungei, kurwisa uku kuchaguma sei? Mumwedzi inoverengeka, nzvimbo yako inogona kutemwa. Zvechokwadi, munhu anogona kutaura kuti dambudziko racho rose ndiro rinokonzera mhosva, asi nokuda kwechimwe chikonzero rinoratidzika kuti mazwi evamwe, zvakare, akataura nekunonoka nguva dzose, achaitawo mugove wavo. Ikoko kune makuhwa uye imwezve inonotsa. Mune maonero evanhu vanofunga nezvepfungwa, kazhinji munhu anotaura zvakananga kusasha kwemweya izvo zvakaoma kuti ayananise iye pachake.
Ichi chakafanana nemhando yepfungwa yekudzivirirwa, iyo, zvakare, inobata joke ine utsinye nehuhwa. Mushure mokunge musimuka uye muchidaro muchikanganisa inzwi romukati kwenguva iyo, muchiti "Iwe hauna kukwana!", Munhu wacho anoshaya zvakakosha zvikuru: akaoma, chinetso hachina kubva, nokuti haana kushanda paari, saka haashandi.
Usatora kutakura! Sezvaunogona kuona, makuhwa uye makuhwa vane zvose zvinowedzera (ndiani angadai akafunga?), Pamwe chete. Saka zvakakosha here kukurukura mumwe munhu kana kwete? Kana zviri pamusoro pehama dzako kana shamwari, nguva dzose tevera mutemo: "Ndinongotaura nezvemashoko akanaka chete. Kana ndikasagona kutaura chero chinhu chakanaka, zviri nani kuti ndisataura chero chinhu. " "Kusununguka" kunogona, kureva, kukurukura neshamwari, chipfeko chisingaoneki Julia Roberts akaisa mutambo we "Oscar" kana kuti Zhanna Friske acharoora. Asi zvakadini kana uchiri kunzwa sokuti uri kukurukura chimwe chinhu chakakosha, asi kwete chakanaka pamusoro peumwe munhu waunoda?
Nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzechiitiko ichi dzinopa mazano. Ongorora mafungiro ako. Ingova wakatendeseka iwe pachako. Edza kunzwisisa chii chinoita kuti ude muumbi. Iwe unonzwa sei pamusoro pomunhu waunoda kuzokurukura? Kunzwira tsitsi? Hasha? Godo? Zvinokwanisika kuti kufungisisa kwakanaka, iwe unonzwisisa: chinonyanya kukosha chinetso hachisi chinhu chinonzi makuhwa, asi iwe pachako. Funga nezvezvakazara nenhema kune munhu uyu. Ichaita sei paupenyu hwako, pakutanga, maziso asina mhosva. Mushure mezvose, musingadi, iwe unogona kuita kukuvadza kukuru. Uye kana "Kutenda" iwe ungava nerunyerekupe runoparadza mukurumbira webhizimisi hwemunhu kana kukanganisa hupenyu hwako hwega? Hazviiti kuti iwe unoda kutakura mutoro wakadaro. Zvinowanzoitika kuti isu tinokanganisa nokuti hapana chimwe chekuita, nekuda kweshoko rakatsvuka. Nesu hapana chinoitika, asi humwe hupenyu hwevamwe vanhu huri kuvira. Zadza zviitiko nehupenyu hwako: tsvaga chido chokutsvaga, nyora mubhiri, enda kumitambo yekufambisa. Iwe unogona kuva nechokwadi kuti nguva ye "Iwe unoziva chii chinotyisa chipo murume wako akachiudza kuna Angela?" Haazogoni zvachose.