Iwe unogona uye unofanirwa kuenda kuchechi!
Zvinoshamisa kuti imwe nhema yakapararira zvokuti mukadzi ane pamuviri nenzira yakati haagoni kupinda muchechi. Vakawanda "vanoziva" vanasekuru pane chimwe chikonzero vanovhundutsa vakadzi vane pamuviri vane mvumo yakadaro, uye musangano wenyika yose uzere nemibvunzo yevakadzi vakaora mwoyo vakadai sekuti "Zvinokwanisika kuenda kuchechi kune vakadzi vane pamuviri here? ". Zvinokwanisika kupindura mubvunzo uyu unambiguously - hazvisi nyore chete kutarisa kereke kune mukadzi ane pamuviri, asi zvakare kunokosha!
Vashumiri vechechi vanokanda zvakadaro zvakasiyana uye, zvisinei, kukumbira vakadzi vane pamuviri kuti vauye kutemberi. Kushanyira kereke nguva dzose kunopa simba kune amai vari mberi uye kutenda kuti zvose zvichave zvakanaka nemwana uye pamwe naye. Kune chero mukadzi upi zvake ane pamuviri inobatsira uye inokosha kuti auye kuchechi uye anyengetere. Pashure pezvose, paanouya kutemberi, anotendeukira kuna Mwari nemwana wake asati aberekwa. Ndokusaka mukadzi ane pamuviri anofanira kuenda kuchechi! Asi izvi zvose zvinonzwisisika, chete kana mukadzi achida kuenda ikoko. Vakadzi vane pamuviri havagoni kuita chero nechisimba, kushanyira kereke pano hakuzovi chinhu chisingaiti.
Kana mukadzi ane pamuviri asati awanikwa nemurume wake, kereke inokurudzira kuti iwanane kunyange asati aberekwa mwana - ipapo Ishe achatumira nyasha dzakanaka kune vakaroora. Kana mukadzi ane pamuviri asina kubhabhatidzwa, asi angada kubhabhatidzwa, zvino pamuviri hausi kupindira nechinhu zvachose. Uyewo, mukadzi ane pamuviri anokwanisa kutora sakaramendi ye sakramende zvakachengeteka - kubvumwa kweZvenhema Zvitsvene kunongobatsira iye nemwana wake.
Pane imwe nguva, kereke haifaniri kuenda yoga - mukadzi ane pamuviri anofanira kushevedza nemurume wake, shamwari, amai kana mumwe munhu kubva kune vanhu vepedyo kana vadikanwa. Muchechi, mukadzi ane pamuviri anokwanisa kurwara kamwe kamwe, uye zvino rubatsiro rwavo ruchadikanwa. Zvisinei, izvi zvinokurudzira hazvirevi kungoenda kuchechi chete - mukadzi ane pamuviri paanenge achangopera nguva yakawanda kunze kwemusha wake anonyanya kuenda kune imwe kambani yemumwe munhu.
Asi mushure mekusununguka mutambo mutembere, mukadzi anofanira kukanganwa kwemazuva makumi mana. Maererano nenheyo dzechechi, iyi ndiyo nguva inotora kuti mukadzi acheneswe zvivi zvepakutanga. Pangosvika nguva-muganhu wapera, mukadzi anogona kuuya kuchechi, asi kutanga mupristi achaverenga pamusoro pemunyengetero wezuva risina kunaka makumi mana. Mushure meizvi, achazobvumidzwa zvakare kuenda kumasangano uye kutora chikamu mumakramendi echechi.
Mumakuva - iwe unogona, pamariro - kwete!
Maererano nevose "vanoziva" vanambuya, vakadzi vane pamuviri vanokwanise kuuya kumakuva nemariro. Uyezve, zvine ngozi kunyange kutarisa kune wakafa. Vanotya vakadzi vane pamuviri vane "nhau dzinotyisa" dziri mumakuva mweya wevakafa unogona kubatira kumwana, uye kana mukadzi ane pamuviri akatarisa kune wakafa, mwana achazvarwa akafa.
Vakuru veChechi zviratidzo zvakadaro zvakaenzana nehedheni uye kupenga. Vapristi vanoti chisarudzo chekuenda kunzvimbo yemakuva kana kwete ishoko rega rega mukadzi wese ane pamuviri. Kana mweya wemukadzi uchikumbira kuenda-handigoni kuenda sei? !! !! Kana pakavigwa amai vake, baba, mwana, waanoita naye mufaro wehumai hunouya, kusuruvara kwake kana kurwadziwa? Kana mukadzi achida kuenda ikoko - zvinogona kuitwa.
Zvisinei, kana kugara mumakuva kunobatanidza nemukadzi ane pamuviri ane manzwiro asina kunaka, kana mukadzi achitya, achishushikana kana asinganzwisisiki kuti avepo - zviri nani kurega kushanyira nzvimbo dzakadaro. Pashure pezvose, kushungurudzika chero kupi zvako panguva yekuzvimba kunopesana nekubudirira kwemwana. Manzwiro ose, ose anofara uye anoshungurudzika, anotapurirwa kubva kuna amai kuenda kumwana ari mudumbu. Ndiko kusaka panguva yekuzvitakura kune zvakakosha kuwana mamwe maonero akanaka uye manzwiro. Muchiitiko ichi, iwe unoda kuzvidzivirira kubva kunetseka uye nguva dzisina kunaka.
Nokudaro, kana iri mubvunzo wekuenda kumakuva panguva yemariro, kuona kana mukadzi achida kushanyira hama neshamwari, kana ane chokwadi chokuti hapana chichavhiringidza rugare rwemukati-iwe unogona kuenda ikoko.
Kana iri yemariro, kunyange kune munhuwo zvake nguva dzose inogara ichinetseka, kwete kutaura mukadzi ane pamuviri. Saka, panguva yekuzvitakura, unofanira kuzvitarisira iwe nechecheche uye urege kuenda kumariro, kuitira kuti urege kudzivirira izvi uye zvinokuvadza kuhutano hwake.
Nguva yekubhabhatidza mwana?
Maererano nemitambo yeChechi, mwana wacho anofanira kubhabhatidzwa pazuva rechisere mushure mokuberekwa. Zvisinei, mukuita, vabereki havawanzozvisarudzira kubhabhatidza mwana wavo panguva yakadai. Sezvo mutemo, mwana anobhabhatidzwa mushure mekunge apfuura muganhu wemwedzi. Chechi yakatendeseka kwazvo munyaya iyi - kunyange kana iwe uchikumbira kubvuma mwana wako wemakore matatu kana mwana akakurira, iwe kazhinji hauzombokubvunzi kuti nei wakasvika zvakanyanyisa. Uye zvirokwazvo, hapana mu sacramente yekubhabhatidzwa acharamba iwe.
Sezvaunogona kuona, chechi haina kuisa chero chinorambidza vakadzi vane pamuviri. Usabhadhara kutenda kune zvakakurumbira, nyevero pamusoro pemhashu mumakuva, kumariro uye kunyange kereke. Chinhu chikuru mune izvi zvose ndezvekuti amai vanguva inouya vanofanira kupiwa mukana wekuita izvo zvaanofunga kuti zvakakosha iye nemwana wake. Iwe haufaniri kuteerera kune chero munhu uye iwe haufaniri kukanganwa kuti chete avo vanotenda mavari vane unhu hwokuzadzika.