Mushure mokunge maita hurukuro, yakasvika pakuzivikanwa kuti vanhu vakawanda vanotenderera TV kuitira kuti vawane rusununguko kana nguva yekuzvivhiringidza pane chero chinhu. Psychophysiologists vanosimbisa chokwadi chokuti panguva yekuona zvakananga kweTV, kukanganisa kunowedzera, asi patinenge tichidzimisa, zvinhu zvose zvinodzokera kune zvakarongeka, kana kutopfuura nhamba yepakutanga, pane imwe nzvimbo.
Uye hazvishamisi, zvinosuruvarisa, kuti muhukama hwehukama hwehutano hunotora nguva yakareba, murume nomudzimai vanobva kune mumwe nemumwe, nokuti vanorasikirwa nehukama hwehukama. Pane imwechete muupenyu hwangu takanzwa kana kuona kuti vaviri vacho vari kutarisa TV mumakamuri akasiyana kana kuti zvimwe. Havana kunyange navose vanofarira mafirimu kana mafirimu, kusataura nezvezvimwe zviitiko zvinowanzodiwa. Hazviwanzoitiki kuti mhuri dziungane kana vanhu vaviri vane rudo vachiona mapurogiramu pamwechete, vachikurukurirana gare gare. Uye ichi ndicho chimwe chezvinhu zvinobatanidza muhukama hwemhuri. Mushure mezvose, murume nemudzimai vanofanira kuva nezvido zvekuita zvemazuva ose.
Asi izvi hazvibatsiri mukugadzirisa imwe dambudziko rinokosha rakabatana nekushandisa nguva yakasununguka mumhuri. Mushure mezvose, maererano nehuchapupu hwezvidzidzo, zvakava kuzivikanwa kuti basa kwete kwete chete rekuita tsika, asiwo basa remuviri rinowanikwa chete kune vatatu vakapindura kubva kune gumi, uye kune avo vakapindura vana izvi hazvisi zvekare kunyange nenguva nenguva.
Kugadziriswa kwemotokari kunotyisa kune hutano hwehuviri hwomunhu uye mupfungwa. Ichokwadi ichi chakavhiringidza pfungwa dzenyika kuti, kuburikidza neWorld Health Organization, mhirizhonga yakatangwa iyo inosimudzira pfungwa yeboka rehutano. Mushure mezvose, vanachiremba vazhinji vezvakasiyana-siyana vanotenda kuti chinhu chinonyanya kuitika mumuviri uye mukana wekukurukurirana nemasikirwo ndiwo ane simba rinopesana nemanzwiro, mumhuri uye muhupenyu. Uye avo vakaroorana avo pamwe chete vanoita mararamiro akadaro, nezvemakakatanwa emhuri uye zvinonyangadza zvinongowanikwa kubva kune vamwe vanhu.
Pamitambo yakadaro yekuvaraidza sejoka rinotasva mabhanhire, mabhiza, kuruka, mvura, makomo nekufamba-famba kwekushanyirwa, ndezvokwadi kupa mari yakawanda kudarika kusangova nyore kufamba mupaki kana kubata hove. Asi kukosha kwavo kwehukama hwemhuri pachavo hakungorondedzereki. Uye kana mhuri iri nevechiri kuyaruka, saka zvinodiwa zvemhuri zvakadaro zvinobatsira kutsungirira zvinetso zvevechiri kuyaruka nokukurumidza uye zvinobudirira.
Mutambo wepamberi kumadokero ndiyo inonyanya kuzivikanwa mumhuri. Mumwe murume nemudzimai vakaroorana vanonyatsotamisa izvo zvinonzi "kugaya" muhukama, uye vakaroorana avo vakagara pamwe chete kwemazana emakore pamwechete, mumamiriro ezvinhu aya, vari kutarisana nemanzwiro ekutanga ehusiku.
Kukurukurirana nemhuka dzemhuka ndeye simba rinopesana nemapurisa, mushure memaitiro ari pamusoro apa ane chokuita nekuita basa. Kuongorora kwakasiyana-siyana kunoratidza kuti ihwo kukwanisa kutarisira kune ani zvake, kusanganisira mhuka dzemhuka, pakati pezvikonzero zvikuru zvekurarama.
Tichifunga nezvechinyorwa chinoti "Murume nomudzimai: zvinowanzodiwa", tinogona kusimbisa imwe imwe nyaya inofadza zvikuru, zvichiita kuti tive nemamiriro ezvinhu emhuri. Chinhu chakadaro chinotambwa nemitambo yemhuri, iyo inosanganisira kwete mitambo chete.
Semuenzaniso, mhuri dzeAmerica dzinopinda dzidzo dzakakosha apo dzinokwanisa kunyatsosarudza mutambo unofanidza mhuri yavo kupfuura vamwe. Masayendisiti akacherechedza nguva yakadaro inonakidza iyo vanhu vose vanoda kudzidziswa kutamba. Izvi zvinoshanda kuvana nevakuru, nokuti vana havazivi kuti sei, uye vanhu vakuru havazivi kuti vanozviita sei. Mushure mezvose, chero chinhu chipi nechipi chinokuvadza uye chido chekuita chinofanira kuva nechinangwa. Pano pane dzidzo dzakadaro vakadzi vanozviwana.
Imwe nzira yekufambisa mhuri ndeyokushanyira museums. Asi, zvinosuruvarisa, gore roga roga zvinyorwa zvevakaroorana vanoita mhuri vachienda kumamamamusumusi emhando ipi zvayo, zvinowedzera kuderera. Vakapindura avo vakabatanidzwa mune imwe yezvidzidzo vakabvuma kuti gumi chete kubva muzana vavo vakange vashanyira musamuziyamu mumakore mashanu apfuura. Uye makumi manomwe kubva muzana yevanhu vakapindura vakati vanoda kuda kudzidzisa vana vavo rudo rwekudhiroya, asi zvose hazvina kukwana panguva ino.
Zvose zvakafanana, vakaroorana havadi kuti vasungirirwe pane dambudziko iri, dambudziko rezviitiko zvinojairika. Ichokwadi, haufaniri kukanganwa nezvayo. Nhengo yese yemhuri, kunze kwevose, inofanirwa kuva neyemunhu oga, yekuzvifadza. Mushure mezvose, somuenzaniso, bhosi remukadzi harisi izvo chaizvo zvaakarota pamusoro, kana kuita mitambo yekumavirira kumunhu - kutaura zvishoma nezvishoma izvo chiremba akaraira.
Zvechokwadi, kana murume akaenda kunobata hove kana kuvhima, uye mudzimai akagara pamba uye ari kuchenesa, izvi hazvingavi nemigumisiro inonyanya kuhukama hwemhuri. Murume nemudzimai vanofanira kunge vane zvavanofarira, zvisinei kuti munguva pfupi vachakurumidza kushungurudzika nemusiyano uyu. Asi, kana iye panguva ino achienda kumakirasi ekufananidzira kana kutora, ipapo hutano hwehukama uye rugare rwepfungwa mumhuri hunovimbiswa kuwedzera.