Iyi inonzwa kurwadziwa, iyo, maererano naFrançoise Sagan, "inogara ichiparadzaniswa nevamwe vanhu." Vakawanda vedu tiri vakaipisisa kudarika kusuruvara, somuenzaniso, kumhirizhonga. Iva nehasha mune imwe pfungwa "inoremekedzwa" kupfuura kusuruvara, - yeuka Harlequin naPierrot. Kusuruvara kunowanzobatanidzwa nekusava nesimba, kushaya simba, hakubvumirwi nehupenyu hwemazuva ano uye, zvinoratidzika, zvinokudzivisa kuti ubudirire, mukuda, uye uchifara. Apo patinenge takasuruvara, tinoda kuvanzika uye kunyarara, zvakaoma kwatiri kutaurirana. Kusuruvara kunounza nzira inokosha yemafungiro uye, saBenedikt Spinoza akacherechedza muzana remakore rechi17, "inowedzera kukwanisa kwedu kuita." Panguva dzakadaro, hupenyu hwakasimba hunomira, isu tisati taita sekuti chidzitiro chiri kuderedzwa uye mharidzo haisati yasarudzwa. Uye hapana chakasara asi kuti uzvishandure iwe pachako - kuti utange kuratidza. Kubva parutivi munhu wacho anorwara, uye anorayirwa kuti aite chimwe chinhu nokukurumidza. Asi zvakafanira here kukurumidza kudzokera kune zvisina maturo ehupenyu? Kusuruvara ndiko kunzwa kwakanzwisisika, uye tinokukoka kuti uverenge nyaya yedu.
"Zvinosuruvarisa kuti ukama hwangu nemunhu akanaka hwakaderera"; "Zvinosuruvarisa kuti zvakanakisisa kutanga" ... Kana isu takasuruvara, pane chimwe chinhu chakanaka chakanyangarika kubva muupenyu hwedu kana kuti hachina kuonekwa mairi. Tingave tisati taziva kuti chii, asi nekuda kwekushungurudzika, tinozvibvunza mubvunzo uyu: chii chatinoshaya kukwana kwehupenyu, kuti tifare? Isu tinoteerera isu pachedu, teererai kuhukama hwedu nenyika. Dzimwe nguva manzwiro aya anokanganiswa nehasha, kusagutsikana, kutsamwa ishoko re "manzwiro anotyisa". Asi kazhinji tinonwa kunwa kwakachena kwekushungurudzika, kunogona kuparadza chete kuziva kwekukanganisa kwayo - ipapo kutora kwacho kunova kwakaremera, astringent, kunorwadza. Mukusuruvara pasina mhosva, ruvara rwakanaka rwerwizi runorwadza runonzwa ... ruchibatanidzwa nehutu. Saka ndizvo. Ndedzipi dzakawanda dzakarondedzwa dzakanyorerwa munharaunda iyi uye mimhanzi ipi! Asi dzimwe nguva hupenyu hunoitika, hutsinye uye hunotora kwatiri isu vadiwa, ivo vanokosha zvikuru ... Tinokwanisa kupfiga nekurega kumanzwa kuitira kuti tisakanganwe nekukanganisa pamusoro pezvatakarasika, nokuti zvinoramba zvichishungurudza. Uye zvino tichasarudza nzira yekuora mwoyo. Uye isu tinogona kuzarura mwoyo uye kurarama kurasikirwa kwedu - zvose zvakakwana, kudonha: uye kuzvidzora, nekutsamwa kwezvisikwa zvakasiyiwa uye zvakasiyiwa, uye kusurukirwa, nokuti mukutambudzika hakuna munhu anogona kubatsira. Iyi haisi nzira iri nyore yekuporesa. Zvakakosha kuita sarudzo, isu pachedu, zvakanyanya pachedu, kuitira kuti tifambe tichizvininipisa nenzira yose. Izvi zvinoda kushivirira, uyewo rusununguko rwekuzvibvumira kuchema, kushambidza nekuchenesa ronda. Mukuwedzera, tichafanirwa kuparadzana nepfungwa yekuregerera: apo, tangozviregerera isu, tichakwanisa kuchema, tichanzwa kuti mweya wakakuvadzwa wakavharwa muhombodo inotonhorera-inotambudza, asi ... inotonhora.
Kushungurudza, zvakakosha kuchema zvinosuruvarisa, zvakanyatso, zvinyoro. Mweya unoshevedzera unofanirwa kurongedzwa nomumwe munhu - sei usina kuzviitira iwe pachako mweya? Brew tei, tora chifukidzo nebhokisi uye urombo sezvinoda mweya wake. Uye zvinoshamisa kuti nokukurumidza zvinhu zvinoshanduka kubva kumunhu akadaro. Iye zvino nekumwemwerera, zvinosvika, rangarira kurasikirwa kwako. Iwe unogona kutotaurira nezvazvo, tarisa mifananidzo. Ukama hunova hwakakwana, nekuda kwezvose hazvirevi. Iye zvino haugoni kungoyeuka, asi kuti uite mutauriri, inzwa kutsigirwa kweiye akasiya pfuuri. Uye huchenjeri huno hukuru hunomutsa chido chakasimba chakadaro chokurarama, kuti zvose zvido zveupenyu zvinoputika. Icho chinopera kuti haagoni uye haadi kutora chero chinhu chatinotya kuda. Vose vadiwa vanogara nokusingaperi nesu. "
Uye kana iri kuora mwoyo?
Kushaiwa kwechido, kunzwa kwemukati kusina maturo uye kusava nemafungiro, kusuwa kwakakomba, kusuruvara, kuzviuraya ... Kazhinji, kudengenyeka kunokonzerwa sekutarisana nehupenyu hwakashata kwenguva yakareba kana sekunzwa manzwiro ekurwadziwa kukuru uko munhu asingagoni kurarama nawo. Uye zvakadaro hurumende yekutambudzika ndeyokusiya iwe pachako uye kwete kuzvibvumira kuti usuruvara pamusoro pezvinoitika. Nhasi, vanhu vakawanda veEurope vanoramba kutora zvinodhaka, kuti varege kunzwa kushungurudzika, asi kuti vanzwe sei mibvunzo yake. Ndinofarira upenyu hwangu here? Sei ndichiri kutsungirira mafungire akaipa akadaro kwenguva refu? Sei ndichirarama kana ndakarasikirwa nevaya vandaida? Kukwanisa kusuruvara, kuora mwoyo, kuzvidzora kunoreva zvechokwadi kuti tiri vanhu vapenyu. Kusiyana nezvose.