Paunodzoka kumba kubva kubasa, iwe wakasara uri woga newe. A heavy melancholy inokukuvadza newaini yakashata yakaoma. Iwe unobata iwe uchifunga kuti uri kutotaurira zvinonzwika nevakuru vehupenyu hwako hwekudavira redhiyo, uye TV yakazara yava nhengo yakakwana yemhuri ... Nezvei kusurukirwa kwevakadzi, kutarisana nayo uye kuchakurukurwa pasi apa.
Kusurukirwa inzira yekuzviziva iwe, seyese yakakanganwa, yakabviswa, yakasiyiwa, yakasara. Iwe usati waedza kurwisana neusuru, unoda kunzwisisa midzi yacho. Kazhinji pane zvitatu chete:
Kunyanya kutarisira
Nhasi mitemo yedu haigoni kufanana nemitemo yevamwe vanhu. Vanhu vakavapoteredza vanoita sekuti isu tive mapenzi, tisingabatsiri, vashoma mune zvemweya. Kutsvaga munhu akakodzera yekukurukurirana kunogona kunonoka, uye kutyisidzirwa kwehupenyu hwose kuti ugare uri woga kungokura.
Solution:
Usatarisa munhu akakwana, shamwari yakakwana. Hapana mavari zvachose! Kazhinji chimiro chisingazivikanwi chisingazivikanwi hachiumbwa kubva muupenyu chaihwo zvitendero, asi kubva pane zvaunofunga. Iyo yakaputsa kushamwaridzana nenyika chaiyo haitibvumi kuti tinzwisise kuti muupenyu humwe vanhu ava vangasava shamwari dzakadaro, vatauriri, vanoda. Munguva pfupi iwe uchawana zvakawanda zve "minuses" mumunhu chero upi zvake, izvo zvicharamba zvichitungamirira kurasikirwa kwechipi zvacho chinokwezva. Nzira yakanakisisa yekugadzirisa ndeyokuisa pfungwa pa "pluses".
Kutya kurambwa, kutya kukurukurirana
Kufanana nekutya kupi zvako, kutya kwekukurukurirana kunobva pakuderera kwekuzvikudza. Iwe unotya kutaurirana nevanhu vasingafaniri kurambwa, nekuda kwekutya kusava nekunakidza. Asi kana iwe uchifunga kuti iwe hauna kukodzera rudo, iwe haugoni kumirira! Yeuka izvi.
Solution:
Kurukurai zvimwe. Hazvina mhosva kuti zvakaoma sei uye hazvina kufadza pakutanga. Hapana chinangwa pakagara pamba nguva dzose! Munhu akachiva uye munhu oga haaoneke kuonekwa kamwe kamwe "kubva kupi usingaiti". Iwe haufaniri kutora heroine yebhaziki yakakurumbira iyo inotarisa pasi pemubhedha kwemakore makumi mana, ichiedza kuwana munhu ipapo, uye pashure pemakumi mana akaitwa imwe, kuitira kuti mukana wekuzivana uwedzere.
Iye zvino mamiriyoni evanhu vari kusvika pakuziva Indaneti. Izvi, zvechokwadi, haisi nguva dzose inobudirira yekubudirira, nokuti varume ikoko vanowanzotsvaga hukama hwenguva imwe chete. Zvisinei, vanhu vazhinji vari mumutambo vanotaura vasingatyi manzwiro avo, vanoita zvepabonde uye vanoita zvepabonde. Sarudza! Usakurumidza kuti urembedze pamutsipa webasa rakanaka nemufananidzo wepamusoro chete nokuti akati iwe hausi kunyange chinhu.
Kunyanya kusada kutaura
Vanhu vakadaro vanoita sevanoda kutaura, asi vanokurumidza kuvasungirira uye kufarira kuri kurasikirwa. Manzwiro okusurukirwa uye hurumende dzakasiyana-siyana dzinoshungurudza munyaya iyi dzinomuka nekuda kwekusawirirana pakati pezvido zvavo zvakavanzika uye kupindura kwevanhu. Urwu ruzhinji rwekusurukirwa hahwusi kubva pane unhu, asi pane zvaunofunga. Chikanganiso chacho zvose zvigadziro zvako, izvo zvakaoma kugadzirisa.
Solution:
Edza kuzvida iwe! Urarame maererano nehupenyu hwako hwemukati. Hungu, hazvisi nyore. Pakutanga, tichafanira kurega kuona nyika sezvazvinonzwisiswa nevakadzi vekare pabhenji, vachibvunza kuti: "Sei iwe uri makumi matatu uye usina kuroorwa, usina vana?". Dzidzira kuzvidzidzira, kuripa nguva yako yose isina nguva. Ita zvinhu zvako zvaunofarira, kuzadza zuva nekunzwa kushungurudzika. Tarisa mufirimu wako waunofarira, tora kufamba usati warara, tora bhaji inotonhora, verenga bhuku rako raunoda, teerera mimhanzi. Kumunhu anokonzera kubatana, vanhu vanoramba vachitambanudza. Kunyemwerera kweshamwari uye kutarisira kwako hakuzosiyi vamwe vasina hanya.