Nokudaro, kazhinji mubvunzo unomuka kupi yekupa zvinyorwa uye kuti ungapinda sei musangano, kana pane nguva shoma shoma.
Kunyanya kunetseka mubvunzo wekuwana dzidzo yepamusoro kumudzimai wemhuri - mukadzi uyo akasarudza kuzvisunga newanano, uyo ane kare ane vana, uye vashoma maminitsi mashoma. Kunezve nzira yekubuda nayo, uye kunyange mukadzi akadaro anogona, ane chido chakasimba, akawana dzidzo yepamusoro pasina kupa zvibayiro zvemhuri. Maererano nehutano hwemagariro evanhu, vazhinji vemadzimai emhuri havafungi nezvekuwana dzidzo yechipiri, nokuti vanotya kurasikirwa nemhuri yavo. Zvisinei, mumwe munhu anofanira kunzwisisa kuti mhuri ichakurumidza kana kuti inouya nguva dzinonetsa, apo mukadzi zvakare achafanira kuzviratidza pachake uye kubatsira murume muhomwe. Izvi zvingasazoitika zvachose, asi zviri nani kugadzirira mberi, uye kuzviremekedza kubva kune zivo yakawanikwa kunogona kukura zvikuru. Chinhu chikuru ndechokusarudza sangano iro rinongopa chete vadzidzi vane nhau nezvemangwana yemazuva ano, asi apo ichave ichifadza kudzidza, nokuti pasina ruzivo rwekupedzisira, pfungwa yekuwana dzidzo ichakurumidza kuparara.
Chokutanga pane zvose, zvakakodzera kutanga nekusarudza chikoro. Iko kune mabhuku akawanda akasiyana-siyana umo masunivhesiti ose, masangano uye zvidzidzo zveguta rako zvinomiririrwa. Tsanangudzo dzakanyorwa pamusoro pezvakanaka uye zvakashata, pamusoro pekubhadhara kwemari yakazara uye dzidzo yekunze, pamwe chete nehutano hwakanaka nehupfumi hwechirongwa ichi. Kana iwe usingakwanisi kuwana shanduro yakadaro, shandisa Indaneti uye uzviwanire pachako uine zvikoro zvese zvinokufarira iwe. Basa rinokosha rinowedzerwawo nenzvimbo yepamusoro-sangano yematunhu, nhamba yezvikwereti zvebhajhesi kana kubhadhara kwekudzidziswa kwekambani. Tsvaga kuti unoziva sei iyo yunivhesiti, zvisinei kana zvichibvira kudzidza kunze, kana sangano rinoronga zvidzidzo zvakasiyana-siyana kana zvidzidzo, chii chinotarisira uye chinopikira iyo yunivhesiti inopa. Zvakakosha kubvunza shamwari dzave dzakapedza kudzidza kana ikozvino dzichidzidza payunivhesiti, vakuudzei ruzivo rwakanyatsotsanangurwa vasati vaita chisarudzo.
Sezvo mutemo, sangano rose rekuremekedza rinoronga izvo zvinonzi "Zuva Rokutanga", apo iwe unogona kushanyira ino yunivhesiti uye kudzidza pamusoro pezvose zvaruridzo zvaro nekukanganisa. Paunenge uine data yose inokosha mumaoko ako kuti uite sarudzo yakatarwa, tsvaga chirongwa chaunoda uye ugadzirire kuongororwa kwekupinda.
Izvi zvose, uye nezvimwe. Ichokwadi chokuti nyika inopa vagari vayo mikana yakawanda mikana yakawanda ndeye kubudirira. Asi izvi zvose zvinetso. Mazuva ano hupfumi hweRussia hunoda chimiro chakasiyana chevashandi. Chokutanga pane zvose, nhasi tinoda kushanda mabasa, kusanganisira vashandi vane unyanzvi. Teknolojia inoshandiswa mumabhizimisi akawanda emabhizimisi, mune zvekurima, pakuvaka, haisi nguva dzose inoda munhu ane dzidzo yepamusoro. Uye vanhu vakagamuchira dzidzo yepamusoro vanomanikidzwa kana kuchinja maitiro avo uye kushanda kwete maererano nehuwandu hwavo, kana kuti kuita basa rinoda zvidzidzo zvishoma.
Munguva pfupi yapfuura, vakadzi vakawanda vemhuri havakwanisi kugara, asi vanoda kuzvitsvaga ivo vakakodzera uye vanobhadhara zvikanganiso zvevechidiki. Nhasi, hapana mhirizhonga yakanyanya seyokupinda munguva yeSoviet. Zvisinei, nhasi, kunyange kupinda muhurumende yekunyora haisi basa rakaoma. Nhamba yevasingagoni kupinda inowedzera gore negore, uye, sevanyori vanoti, huri hwehudziro hwakaderedzwa.
Chinhu chakakosha zvikuru ndechokuti avo vakapedza dzidzo yepamusoro masangano havagoni kuwana dzidzo yakakwirira, uye naizvozvo, basa rakanaka nevakakodzera. Nokudaro, mugumisiro wekudzidziswa kwakadaro unogona kuva unyanzvi hushoma, huchava husingashandisi mu nyika yanhasi. Zvinopera kuti mukadzi wemhuri anofanira kuenda kuzvinyengera, achitarisira kuwana dzidzo yepamusoro uye kuishandisa mukuita. Nzira yekuita sarudzo yakakwana, saka usingazvidemba nguva yakashandiswa. Chinhu chimwe chete chinoramba chiripo kumunhu ndechekudzidzira zvakanakira chikoro chega chega chekudzidzisa nekuongorora ruzivo rwakanowana.
Kunyanya ichangopfuura, Gurukota reZvondo reRussia - Andrei A. Fursenko akataura kuti 20% chete yezvikoro zvepamusoro zvemazuva ano inopa dzidzo yakanaka, uye ruzivo rwakanyanya kushandiswa mukuita. Zvishoma nezvishoma, zvisarudzo zvinogadzirwa, maererano nezvayo zvunivhesiti zvakawanda zvakavharwa, uye kubvumirwa kune kudzidziswa kwevakakumbira kwave kwakaoma zvikuru. Iye zvino avo vadzidzi vakanga vasingakwanisi kudarika USHANDI kunyange kune vatatu vatatu havagoni kutarisira kuwana mari.
Nhasi, vakadzi vazhinji vakaroora vanobvunza mubvunzo uyu: sei kuwana dzidzo yepamusoro kumudzimai wemhuri? Chinhu chikuru ndechekuva nechinangwa pamberi pako uye nguva dzose kutevera kurota kwako. Kune vanaamai vanoita zvisingamboparadzanisi nevana vavo, asi vanopedza nguva yose yekusununguka kudzidzisa, uye vozopedza miedzo ndokuenda kumatare ekunyora. Zvechokwadi, kupa nguva yakaenzana yemhuri kune imwe nguva, zvisingazobudiriri. Zvisinei, zvinetso izvi ndezvenguva pfupi, uye zvakakoshawo kuwana dzidzo yekunze kuitira kuti mukadzi asagona kupa chiremba nguva dzose, asiwo anoshandisa nguva yakawanda nemhuri yake uye mwana.
Kana agamuchira dzidzo yakakwirira yepamusoro, chero mukadzi upi zvake achave nezivo yakakosha kuti adye mhuri yake kana nguva dzakaoma dzichiuya. Kunze kwekuti, mune ramangwana mudzimai wese achange achida kushanda, mushure mokunge vana vose vachida kukura, uye hupenyu huri hahuna kusvika pakuguma.