Ngatitange nechinhu chikuru: yeuka pamusoro pezviverengero mupasipoti yako! Nguva yehupenyu haisi kukosha zvakanyanya muhukama pakati pemurume nemukadzi. Kana mumwe wako ari muduku kudarika iwe kwemakore matatu kana kupfuura, iwe hausi woga. Maererano nenhamba dzepasi, chechina yevakadzi vanosarudza varume vaduku kupfuura ivo.
Kubudirira kusanganiswa.
Mukudaro iwe uri muduku zvishoma, kune vakawanda vanobatana.
1. "Mukadzi semakore akawanda sekuda kwake," -kureva chiFrench. Uye ivo vakanyatsokodzera. Kana iwe ukapedza nguva nemukomana muduku, maitiro ehupenyu hunochinja huri mumuviri wako inononoka.
2. Mukuita zvepabonde unobatana: mukadzi anoziva kutora kwechokwadi kwemazera makumi matatu nemakumi matatu nemashanu, uye varume kwemakumi maviri nemakumi maviri nemaviri ane huwandu hwehupombwe.
3. Rimwe rutivi rwakanaka - iwe unogona kunzwisisa zviri nyore. Iye zvino mava kutoziva chaizvo izvo zvamunotarisira kubva muupenyu uye vadikamwa vaunoda kuona pamberi penyu. Saka haafaniri kuteerera "mweya wako unonyengedza kutsvaga" uye unofanidza kuchinja mafungiro. Nenzira, varume vanotya izvi semoto.
4. Pakupedzisira, uhu hwake hunosimudzira zvikuru kukura kwako. Basa rokutanga rekushanda, imwe dzidzo yepamusoro, kushamwaridzana kwemazuva ose, kuberekwa kwomwana - izvi zvose zvinowanikwa apo kune munhu anoshingaira, akasimba uye akazara naye.
Taurai zvakajeka.
Kuti uratidze rudo rwako, kutanga tanga kuzvibvunza: Sei ndichida munhu uyu? Iva akagadzirira matambudziko aunogona kutarisana nayo.
- Iwe unogona kunge wakavhiringidzika, uchida amai vemanzwiro pamusoro pake uye kunyange usingazvioni, kurinda uye kuisa "mukomana" wako. Vamwe varume, kusarudza vamwe vakadzi vakuru, vachengeta vana kusvikira vhudzi rakachena. Iwe unoda mutoro wehupenyu hwake hwose here?
- Anogona kunge asina kuratidza hwaro hwakasimba: motokari, imba yake, basa rakanaka. Zvichiri vaduku kupfuura iwe, mudiwa anogona kunge asina kugadzirira kuonekwa kwevana. Nokudaro, kana iwe uchida chaizvo munhu uyu, zvakakosha kuti utaure naye pachena pamusoro pezvinhu zvose zvinonakidza zvehupenyu hwekupedzisira.
- Uye imwe pfungwa yakaoma, asi yakakosha zvikuru: haufaniri kunge wakanganisa nehanzvadzi yako yaunoda zvikuru. Yeuka izvi! Mune simba rako kutiza kubva muzera rako, unofanirwa kubata nemaitiro ako zuva nezuva, usasvike.
5 mirairo kwauri.
Chengeta mitemo shoma shoma, kana uchida kuchengetedza ukama uhwu. Kana iwe uchikoshesa mararamiro ako asina kukodzera: murume ari muduku - usava iye "amai."
1. Usava negodo.
Chero chero rudzi rwekutarira kwaakakanda pavana vaduku vekutanga, akasarudza iwe. Uye zvichava nemwi, kana iwe usingazomudzingiri nechishuvo nekunyombwa.
2. Usarinda.
Akaita mararamiro ake makore makumi maviri nemaviri (kana kutowedzera) asina hanya newe. Usamutarisa kumativi ose eguta, kana akati aizotadza.
3. Usabhadhara mari.
Kunyangwe kana mudzidzi achiri kuchida, anofanirwa kubatanidzwa mune zvakafanana mari. Rega zvikamu zvive zvisina kufanira. Iwe uchagadzirisa zvinetso zvemari chete - iwe uchakura gigolo.
4. Usanetsa.
Kana iwe uine maziso achipisa, zvino chii chakasiyana, iwe uri nemakore mangani? Nenzira, shamwari dzake hadzifaniri kuziva zvakanyorwa mupasipoti yako-iwe unotaura mutauro mumwe chete navo. Uye musafunga kuti vari kusevera shure kwemashure enyu. Edza kuramba wakasikwa uye ushamwari. Chenjerera iwe pachako: chiyero uye ganda rinofanira kunge rakagadzirirwa zvakanaka. Sarudza doro rakanaka rezvipfeko uye nyora pamashoko egaga uye mudziva.
5. Usapikisana nevabereki vake.
Zvichida havazobvumirwi nekusarudza mukomana wavo. Asi iwe haufaniri kumurwira. Naiye kuti ararame, anosarudza, uye kwete baba naamai vake. Zvematongerwe enyika uye nzvimbo iri kure ichakubatsira iwe kutanga.
Kubwinya kweHollywood kunoda kusarudza varume vaduku kupfuura ivo.
Apo Susan Sarandon akasangana naTim Robbins, aiva nemakore makumi mana nemashanu, aiva nemakore 29. Izvi hazvina kutadzisa inozwi, ruzivo rwehupenyu hwavo pamwechete makore makumi mana. Iye zvino izvi zviri zviviri zvinotaurwa semuenzaniso wezvisinganzwisisiki "asterisks".
Kushevedzera Cameron Diaz anoda vasikana vaduku. Ukama hwakanaka nomunyori Justin Timberlake, uyo ane makore mapfumbamwe ari muduku kwaari, anotsamwisa amai vake. Neshamwari itsva, dombo John Mayer, haisi musiyano wakadaro munguva - funga, mamwe makore mashanu!
Mukadzi akaudza nyika yose nezvekuuya kwevasikana vasikana mune rimwe guta guru harina kodzero yekuve yakaoma pamusoro pezera rake! Candace Bushnell anotarisa zvikuru: hapana munhu achafungidzira kuti akwegura kupfuura murume wake, mutambi Charles Asgard, kwemakore gumi.