Imwe yemamwe nyaya inoseka inotaurira nezvekunakidza, nei munhu achifanira kuva nani kupfuura mukadzi. Somuenzaniso, "mbongoro yemurume haigoni kuva chinhu chikuru munguva yebasa, kana munhu haachinje zita rake panguva yekuroorana, kana murume haatevedzeri orgasm, kana zvirongwa zvemuchato zvevanhu zvinowanzoitika pachavo, kana chokoti inongova kutapira kwavari, murume vanogona kuva mutungamiriri wenyika, varume vanovhiringidza zvinyararire shamwari kana vakatanga kutaurira, kana varume vari mumashamba okugadzira motokari nguva dzose vanotaura chokwadi, kana kuti havamboshandisi tsvina inopisa, kana kuti rufu rwemutevedzeri wavo wavanofarira, inongova chiitiko chavo mune zvinyorwa. "
Uyewo pawebhu inodhindwa mamwe mazwi anonyadzisa anotaura kuti sei zviri nani kuva mukadzi kupfuura murume. Somuenzaniso, vanoti "vakadzi vanorarama kwenguva yakareba kupfuura varume, kana mukadzi asingakwanisi kuwana prostatitis, mukadzi haatyi mhanza yekare, kana kuti munhu anogona kugadzirisa matambudziko ose nemisodzi, kana kuti munhu haagoni kupendesa misumari yake nemucheka mutsvuku, kana kuti munhu anogona kuwana mhemberero maruva bedzi pamariro avo, kana munhu haagoni kuva zana zana anoziva kuti shamwari yake inotora mapiritsi ekuberekwa asati aita zvepabonde, kana kuti havana chikonzero chekuita zvisina kunaka mazuva mana pamwedzi. " Uyezve, "munhu anobhadhara mari yangu, kana kuti havana chaanosarudza, kupfeka shangu kana shati (kunze kwekuti munhu uyu haasi Scotsman). Ichokwadi kuti weScotsman anogona kupfeka jira, asi inofanira kuva imwe yakatemwa uye cage, uye iwe unotora mabheji. "
Asi, uye kana iwe uchibva pamusikana, uye fungisisa zvakanyanya nezveiyi nyaya. Munzvimbo dzakawanda, unogona kuona kuti zviri nani kuva murume pane kuva mukadzi chaiye. Somuenzaniso, kana mukadzi akagara mune imwe hofisi kana pamatare emari, zvinokurumidza uye zviri nyore kuti munhu ave nechikwereti kana kuti matikiti ekugadzirwa kwepamusoro. Nokuda kwechimwe chikonzero, vashandi vevakadzi nevashambadzi havasi kukuvadza uye vanobatsira varume nekuzvidira. Nhoroondo, varume ndevanyori vezvakawanda zvekugadzira uye kuwanikwa, pamwe chete nevakasika vezvakawanda zvekugadzira maitiro. Nokudaro, kubva pakutanga, iri pane vakomana apo sangano rinotarisira zvese zvarinotarisira. Munyika dzeEastern, hapana mubvunzo zvachose: "Sei zviri nani kuva murume? "Murume ari kumabvazuva ndiye mugari wenhaka uye kutsigira kwemhuri yose. Icho chiri pamusoro pevarume kuti tariro dzose dzinoiswa. Kutonga kwemhuri kunopfuura chete kubva kumurume kusvika kumunhu.
Kunyange kuMadokero, kwemazuva mazhinji, ukuru hwevanhu hwakanzwisisika. Nokudaro, ikoko kwaitenda kuti zvakanga zviri nani kuva murume kupfuura mukadzi. Zvichida mafungiro aya akaitawo kuti sangano revakadzi rive nemitemo yekodzero yakakwanira yevarume nevakadzi. Pakanga pane chinhu chakadai se "kusunungurwa kwevakadzi". Pakupera kwezana remakore remakore rechi19 uye pakutanga kwema20, pakanga pasina kuve pachena pakati pevanhukadzi. Vakadzi vakatanga kutaurira zvido zvekodzero dzakakosha mumhuri, kushanda uye hupenyu hwevanhu. Kwenguva yekutanga, vakadzi vakakwanisa kuvhota musarudzo muNew Zealand muna 1893. Zvishoma nezvishoma vakagamuchira kodzero yekushanda munyika nehurumende, pamwe chete nemari yakakwana. Nenzira, muRussia musangano wekutanga wevose wekuenzana kwevakadzi nevarume wakarongedzwa muna 1917. Nenzira, kubudirira kwevakadzi yaiva chikonzero chokuti pane imwe pfungwa: "kusunungurwa kwevarume." Mazuva ano, varume, vakasunungurwa kubva mumagariro akawanda emagariro evanhu nemagariro evanhu, vakatanga kurwisa kodzero dzakakwanira nevakadzi. Nhasi, murume wemazuva ano anomanikidzira hukuru hwevakadzi muzvikadzi zvepamusoro. Semuenzaniso, kodzero yekugara nevana uye kutarisira kwavo mushure mekuparadzwa kwewanano.
Kunyange nanhasi, pane kutenda kwakasimba munzanga kuti vanhu chete ndivo vane kodzero yekufunga mafungiro. Kazhinji iwe unogona kusangana nemhando yakakurumbira zvikuru: "murume" pfungwa uye "chikadzi" pfungwa. Kazhinji kazhinji mune zvekugadzirwa nekuchengetedza nzvimbo, zvisarudzo zvinotarisirwa zvinowanikwa nevanhu. Zviremera zvakakosha zvinotaridzirwa sekutanga kune vakomana nevarume uye vakagadzwa. Vanovhima varume nyore nyore, kunyange kana mukadzi wechikumbiro asingabvumi kune zvose zvinosarudzwa zvekusarudza. Zvinotendwa kuti varume havasi kurwara, vachitaurirana uye vasingafariri basa. Ivowo havaendi pazororo rekuberekwa kana kutora nguva nekuda kwezvinetso zvevana vavo. Murume anonzi anonyanya kushanda mushandi.
Midzi yekusarura mafungiro kune varume nevakadzi inofanira kutsvaga mumhuri. Zvechokwadi, Mwari akasika mukadzi kubva mundiro yaAdhamu uye iye anofanira kushumira murume wake. Kunyange kurota kwevana kunokurudzirwa nevabereki vane chimwe chimiro chekutenderera. Semuenzaniso, vakomana vanorota kuva vatungamiri kana vashandi vebhizimisi, uye vasikana vadzidzisi vemitambo kana vatariri, nekudaro vasikana kubva kumakore vaduku, vabereki, vadzidzisi nevamwe vanhu vakuru vanoita kuti zvigadziriswe zvinoshamisa zviita kuti vanyorove. Munyika yedu pane varume nevakadzi. "Match" pakati pevakomana, zvechokwadi, hazvidziviriki. Kune chero munhu upi noupi, kana ari murume kana mukadzi, pfungwa yekuzvimirira uye yakasiyana ichabatsira kuchinja hupenyu hwake hwose kuva imwe nguva yakafara uye inofadza kwenguva. Kunyange zvazvo vamwe vakadzi vanotenda kuti zviri nyore kuti varume vabudirire uye vafare. Uye vamwe vari vakadzi vanoedza kuita basa uye vane hukuru hwepamusoro munzanga kuratidza kuti mukadzi akanakawo.
Asi kune vakadzi vakawanda kunzwa kwomufaro woupenyu kwaisazova kwakakwana dai vaisagona kuonekwa sevakadzi. Vanoda kuva vakadzi: vakanaka, vakashinga, vachinyengera pedyo nemurume. Pamberi pevakadzi vakadaro hapana mubvunzo: "Ndiani ari nani kuva murume kana mukadzi? "Mukadzi wemazuva ano haatamburi zvikuru nemibvunzo yakadai, anogona kunge ari muchengeti anoyevedza uyo anongororeka nyore nyore mwoyo yevanhu.