Tinozvara pamwe chete here? Pros and cons? Kutya kana kutsigirwa? "Kuberekwa pamwe chete: vanachiremba vanorevei?" - musoro wehurukuro yedu yanhasi.
Munguva ichangopfuura muRussia mhuri dzechidiki dzinosarudza kubatana kuberekwa. Nhasi zvakaoma kushamisika chero munhu ane chido chevabereki munguva yemberi kubereka pamwechete. Kana vakaroorana vakabata mwana wavo murudo uye kunzwisisa, zvino chido chavo chinonzwisisika, uye chete chibvumirano chinofanirwa. Kubatana nekuberekwa hakusi kungova nehanya nehupo hwemurume ari pedyo nemukadzi ari kusununguka munguva yekuberekwa. Hapana vanocherechedza vasingaoneki, vose vari vatori vechikamu vanoita basa mukuzvarwa kwomwana. Basa rebaba ramangwana panguva yekubatana kwekubata kunenge kwakangofanana nechinzvimbo chaamai. Vabereki avo pamwe chete vakagadzirira chiitiko chakakosha zvakadaro kumhuri imwe neimwe uyezve vanosimudza mwana mukudanana kwese uye kunzwisisa. Chinhu chakanakisisa paunenge uchitarisana nemurume wako chinogona kuva chimwe chezviitiko zvisingayeuki zvehupenyu.
Nzira yekuziva kuva mubereki inotanga kuumbwa mumunhu wese muhuduku, uye inovakirwa pamuenzaniso wehukama nevabereki (kwete nguva dzose dzakanaka, asi izvi zvakarewo ruzivo), hukama neudiwa. Iko panguva yekubatana kubatana kuti ukama hwechokwadi hwevakaroorana hunozviratidza. Asi usapinda kubasa rekuberekwa kuitira kuti ugadzirise matambudziko emhuri chero ipi zvayo, nenzira iyi haugoni kungowedzera kuwedzera kwavari, asi zvakare kuisa nzira yakagadziriswa yemagetsi. Nokudaro, zvakakosha kuti vataurire mberi kune mumwe nemumwe, hukama hwechokwadi pakati pevakaroorana munyaya iyi hwakakosha zvikuru. Saka usati waenda kune rimwe danho, zvibvunze mubvunzo: "Sei ndichida izvi?"
Izvi zvinoitika kuti vakaroorana avo vakave vakabatana kubatana vanovhiringidzika kwazvo mukati mavo, uye izvi zvinogona kuitika kana munhu asinganyatsonzwisisi vavariro dzavo uye zvido zvavo. Kune vakadzi vanoda kuvandudza ukama mumhuri, kuratidzira wawakaroorana naye kuburikidza nekutambudzwa kwaanofanira kupfuura, kana kutarisira kuti mushure mokunge mubatana aberekwe papa achatora chikamu chikuru chekutarisira mwana.
Asi izvi zvose hazvisi vavariro, nokuti zvinokurudzira zvakadaro zvinogona kutungamirira kumigumisiro yakaipa, uye murume wacho achangobva kubva kwauri nemwana. Hazvina kudiwa kunyengetedza murume wake kuenda kumuberekwa, kana asingadi. Varume vazhinji vari kungorwisana uye vanofunga kuberekwa kuti kuve kwakachena kwevakadzi.
Izvo zvinodiwa kuti vakaroorana vadzidziswe kuti vabatsirane. Iye zvino pane dzidzo dzakawanda dzevakadzi pakuberekwa uye avo vanobatsirana navo. Nokuda kwebasa rekushanda, murume anofanira kuziva, fungidzira zvikamu zvekuberekwa.
Chinangwa chikuru chekuti mukadzi adane murume wake kuberekwa chido chekunzwa rubatsiro rwemudiwa. Murume anofanira kupa rubatsiro rwetsika, kudzikama mudzimai wake, anobatsira sezvinodiwa, kutungamira kuisa muviri kunoderedza marwadzo.
Kazhinji kazhinji, pavanotaura pamusoro pekuberekwa kwavanoita, vanoreva mumwe wako, asi hazvisi. Mumwe waunobata pakuberekwa anogona kuva amai kana hanzvadzi. Asi mune chero zvipi zvayo, inofanira kunge iri mukadzi akatopfuura nepanozvarwa, zvichava nyore kubatsira amai pakuberekwa.
Ichokwadi chokuti baba vanouya vachabatanidzwa pakubereka mwana, mumwe nemudzimai vanozvisarudzira ivo pachavo. Kune mhuri umo vabereki vanotora zvose pamuviri uye kubereka ruoko muruoko. Mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, baba vanobetsera pakubereka, uyewo, mumugumisiro, inotora chikamu chinoshanda mukutarisira kwechechecheche.
Mune dzimwe mhuri, sarudzo inogadzirwa pamusoro pekuvapo kwepapa mudhacheche, panguva yebasa, uye baba havaendi zvakananga kuberekwa, achadzoka zvakare nemhuri iyo mushure mokuberekwa kwechecheche. Vamwe vevarume vacho havana kugadzirira kuenda pakuberekwa, asi havagoni kumirira kuona mwana wavo uye vachigara mazuva mashomanana muchipatara nemudzimai wake. Kune zviitiko, kuvapo kwababa uye mukushanda kwechikamu chekusiya, apo papa anotarisira kutarisira kwose kwechecheche, apo amai vanobva kune anesthesia. Mhuri imwe neimwe inosarudza nzira yakakodzera ivo pachavo. Chinhu chinonyanya kukosha ndechekuti kusarudzwa kwekuberekwa kwevabereki kunowanikwa zvakazara nekuzvidira.
Hazvishamisi kuti vanoti: "Vabereki vanofara vane vana vanofara." Mwedzi mipfumbamwe ivo pamwe chete vanogadzirira kuberekwa kwevana vakamirira kwenguva refu, nerudo rukuru kune mumwe nemumwe uye zvisati zvambozvarwa. Uye zvechokwadi, magetsi makuru erudo ndiko kuberekwa kwehupenyu hutsva, hunosangana nekuda amai vake nababa.