Pasi pezviyeuchidzo zvenguva dzinofadza, vairarama matambudziko, kuberekwa kwevana, mufaro nekuchema. Iwe wakanga uri mumwe wevamwe vadiwa zvikuru uye vanozvarwa. Shure shure kwemakore akawanda ehupenyu hwewanano.
Asi, chimwe chinhu chachinja. Pakati pako pane chimwe chinhu chakaitika - sekunge pakafa gati. Manzwiro akasiiwa, asvibira pasi.
Hurukuro yekupedzisira ... uye iwe nemurume wako kuenda kuhofisi yehofisi zvakare, asi ikozvino kuti muparadze ukama hwenyu. Iwe unorambana. Nguva yekudzorera inouya iwe newawakaroorana naye. Uye, tichaedza kukubatsira iwe kupona kurambana pasina kushungurudzika.
Unonzwa sei panguva ino? Iwe unoda kuzvivhara iwe kubva kumunhu wose, pedyo nenyika yako pachako, zviputire muhombodo uye usaona kana kunzwa chero munhu. Chazhinji munguva pfupi yapfuura, wakafara. Uye zvino iwe uri woga. Zvinoratidzika kwauri kuti wakatengeswa, wakasiiwa, uye hauzombofi wakatenda ani zvake zvakare. Kutengesa hakusi kungofanirwa kutengesa, munhu wako wepedyo uye anodikanwa akangofunga kukusiya iwe. Akafunga kuti aizofara kunze kwako.
Nyanzvi dzezvepfungwa dzinotaura kuti nguva yekutambura kwemunhu anenge apona kurambana inopedza inenge mwedzi mitanhatu. Zvinosuruvarisa, vakadzi vazhinji vanorasikirwa nepfungwa yavo yekuzvivimba-kuzvikudza kwavo kunowira. Uye, sezvamunoziva, kuzvirumbidza pamusana wakakwana kunoita kuti mukadzi - mudzimai chaiye.
Kurambana pasina kushungurudzika - ndeyechokwadi here kana kuti kungongova nhema, iyo inongova nevasikana madzimai voga voga vanotenda? Ngationei.
Chinhu chikuru ndechokuti uone kuti kuora mwoyo kwauri kuita iye zvino kunowanikwa kune mukadzi chero upi zvake mushure mekurambana. Misodzi, kusuruvara, chido chokupukunyuka - kuitika kwemuviri wako kumamiriro ezvinhu anonetsa anokonzerwa nekurambana kwevanhu vaviri-kamwe-mu-rudo.
Chinhu chakanyanya kuoma iwe unofanirwa kurarama nacho ndechokunzwa kusakoshi mumweya wako. Kana uine vana, zvatove zviri nyore - iwe hausi woga, vana vako vanoda iwe, saka pane mumwe munhu anopa rudo uye kutarisira.
Vanhu pavanodzoka, iyo inonyanya kubhadharwa iyo inogona kurayira ndeyekuti "zvose zvichapfuura," "zvose zvisingaiti - zvinhu zvose zviri nani." Hungu, hongu, izvi ndezvechokwadi. Asi kuzadziswa kwechokwadi ichi kunouya nenguva, uye panguva yaunenge uine "kushungurudzika mushure mekurambana," kubva pamashoko akadaro, yakangoerekana yasvimha misodzi, sebheuga. Kunyange zvakadaro, kune imwe nzira - kuwana munhu mutsva. Asi, semurairo, kana kuzvikudza kwemukadzi kwakaderera pane kudarika, izvi zvinonetsa zvikuru zvepfungwa. Kunyange zvakadaro, zvinobatsira kuvhiringidza.
Mushure mekurambana, iwe unogara uchitsvaga kurira uye kuchema. Saka kuchema, iwe unoda kuchema zvose zvakaipa. Maererano nevepfungwa dzepfungwa, nguva ino inopera inenge mwedzi. Uyezve, kurambana hakusi chinhu chakanyanya kuitika muupenyu hwedu. Kungoshandiswa kwechimwe chete, edza kubvisa zvinhu, zvifananidzo zvinogona kukuyeuchidza nezvehupenyu hwewanano. Manzwiro ausingaitanidzi.
Kana uchangobva kurarama panguva ino - kuora mwoyo nekuchiva - iwe pachako hauzone kuti ungaita sei chido chekurarama. Manzwiro aya achavandudza, iwe uchava netariro yakawanda pamusoro pemamiriro ako. Ndiko panguva ino, ndinokukurudzira kuti uzvikweze pamwe chete uye enda kuti uchinje iwe pachako. Iwe uchiri akanaka uye iwe unofanirwa kufara kwemai chaiye. Shandura chifananidzo, tenga mutsva wakanaka mutsva. Imwe nzira yakakura, tsvaga kuzviita iwe pachako - unogona kuita zvinofadza iwe uye uwane shamwari itsva.
Chimwe chezvibatsiro zvekurambana - haufaniri kushambidza masokisi emurume wako, simbi yake shati uye kubika borscht. Tanga kuzvida uye kuzvitarisira. Tarisa zvakasimba mune ramangwana rako uye yeuka kuti "zvose zvisingaiti - zvose zviri nani!".