Kubvira panguva yapfuura yakave yakatendwa kuti murume chaiye-wakasimba, wakanyarara, nguva dzose akadzikama uye asina kunyunyuta. Unoyeuka sei mufirimu yekare yairatidza rudo? Kunze kwekutarisa.
Chenguva dzimwe nguva gamba rakabvumirwa kugumisa chinhu chechido mukati mesimbi inogamuchirwa nechisimba chisingaiti. Panguva ino, vateereri vakanzwisisa: ichi chakakomba zvikuru uye, hongu, nokusingaperi ... Uye chii pakati pevadikanwi chaivazve, mumwe nomumwe akazvifunga pachake.
Zvechokwadi, nhasi pane zvikwangwani isu tave tambojaira kuHollywood serial varume vakanaka, vachiyamura madzimai avo nehova dzemitambo inofadza. Icho chiri muhupenyu chaihwo, kuzivikanwa kwavo nokuda kwechimwe chikonzero kunowanzonzwiwa nevamiririri vehutano hwakafanana navo ...
Nenzira, mafirologist vanosimbisa izvi: varume vanotaura zvakanyanyisa, izvo zvinodanwa nemuenzaniso-hysteroid. Zvisikwa zvakavasika nenzira yakadai kuti chingwa hachifudzi - rega ndikuratidze uye pende. Zvose zviri mu "talkativeness" zvinoenderana nezvikonzero zviviri: kuzvivimba uye shamwari uye kurera ...
Kwete neshoko, asi nekuita
Chokutanga pane zvose, zvakakosha kunzwisisa zvaunoda: kuvimbisa rudo kune unodiwa kana mazwi akanaka? Zvinogoneka kumirira kusvikira kuuya kwechipiri. Asi nekutaura kwemanzwiro - nyore nyore. Mushure mezvose, kuvanhu "zvinopesana zviviri".
Mukadzi ane rudo, semurairo, anotaura manzwiro ake zvinonzwika uye pachena, murume anoenda kune imwe nzira. Zita - nezviito. Gadzira chigadziro chemunhu wako waunoda muimba, chengetedza mumabhuruku anopisa, nyundo mbambo mumadziro kana kudira mafuta mumushini. Makomo achashanduka kuva uchapupu hwekunzwa kwavo. Asi-zvinyararire. Ndizvo chete nekunyemwerera kumeso: tarira, vanoti, pane zvandiri kugadzirira iwe!
Chinhu chikuru ndechekudzidza kuonga uye kunzwisisa mutauro wevanhu: kana asingakuregi simba kana nguva, maonero ake kune munhu wako akaoma zvikuru ...
Haisi chokwadi, nyarara
Vazhinji vevarume vakave nechokwadi: avo avo vari kuchema pamusoro pemanzwiro avo kune kurudyi uye kuruboshwe ndezvekukurukurirana nemhepo. Pane imwe pfungwa inokosha zvakare: apo testosterone iri kutamba, zvakaoma kuti varume vaone kuti zvakanyanya zvakadini pamusoro pevasikana wavo. Mifungo inofanira kuderera kana kupinda kune yakananga, sekutaura, rut - ipapo iye achasarudza kuti ndeye nguva yakadii yekugara newe: kusvikira pakuguma kwemazuva ake kana kusvika pakupera kwevhiki ...
Heino zvakanamatirwa!
Izvo zvinoitikawo kuti mukadzi pachake pachake ndiye anokonzera kukanganisa kwemurume uyu mukureurura kwe rudo kumudiwa. Semuenzaniso, pakarepo mushure mekutanga kuzivikanwa, anotanga kuongorora murume uyu sepfuma yake: akatadzira kuti aida kusangana neshamwari, uye kwete kuenda kumafirimu pamwe chete naye, achidzivirira rusununguko rwavo rwemazuva ose, achitsvaga zviratidzo zvisingaperi zvekucherechedza, kumurumbidza, mashoko e rudo, kumirira mazano uye kugamuchirwa pamusoro pezvinovandudzwa. Izvo zvinoshamisika kuti iye zvino kubva kune anotya nekumanikidzwa kwakadaro kwekudiwa kudzokorora mazwi anodiwa mumwe haafaniri kumirira ...
Muviri - zvepabonde
Vanyoro uye vane rudo - kwete mumashoko chete, asiwo mukukurukurirana kwezuva nezuva - pane vashoma vese varume avo vanobatana navo kungova kutanga kwepabonde. Chero kubata kune avo kune "kushandiswa" zvinoreva. Zviri nyore kudzidza zvinhu zvakadai: havangambogunun'una, havazogoni kudya, havazotsvoda "saizvozvo." Uye kazhinji havazvidi ivo pachavo kana "vakagumburwa pasina." Ari mumubhedha, vatendi ava vanovhiringidza uye vasina hanya, kunyange vachizvifananidzira kuva maziso akaoma.
Kana, zvisinei, chiitiko chakaunza iwe ne "touchy" yakadai, edza kugoverana mukuona kwake kwepabonde uye kubatana kwepanyama. Ita mazoro akachena, iva nechokwadi chekumutsvoda zvinyoronyoro pamusangano uye kufuratira, kugumburwa, kutarisa iwe waunofarira terevhizheni-zvechokwadi, zvose izvi munzvimbo isina ushamwari hwepedyo. Zvishoma nezvishoma, mukomana wako anofamba uye anonzwisisa kuti sei mufaro unouya ne "veal tenderness" ...
Makore gare gare
Makore mangani wamakagara pamwe chete, mazwi pamusoro porudo haazomborasikirwi. Uye usati iwe uchinzwe kuti kunzwa kupenya kwakanyanyisa uye kuvimbiswa kwemanzwiro kunofadza chete kumukadzi. Varume vanozivawo kuti vangada sei nenzeve dzavo! Mukuwedzera, mazwi matatu emashiripiti anokwanisa kubudiswa kunze nemuchu mutsva, iyo yawakashandira kuti udye. Zvechokwadi, dzimwe nguva zvinowanzoitika: iwe unomirira unyoro uye rudo, uye HE anokanganwa kunyange pamusoro pegore rinoyeuka yemuchato! Nenzira, usakanganwa nezvezvisikwa zvepfungwa dzevanhu - hazviyeuki mazuva anokosha! Kuti urege kuva mumamiriro ezvinhu akafanana, chiyeuchidze nezvezororo iri kuuya.
Kana kuti kusimbisa chimwe chinhu chepabonde uye hwepedyo, sezvo iwe chete unoziva izvo zviviri. Mushure mokuyeuchidza kwakadaro pasina chipo, iwe zvechokwadi haungagari!
Taura nezvazvo
Ita mutemo - tsanangura zviito zvako kune murume, nokuti haanzwisisi kuti sei uri kuita ichi kana icho chiito. Nguva dzose tsanangurira kwaari kuti wakagumburwa, sei wakagumburwa - zvisinei kuti haazombozivi chikonzero chekutsamwa kwako uye ucharamba uri mukudengenyeka kwenguva yakareba. Iwe hauna kutarisirwa zvakakwana - tsanangura zvaunoda, unoda kukurukura nehutori hwako hutsva - taudza pamusoro pazvo, unzwe kusanzwisisana - taura naye nezvechinetso.
Isai inzwi muhurukuro. Tanga wekutanga, sekunge iwe uri kure, nekunzwisisa uye kusarerekera mibvunzo uye zvishoma nezvishoma uuye kunzvimbo yakakodzera: kutenga chinhu chakakosha, rwendo rwekuzorora pazororo, kuenda kune zuva rako rekuzvarwa kuhama dzako, kushanyira amai vako kana kuenda kune yebhizimisi rwendo. Uye imwe pfungwa inokosha inokosha - nevarume iwe nguva dzose unoda kutaura zvakajeka uye nyore - kunyanya mubvunzo kana chikumbiro chinobvunzwa, kunyanya kukwana mugumisiro uchava.
The Maths of Love
Sezvo mapurogiramu anoratidza, 70% yevarume vanotenda mumuchato unofadza, pasinei nekutenda kwakakurumbira kuti vanotya kuroorana ...
Muna 87% yezviitiko, chinonyanya kukosha pakuzivikanwa murudo ndekwemurume, kunyange zvazvo hafu yevakadzi vachireva kuti hazvinei kuti ndiani anoita danho rokutanga chaiyo ...
Ndivana 4 chete vevarume vanoda kuva gamba-vanoda, uye 52% vanoda kuva baba chaivo uye murume akatendeka ane hanya nemhuri ...
Kufuridzirwa kwevakadzi pahukama hwevaviri vacho -70%, uye varume-30%, saka tariro yokuti zvose zviri mumaoko edu, haazombofi ...
Vanenge makumi matanhatu kubva muzana vevakadzi vanozvidza vadiwa vavo nekuda kwekusagona kuratidza unyoro ...
45% yevakadzi inofara nemashoko asingatauri okucherechedza, achivaona sekuratidzwa kwe rudo ...
Pasinei nokukundikana, 88% yevakadzi vatsva vakaroora vane kutenda kwakasimba mukupombwe ...
40% yevarume avo vakatanga kuroorana, usatsvake zvepabonde kune rumwe rutivi ...