Chikonzero nei zvose zvakatanga
Zvinokwanisika kuti unzwisise kuwanda kwekuzivana kwako nekukurukurirana kwako kuri kuvimbisa, kunyange nemashoko ekutanga. Kana murume wacho akatendeukira kwamuri nemashoko akadai "Hello beauty. Sei usingaiti spitz? ", Zvadaro kufanana kwakadai kunogona kusarudzwa zvakachengetedzeka sekusagadzirisa. Pashure pezvose, vanhu vanonyora mabheji akadaro, hongu kunyange munhu wese ari mumutsara, paanoita zvikanganiso zvinotyisa, haafaniri kuva nepfungwa kana kufungidzira. Mukuwedzera, ivo vari kutsvaga mutauriri anonakidza uye mweya, uye uyo waizove wakakwanisa mune ramangwana kuti ave nepabonde. Saka, kana vechidiki vakadaro vachisvika kwauri, zviri nani kuti usatanga kuinyora, nokuti haugoni kuwana chero chinhu kunze kwekusagadzikana, kusinganzwisisiki kwenzano-muromo. Somuenzaniso, vanhu vakurukura nyaya mune imwe boka mukutaurirana, uye vakabva vataura zvakawanda zvokuti kutaura uku kwakava mavara. Muchiitiko ichi, iwe unozivana unogona kuenzaniswa neicho chaiyo, nokuti iwe hauna kusarudza mumwe nemumwe kubva kumifananidzo nemitemo. Yakangopinda mumvura uye pane imwe nguva, sezvainowanzoitika muupenyu chaihwo.
Chokwadi
Haisi chakavanzika icho vanhu vazhinji vanoita paInternet zvakasiyana zvakasiyana nehupenyu chaihwo. Uye, vamwe vanonyatsotamba, vamwe vanovhura mashizha avo, izvo nokuda kwechimwe chikonzero hazvigoni kuratidza munyika chaiye. Nokudaro kukurukurirana nemumwe munhu, unofanira kuziva kuti munhu chaiye anogona kunge akasiyana zvikuru nezvamunoona nekunyorera kwekuongorora nekufunga nezvehutano hwehukama hwehupenyu hwechokwadi, gadzirira zvinhu zvinoshamisa zvinoshamisa. Vanogona kunge vanofadza, kwete chaizvo.
Kuti unzwisise kuti hukama hwako huripo, edza kutaura zvakawanda ne Skype kana foni. Apo patinotaura paIndaneti, hatina nguva yekufunga nezvazvo. Nokudaro, kana mune mutsamba vanhu vanogona kupfekedza chimwe chinhu, kushandura, kudzidzisa, uye kutaurirana inzwi reumwe iwe unogona kunyatsoongorora chechokwadi chemukati wako uye unonzwisisa zvaunogona kutarisira kubva kwaari. Asi iwe haufaniri kusunga zviroto zvako kune chifananidzo chaunoshandisa nekutsvaga peji iri. Usambokanganwa kuti kunyange patinenge tichikurukurirana muchokwadi, hatigone kunzwisisa kamwe chete kuti munhu chii. Uye poavartarkam, mabhuku uye mabhuku ezvo uye kunyanya zvakadaro musazviita. Kunyangwe iwe uchizviverenga iwe sechiremba mukuru wepfungwa, kuongorora kwako kwemashoko pamusoro pemunhu hakungave kwakakwana zvakakwana uye kwakwana zvakakwana. Munhu wese ane zvigaro zvepachivande zvemweya, zvakavanzika uye zvakasiyana-siyana, kukunda kwepamusoro, izvo zvaanoda kuzviisa pachena. Nokudaro, uchitarisa tarisiro yekufambidzana neIndaneti, iva wakatendeseka iwe pachako uye usasimbisa zvifananidzo zvisiri izvo. Kusvikira iwe ukaona munhu achizviona, kusvikira wataura naye kwechinguva kwechinguva, zvichava zvakaoma kwauri kuti unzwisise kuti chii chaizvoizvo uye chii chaunofanira kutarisira.
Iwe uchatamba mutambo
Zvichida, zvakakosha kutaurirana zvakasiyana nezve rudo mumitambo yekuIndaneti. Kurarama munyika yakawanda, kusika nekuputira unhu, tinosangana nevamwe vatambi, taurirana, tibatsirane. Nokufamba kwenguva, kutarisa pamunhu wacho kunotanga kuonekwa sekuti munhu chaiye chaiye, watine shamwari, watinoda naye. Maikirwo akanaka uye chiso chakanaka chemasimba edu chinogadzira kuitika kwekuvapo. Mukuwedzera, mumitambo yakawanda unogona kugadzira mhuri uye mamwe mavara. Uye kazhinji zvinoitika kuti vanhu vanowira murudo mumutambo, kutamisa manzwiro aya muzvokwadi, uye zvino zvakanyanya kuvhiringidzika. Zvinosuruvarisa, izvi zvakajeka. Usambokanganwa kuti mutambo uyu mutambo. Kutanga kutamba, vanenge vanhu vose vakapfeka masikisi. Zvechokwadi, kune vamwe vanoramba vari zvakafanana nehupenyu, asi kune vashomanana vavo. Chaizvoizvo, vatambi vakashandurwa zvachose pakarepo pavanenge vachitsvaga pa "purogiramu" kumutambo wekuIndaneti. Havangori kunzwa semunhu anotsvaga uyo anorayira zvinyorwa zvezvinhu zvina uye anogona kuurayiwa nemashiripiti emhuka ipi zvayo. Aiwa, vanonzwa sevarume, vakomana vechikomana vanogara chaizvo munyika ino. Uye kana iri mumitambo yemutambo mumwe munhu ane ruregerero runomuka, kuratidzira flirting uye kuvimbisa kungasave kuratidzwa kwemanzwiro omunhu agere pamberi pekuona. Aiwa, manzwiro aya ose ndeyemunhu, uyo munhu akauya ane basa. Mumitambo yeInternet, vanhu vakadaro vanozvibvumira kuti vade murudo, kufara, kutaura zvinhu zvakaderera, asi muupenyu chaihwo vanogona kuongorora chimwe chinhu chokusangana, varoora kana kuroora. Iyi miitiro inonzwisisika. Izvi zvichida kusava nehanya kwechidimbu chevanodikanwa, kana kuti mhepo ine mhepo uye inonyangadza, iyo inowanikwa muhupenyu, asi mumutambo inokubvumira kuti uome, hauna chokwadi. Saka, usatora zvakanakisisa kutamba mitambo uye kuda zvidhadhi. Funga nezvako iwe, rudo rworudzii rwaunogona kutaura nezvazvo, kana iwe uri mufananidzo wakafanana. Kunyange kana iwe ukaramba uchikurukura kwete mumutambo chete, asi zvakare mu Skype kana kuti unosangana, unoenderera mberi kuchiona sechikamu chemutambo, nyika inofungidzira inofanirwa mune dzose-ine simba, yakangwara, yakanaka, ine zivo inoshamisa uye unyanzvi. Kuti urege kuora mwoyo, unofanira kugara uchiyeuka izvi uye kwete kuvaka mafungiro. Zvechokwadi, sezvakaratidzwa zvinoratidza, vazhinji vanozivana, izvo zvinoitika pamusana pekukurukurirana kwechokwadi, zvinounza kuora mwoyo.
Asi zvakadaro, mumwe haagoni kutaura nechivimbo zvachose kuti mazivikanwi evanhu vese havana hutarisiro. Kungofanana kuti urege kuva nezvivimbo zvakaoma, unoda kuronga musangano nokukurumidza sezvinobvira muupenyu chaihwo. Kana munhu achiramba misangano yakadaro, saka iye haatauri nekutaura kwakadaro zvakanyanyisa kana kuzvibata zvakasiyana zvakasiyana kupfuura muupenyu. Saka, usatya kutaura pamusoro pemisangano chaiye. Kunyatsopindura mhinduro dzemibvunzo yakadaro ichava "litmus paper", iyo ichasarudza tarisiro yehukama hwehukama uhwu.