Vakadzi vane pamuviri havangogadziri mamiriro matsva anofadza, asiwo kodzero itsva. Uye kuti uzvishandise, dzinoda kuziva. Kodzero dzose dzinotungamirirwa kuchengetedza hutano hweamai nevana remangwana. Vazhinji vashandi nevashandi vehutano vanotya kutarisana nemukadzi ane pamuviri, sekuputsa kodzero dzevakadzi vane pamuviri kunosanganisira kurangwa kwakanyanya.
Ndezvipi kodzero yemukadzi ane pamuviri paanonyora kubvunzurudza kwevakadzi?
Mukadzi ane pamuviri anogona kukwanisa kubhadharwa nepamutemo mune zvevakadzi chero kupi zvayo uye achiwana rubatsiro rwemishonga pasina hutori, asi kwete kunyora pasi panzvimbo yekunyora, muchirevo, iwe unogona kumira mune chero mazano evakadzi aunoda, kunyange akawanikwa mune rimwe guta rakapoteredza.
Kodzero dzebasa pakugamuchira vakadzi vane pamuviri kubasa
Chinyorwa 64 cheRC RF chinotaura zvakajeka kurambidzwa kwekuramba kubvuma mukadzi ane pamuviri kuti ashande. Kana uchitsvaga waunoshandira, munhu anofanira kufunga nezvekufanirwa chete uye unhu hwebhizimisi hwemukadzi ane pamuviri, hapanofanira kusarurwa pane chikamu chemushandi. Kurambidzwa kwekusarura kunoratidzwa muChikamu 3 cheBhuku reMabasa.
Kana mukadzi ane pamuviri ava nechokwadi chokuti akakodzera nzvimbo, asi iye akarambwa, ane kodzero yekubudisa chibvumirano chechigarire kana kuti kuenda kumatare. Paunenge uchitora chibvumirano chekugadzirisa-nguva, kana mukadzi akaramba asina kushanda panguva yekupinda murairo, haazogoni kubatsirwa kwekukuremara kwenguva pfupi. Uyo anoshandira anosungirwa kutora mukadzi ane pamuviri kuti ashande pasina nguva ipi zvayo yekuedza, haagoni kumupedza pamagumo emamiriro aya, kunyange kana mukadzi wacho asina kuratidza unyanzvi hunokosha mubasa racho. Izvi zvinotaurwa muChitsauko 70 cheTC.
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Mukadzi ane pamuviri haagoni kuregererwa, kunyange pasi pechinyorwa (somuenzaniso, nokuda kwebasa risingatenderi, pamusana pokusiya)! Izvi zvinotsanangurwa muChitsauko 261 cheBhuku reBasa. Izvo chete ndeye kuvharwa kwebasa. Mukadzi anogona kubva pachinzvimbo chake pachake paanokumbira.
Dzimwe kodzero dzebasa dzevakadzi vane pamuviri
Mukadzi ari munzvimbo yacho ane kodzero yekuderedza kwevhiki kana kushanda. Zvisinei, mutemo hauna kupa kuchengetedzwa kwemavhareji emari, saka kubhadhara kuchave kwakaenzana nenguva yakashanda.
Rimwe purogiramu yemabasa inokurudzirwa kuti ibudise chibvumirano chekare uye chirongwa chakasiyana (chinowanikwa kusangano rechibasa). Vanofananidza zvido zvekuzorora uye kushanda maawa. Mumwe purogiramu mubhuku rebhuku haritatidzirwe, haibatsiri urefu hwebasa, hazvirevi kudengenyeka kwenguva yezororo yekubhadhara.
Mukadzi ane pamuviri, kunze kwekudzikisa mitemo yekushanda, ane kodzero yekukumbira kuti aendeswe kune imwe nzvimbo (iyo inofanirana nekodzero) kana kune imwe nzvimbo, asi nechinangwa chimwe chete - kuderedza kushata kwakashata. Ivhareji yemari inowanikwa inofanira kuchengetedzwa kana pasina nzvimbo yakakodzera, ipapo mukadzi, ari pachigaro, anosunungurwa kubva kubasa, asi mari yacho inoramba iripo kusvikira nzvimbo yakakodzera ichioneka.
Mushandi wemukadzi ane pamuviri haana kodzero yekuita basa reusiku kana basa rekupedza nguva yakawanda, kutumira muurindi kana rwendo rwebhizimisi, anomubata mubasa pamazororo uye kumavhiki ekupedzisira.
Amai vane ramangwana vane kodzero yekuwana mubhadharo wakakwana wezororo rekuberekwa. Kushanda kunotanga kushanda mushure mekunge mukadzi ane pamuviri atora muvakadzi kubvunzurudza hovha yezorwere. Hondo yemukadzi ane pamuviri yakanyatsogadziriswa uye inofanirwa kuberekwa kwakatarwa kwemazuva makumi manomwe uye mazuva mamwechete mushure mekuberekwa, kunyange kana basa racho rakatanga pashure pemazuva makumi manomwe. Mazororo kumadzimai amangwana anokweretwa 100% emavhareji ehomwe uye haina basa panguva imwe chete, yakareba kwenguva yakareba sei kumushandi asati apiwa mutemo.
Apo mukadzi wacho ari pazororo rekuberekwa, nzvimbo yake yebasa iri kuchengetedzwa, kuderedza kana kuregererwa munyaya iyi haisi mvumo. Kana mukadzi akadzingwa, anogona kudzorerwa kudare. Uyo anoshandira kunze kwekubvumirwa (mukunyora) kwomukadzi anenge ari mutemo kana pazororo yekuchengeta mwana muduku haagoni kumuendesa kune imwe nzvimbo.