Ko musiyano wezera unotamba muhukama here?

Rudo rwemakore ose rwunoteerera, uye mazwi aya haana chokwadi. Zvisinei, kana rudo pakati pezera rinotarisa zvakasikwa, uye haruna kukonzera kukanganisa kwakanyanya, ipapo hukama hwemurume nemukadzi, nehukuru hwakasiyana-siyana, hunofambidzana nemhando dzakasiyana-siyana dzevhesi.


Ndeupi mutsa unowanzoonekwa sehukuru hwakasiyana pakati pevadzidzi? Zvingangodaro, kusiyana kukuru kwezera kune imwe nzvimbo inenge yakapoteredza makore 15, 25, 35, 45, musiyano pakati pemisi yekuzvarwa kwevamwe. Mitsara pfupi - 3, 5, 7, 10, 14, makore ane gumi nemana, inofanirwa kufungidzirwa sezera rakanaka rakasiyana pakati pemurume nemudzimai muukama, nekuda kwerudo uye kusikwa kwehukama hwemhuri.
Uye zvakadaro, zvipi zvese zviri pano zvakagadziriswa, uye munhu haagoni kutora nokufungidzira kana kusiyana kwezera revakaroorana kuchiita basa muhukama. Pano tinofanira kufungisisa kwete chete khalendari, asiwo gore repfungwa dzevaya vanobatsirana.

Dzimwe nguva zvinowanzoitika kuti mukomana wechidiki ane makore 18-19 achavhara bhanhire rekukura kwekufunga, maonero, hupenyu hwehupenyu, bhizinesi acumen uye kutarisira munhu wake mukuru anodiwa 35 kana kunyange nemakore 55, anoita seakakura, asi muzhchinku ane udyire uye anozvifunga , kunze kwekuda kwake, haadi kuona chinhu uye kunzwa kumativi ose.

Uye dzimwe nguva zvinowanzoitika kuti musikana muduku, anoshamisika pachake, ari mumaoko eAralacelace ane ruzivo, uye panguva imwechete inorashikirwa kwete umhandara hwake chete, asiwo chikamu chepfungwa dzake, asingatombozorori anozviisa kuna "tenzi" uye kutamba pamberi pake pamakumbo ake akafanana nembwa .

Zvechokwadi vanhu vose vakasiyana uye havana kufanana, naizvozvo hazvibviri kutaura zvakananga kana kusiyana kwemazera kuchange kuchiita basa rinokosha muhukama hwechipiri ichi chemurume-mukadzi.

Mumwe anogona kungotaura zvakasimba kuti vanhu vazhinji vanokanganisa kuti "vane makore makumi matanhatu vane makore havana kuita zvepabonde". Itavira kuti vamwe vakwegura vakashanda vanogona kuita zvepabonde kakawanda uye kwenguva yakareba kupfuura mamwe majeke.
Hongu, uye kusvibiswa kwomuviri, uye makumbo anozivikanwa, mune zvepabonde-kwete chipingamupinyi. Iwe unowanzojaira kukanganisa kwakadaro kwomuviri uye munhu nokukurumidza. Uye kunyange kana pakutanga paine zvishoma zvishoma, saka kazhinji hauna kuzviona zvachose. Kutaura zvazviri, muviri wemukadzi kana murume ane makore makumi mashanu haasi yakasiyana zvikuru nemakore makumi maviri nemashanu, kunyanya kana munhu ari kuzvitarisa. Uye vanasikana vose 'vanowanzotevera izvi zvakanyatso.

Nezvepfungwa yehukama, kana murume mukuru kudarika mukadzi, uye mukuru kune zvakawanda, saka iye anokosha. Kana iye akwegura kwete chete nezera, asiwo nemafungiro omukomana wake wechidiki, kana ane unhu hwakasimba, ndiye anotamba sechikamu chababa kana mudzidzisi maererano neaanoda.

Kana ari musikana muduku, akanaka uye akanaka, uye ari murume akweguru, asi akashamiswa mune zvepabonde, ipapo hukama huri pakati pavo hunogona, asi chete huchapa kushushikana pachikamu chake uye mesochism - pamwe naye.
Varume vezera vakanyengera zvikuru. Izvo zvakadai kuti iwe unogona kungoshamisa. Kune mumwe wevadzidzi vake iye achangotaura kuti kuona sei hakudi nyaya N, uye nyaya imwechete H mumasekondi mashanu inoita tsika "anus leasing" pane foni. Uye, kana iwe ukamubvunza - "Wakasununguka nhasi here?", 7 vakadzi vakasiyana vachawana mhinduro 7 dzakasiyana. Zvinosuruvarisa, varume vakawanda avo vakakura kupfuura vakadzi vanowanzove vane vavariro dzakatendeseka uye pfungwa dzakanaka.

Vakadzi ivavo chete avo vakatova mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro vanoziva kuti iwe unodzvinyirirwa nekuderera kwako sei nekuda kwekuti iwe hauna kuroora uye iwe wakasarudzwa haatombofungi kukuroora iwe. Uye iwe unozvitambudza iwe nemubvunzo - "Uye kana ndakatarirwa kuroorwa zvachose? Uye vakadzi vakaita seni vanoroora here, kana ini ndinogona kuva mhodzi woupenyu hwangu hwose? "
Uye maonero anorwadza mune ramangwana tariro? Chii chichaitika mumwedzi mitanhatu, gore, makore maviri, mashanu kubva zvino? Kuti ave madzimambo asingagumi? Pasina tarisiro, vasina vana, vasina hupenyu hwavo?
Kana iwe uchitarisa mamiriro ezvinhu apo mukadzi akwegura kupfuura murume, zvino munyaya iyi, sekutonga, nyaya dzinokosha hadzibudi. Chinhu chikuru icho mukadzi aigona kuona mumusanangurwa wake shamwari yakanaka, uye rubatsiro rwechokwadi.

Dambudziko guru muukama, kana mukadzi akwegura kupfuura murume, ndeyekuti kana iye atova nemakore 45, 55, 60, iye atove, zviri pachena, haazokwanisi kuita kuti mwana wake uye iye akasarudzwa asakwanisa kuwana mufaro webaba. Zvisinei, sezvinoratidzira tsika yebhizimisi remazuva ano, uye kwete kuratidza bhizimisi, vechidiki vakawanda vanofarira kuchinja usiku husina kurara neve vagary uye kuchema kwevana vacheche mukududzirwa uye mukurumbira, asi bedzi kana vakagara muchengeti regoridhe.

Nokudaro, kupfupisa kumusoro, tinoona izvozvo, hongu, kusiyana kwezera, kana mutemo, kunokonzera kusabatana kweukama husina kukodzera kana kuroorana kwakasiyana, mune imwe yevadzidzi kana vese vakaroorana vanotambura nehuwandu hwemagariro evanhu, hwepfungwa, hwepanyama, hwehupenyu, zvinhu uye zvimwe kusarura uye kukanganisa. Chero zvingava, rudo ndewomutambo weRussia roulette. Zvisinei, kana mukadzi akakura zvikuru kupfuura murume wake, kana kuti munhu mukuru kune iye akasanangurwa, ipapo njodzi yekuita kuuraya kunouraya kunogadzirisa matambudziko ose akambomira pamusoro peizvi, kuwedzera kwegumi kune izvi mutemo wezvisikwa, uye hatigoni kukakavara naye. Kunyange zvazvo zviripo kune izvo zvisiri izvo kune chero mutemo.